Not here by choice?

[Li. La.]

Just wondering if it is a free choice to be reborn or if one is forced to do so? Does anyone out there remember being in heaven and what the deal was there? And if one refuses to be reborn - then what?

Best Wishes
Li La

 

[glia21]

Just wondering if it is a free choice to be reborn or if one is forced to do so? Does anyone out there remember being in heaven and what the deal was there? And if one refuses to be reborn - then what?

Best Wishes
Li La

I'm curious what others will reply. How do you feel about it yourself? I have a feeling I was being drawn here because of two people who were already incarnated. And perhaps a deal I might have made with my husband to meet up. But I do not remember "heaven".
Funny thing, last week my 2y old mentioned - while we were driving thru a tunnel, pointing at the white light above us, excited, screaming mama - mama - she had been there and seen it before - but without me. I was not there. Of course she could have meant the tunnel but as much as I know she hadn't ever been driving through it without me. Her voice was different too, so serious and thoughtful. I have no clue what exactly she meant but she was really thinking about being somewhere... and being there without me. Except for kindergarten she's hardly ever without me.

 

[Li. La.]

Well, I don't remember a heaven either. Maybe I was not let in . I don't remember why I came here for. I understand the thought behind it - that we are here to learn and to be with our soul group.

Think a lot of people here on feel out of place, whilst other seem so positive; of course this could be different at different stages in life and depending on what is happening in their life. Maybe some was not given the choice but was forced in one way or another to come here?

Your story about your daughter's response in the tunnel is beautiful to read