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Feeling Like I Dont Belong

GalaxyDreamer90

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For as long as I can remember I have had this overwhelming feeling as though I dont belong on this planet but on another world. As a young child I would mention about a peaceful forest world and about a month ago I had a past life regression confirming that I do indeed come from a peaceful forest world. What can I do about this overwhelming feeling I get that I dont belong. I have some friends but despite that I still feel odd and like I dont belong. I even try doing things that remind me of the forest world such as walking in the park, but despite that I still have this feeling. What can I do?
 
Think about the fact that you, as your higher self, decided to incarnate here, and now, for some reason. Instead of longing for other lives, and places, try to find out what is the purpose of your current incarnation!

Your regression should've tried to find your current life's purpose. Sometimes you can't get it, because you aren't yet close to have achieved it. At least, your regression should've given you the purposes of each one of the lives you were regressed to.
 
Unfortunately when I had my past life regression it was cut short by my mom. My parents aren't really into past lives and stuff like that like I am. Still I could try meditating on why I'm here in this time and place. Maybe there is even a guided meditation on YouTube to help me find my purpose in this life. That is if I do have a purpose. I do believe there are some people who have absolutely no purpose at all.
 
Your regression should've tried to find your current life's purpose. Sometimes you can't get it, because you aren't yet close to have achieved it. At least, your regression should've given you the purposes of each one of the lives you were regressed to.
None of my regressions gave me that, it just showed me parts of different lives and what I got out of them was why I can't stand certain things or why I'm (bordering on) obsessed with certain things/eras

I too often have the feeling that I don't belong here but in my case that's in part caused by being tired of this cycle and just want to go home, wherever that may be
 
... That is if I do have a purpose. I do believe there are some people who have absolutely no purpose at all.
As far as I believe, every life fulfills its purpose; even a spontaneously aborted one.

You may be too young to learn your life's purpose now, but keep trying! You can also try life progression into your future, by yourself through auto-hypnosis, or under guidance. Look it up with google, and on youtube!
 
Okay I'll also look into meditating on my future in this life. Hopefully that won't be hard for me since I'm able to see into the future sometimes in my dreams. By the way I asked my higher self what my purpose is and they said I have a big purpose in this life, which would make sense since my mom almost died before I was even born.
 
Find something that excites you enough to get you out of bed early in the morning . Find something that makes your heart stir...volunteering is a great start. That is how i found my passion...if you love the forest and feel you are drawn to it perhaps look into saving the animals that are being poached to death:( A lot of these places look for volunteers in exchange for shelter and food etc. I too was always drawn to the forest but remembered a past life as a tribal girl in the Amazon. My favorite places are full with trees, flowers and animals...
 
Hi GalaxyDreamer, the best advice I can give you is to focus on what you do connect with in this world, I agree with Baro-San you obviously came here for a reason, maybe it's your time to try other worlds out, who knows. Focus what you do connect with, spend time with the people in this life you feel a connection with as they have probably shared past lifetimes with you too. And the things your not used to you will get used to eventually. you just need to train yourself to get used to them, just like you do when you learn a new skill for example. I can imagine if you are from another world it must feel really alien to you, but I know you'll get used to things, you just need to stay strong and positive and try to find your purpose here. Don't look too hard it will come to you eventually, just try different things out and spend time with your closest friends and family and try new things out, ask people to encourage you, having someone there for you to tell you well done when you've tried something new is a great confidence boost. I know it would help you alot :) anyway best of luck! that's my advice.
 
I've tried many things and there just seems to be nothing I connect with in this world. And what does it matter anyway when people on this planet are so hurtful.
 
I'm sorry to hear that, alot of people on this site care though and understand where your coming from, there's a start :) it's not easy but you just need to get used to it. you should go out and try to make some friends, the people you meet and click with will be people you've met in past lives and I know you will find them. you just need to be brave and do it. maybe you should sit and have a quiet moment and just think, you don't need to meditate if you find it tricky, write down what you feel, anything that comes to you, even small things, things can make sense later on., also dreams. Your parents and family members for a start are people you've definately shared a past life with, what do you feel from them, writing down anything that comes to you can help :) I feel like i've probably had a past life on another world but alot of lives back, i've had hundreds on earth since then, if this is your first life here it's gonna take alot of getting used to, maybe that's your lives purpose.
 
I've been told I should keep trying to find the things I can connect to, but I'm still unsure that will work. Also I just dont think there is anyone on this planet I can relate too. I sadly seem to be the only one like me.
 
Yeah I do think I was a young soul on the other planet. Probably still am I dont know. Also I'm getting more information on my purpose in this life. Appeartly it's to use my talents that I have in this life so I'm going to use my talents more and see where my talents end up taking me.
 
I think I can understand what you're feeling. When I was young I often said that I felt different from others, that I should come from another planet, that there was nobody like me. I know it's difficult but you have to open to others. You said there's nobody you can relate on. Maybe you can create such a relation. Trust me, take a bit of risks and your life will open up as well. You will have good and bad surprises to say the truth, but that's life. Your melancholic feelings will never disappear at all, but if you start focusing on other things it will fade down. Life is not a simple way, but you have to go this way.
 
Yes, you are the only one like you, but you are not alone. Others have felt this way at one point in time or another. Is there something that you are interested in? List your interests out on a piece of paper. What do you like? Find that out and then you can find people who have similar interests and connect that way.
 
I made a list of my interest and I'm starting to look at groups of people with similar interest on meetup.com. I found a group on meetup that looks interestimg. Its an anime/manga and video game club. Also I'm interested in computers and video games and I dont think my college has a computer club so I might look into getting a computer club started at my college.
 
Galaxy, you sound perhaps depressed and my recommendation is to try and get some counseling. I am sure there are thousands like you...tell us what makes you so different and maybe we can help you. It is not easy to give advise on so little..i would recommend saving a dog on death row. Call your local animal shelter and start there...bonding with an animal can be magical. They really are mans best friend..
 
I already see a counselor and I also already two cats from the local animal shelter almost 2 years ago. I still feel alone though. Mainly because I feel like I'm the only one with this certain phobia. I wont say what it is because its embarrassing.
 
we know nothing about you.:)))))...we don't know if you are a male or female:)) ..we dont know your age:)))...so share your phobia...trust me i have heard it all:)) No judgement..
 
No I cant. It's too embarrassing. Like I said I'm most likely the only one with this phobia. Even my psychiatrist said he had never heard of someone with this phobia before.
 
i will tell you that you are letting your own brain get in the way of your happiness so re-think your negative behaviors....what country are you in?
 
sorry i missed the anime and computer club idea message....all good ideas. You don't sound so different than many college youth..ok you have a phobia. Maybe it is a pass life thing..don't stress out about it.
 
My phobia could come from a past life, but I cant remember enough to know for sure and that I do remember my phobia seems to come more from traumatic experiences I had in this life then past life.
 
there you go..a traumatic experience can cause a phobia..you got that right...google getting over phobias. When i was little i got locked in a dark basement by accident...i remember not being able to see anything and becoming terrified of the dark after that (phobia) When i was younger i stayed in a 500 year old haunted castle in England....i was woken by a ghost at 3am. It was pitch dark in the room which was huge..i could not find the light. I remember i started to have a meltdown...my husband guided me through it. He also could not find a light and heard the ghost...we both experienced a totally weird event where the room felt like a black hole ...to make a long story short after that episode i was not so afraid of the dark. Kind of lost that one and only phobia..facing your worst fear and living through it, embracing it can help you get over it
 
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