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opposite of past life experience?

Jaimie

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hi, just wanna know if anyone else recognize themselves in this

apparently in a past life I had the most complicated and heartbroken love life no matter what I did and it pretty much destroyed my life. I don't know why this was. I could tell I gave everything I had and more to try to make the relationships work but they just didn't ( the longest relationship was with someone who had mob connections which was why I was afraid to leave him because I thought he would loose his mind and he nearly did. I was afraid he would seek revenge. I was terrified when he told me of his friends, I did not know this when we became involved and when I did it was too late to get out )

In my own life I feel very blessed to have it easy this time around being happily married for a long time. this is of course no guarantee that it will last a life time, but so far so good, right ( cross my fingers ). On the other hand lots of chaos has happened in my life that I had no control over, that I just had to survive somehow and I did.

I am just stunned how it could be so different from one life to the other.

has anyone else had the opposite thing happening in current life than the previous one concerning relationships?
 
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Probably had more than your share and was loosing or had lost your faith in relationships why you had to balance it up to have it easy this time around so the other parts of pain (chaos) was moved elsewhere in your life?
 
Strangely enough, I have the opposite situation that you do. My past life relationships seemed so wonderfully simple for the most part, while my relationships right now are considerably more complex.
 
hi, just wanna know if anyone else recognize themselves in this

apparently in a past life I had the most complicated and heartbroken love life no matter what I did and it pretty much destroyed my life. I don't know why this was. I could tell I gave everything I had and more to try to make the relationships work but they just didn't ( the longest relationship was with someone who had mob connections which was why I was afraid to leave him because I thought he would loose his mind and he nearly did. I was afraid he would seek revenge. I was terrified when he told me of his friends, I did not know this when we became involved and when I did it was too late to get out )

In my own life I feel very blessed to have it easy this time around being happily married for a long time. this is of course no guarantee that it will last a life time, but so far so good, right ( cross my fingers ). On the other hand lots of chaos has happened in my life that I had no control over, that I just had to survive somehow and I did.

I am just stunned how it could be so different from one life to the other.

has anyone else had the opposite thing happening in current life than the previous one concerning relationships?
Jaimie,

Thanks for the post by the way! That was a very good question to ask and it was a very good observation on your part :) Not sure if I can answer this but I will try. The karma we create does not always follow us into the next life per-say! but in some cases it will be postponed until a later time when we are spiritual evolved enough and ready to handle the karmic lessons necessary to learn from it. So in the interim we work on other things instead and are given a break in a sense by reaping some of the good karma that has been stored up and waiting be to expressed or experienced. Most souls usually do this by choosing a more easier lifetime in the physical world with wealth, good relationships, friends, good health ect… However they run the risk of creating more bad karma in the long run by misusing this situation for the betterment of the lower ego rather then the higher self. They waste their riches, and power for trivial means and pursuits and in the end create more karma then needed that keeps them trapped in the cycle of rebirth again. Lovely little system is it not? This is how the lower worlds were created. Kind of like the movie the matrix. To keep soul trapped in the physical and lower astral worlds. After all gold chains bind one just as well as iron ones do. Even better because the prisoner does not want to leave. Others souls that do understand the game of Maya and the illusion of the physical and lower astral worlds wait and decide to experience their good karma on the higher dimensions instead or by being of service to humanity as spiritual teachers, helpers, healers, light workers ect…. In doing so they break the cycle of reincarnation (at least on the physical level anyway) all together thru enlightenment over time and up lifting humanities state of consciousness.

In your case from the sound of it this is mostly karma on the emotional level as most LTR are karmic in nature. So there is a balancing out of debit on both sides to work things out. This is all done and planed out on the causal/soul plane or dimension before incarnation as this is above time, space and matter before we transcend downwards into the lower worlds of duality which are the mental, astral and physical dimensions. Here time is experienced on a linear level rather then aa a singularity in the higher dimensions were all possible outcomes and events are experienced and viewed all at once.

So in the physical the karma is worked out depending upon the karmic lessons needed to learn so soul can become more well rounded out as a spiritual being taking ownership for the creation of its reality. So mentally you are aware of this! Which is actually very good! Emotionally I can't say. As this is your journey to decided what to do with your good karma your experiencing now. The fact that your aware of this shows your spiritually mature enough to do something really special with this awareness. What ever you do with this do it with all your heart my dear and you can't go wrong.

Thanks for the wonderful post! Pleasant travels....

Love and peace... P.
 
Jaimie,

Thanks for the post by the way! That was a very good question to ask and it was a very good observation on your part :) Not sure if I can answer this but I will try. The karma we create does not always follow us into the next life per-say! but in some cases it will be postponed until a later time when we are spiritual evolved enough and ready to handle the karmic lessons necessary to learn from it. So in the interim we work on other things instead and are given a break in a sense by reaping some of the good karma that has been stored up and waiting be to expressed or experienced. Most souls usually do this by choosing a more easier lifetime in the physical world with wealth, good relationships, friends, good health ect… However they run the risk of creating more bad karma in the long run by misusing this situation for the betterment of the lower ego rather then the higher self. They waste their riches, and power for trivial means and pursuits and in the end create more karma then needed that keeps them trapped in the cycle of rebirth again. Lovely little system is it not? This is how the lower worlds were created. Kind of like the movie the matrix. To keep soul trapped in the physical and lower astral worlds. After all gold chains bind one just as well as iron ones do. Even better because the prisoner does not want to leave. Others souls that do understand the game of Maya and the illusion of the physical and lower astral worlds wait and decide to experience their good karma on the higher dimensions instead or by being of service to humanity as spiritual teachers, helpers, healers, light workers ect…. In doing so they break the cycle of reincarnation (at least on the physical level anyway) all together thru enlightenment over time and up lifting humanities state of consciousness.

In your case from the sound of it this is mostly karma on the emotional level as most LTR are karmic in nature. So there is a balancing out of debit on both sides to work things out. This is all done and planed out on the causal/soul plane or dimension before incarnation as this is above time, space and matter before we transcend downwards into the lower worlds of duality which are the mental, astral and physical dimensions. Here time is experienced on a linear level rather then aa a singularity in the higher dimensions were all possible outcomes and events are experienced and viewed all at once.

So in the physical the karma is worked out depending upon the karmic lessons needed to learn so soul can become more well rounded out as a spiritual being taking ownership for the creation of its reality. So mentally you are aware of this! Which is actually very good! Emotionally I can't say. As this is your journey to decided what to do with your good karma your experiencing now. The fact that your aware of this shows your spiritually mature enough to do something really special with this awareness. What ever you do with this do it with all your heart my dear and you can't go wrong.

Thanks for the wonderful post! Pleasant travels....

Love and peace... P.
Thank you so much for your kind and very interesting reply :)
 
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