openmindedmom
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Hi,
I have been reading this forum for a few days now and I think this is where should post my questions.
I have two children, both girls, one is 13 (14 in about 7 days) the other just turned 10. I have a very good friend who is also a child therapist that has told me both of my kids are Indigo Kids- I am only vaguely aware of what that means and I haven't done much research yet. But I talked to her about some of these things to make sure my kids didn't need therapy. She said nope their fine, their just Indigo kids...
The reason I am posting here is I guess to validate what I feel like is going on as well as to ask you to point me in the direction of good reading material so that I don't stifle the spirituality out of my kids.
My 13 year old has always been very different from most kids. From the time she was born she has always had this way of wisdom about her. She started talking at 8 months old, has never been one to play with toys, is highly intelligent and doesn't really relate well to kids her own age but relates well to older people. Here's the part/parts I am curious about. She see's what she calls lights around people. If we are in a store she will talk about complete strangers or people we are meeting for the first time she'll say "Oh I like so and so they have a good light around them" Or "Mom that person over there makes my skin crawl they have a bad dark light around them..." These dark lights seem to disturb her greatly almost as if they scare her. Is she seeing what I am guessing would be Aura's? ( again something I don't know anything about.)
She has been scared of the dark her whole life and still at 13 sleeps with a night light. She says she see's things at night but she hasn't really described these things and I haven't pushed her on it. She talks about very realistic dreams of deceased relatives and pets. Animals, babies and small children flock to her and love her. Once when she was 4 years old she said to me "Mom, why does it feel different when dad kisses me goodnight than it does when Jesus kisses me goodnight?" This wouldn't be so shocking except at that point she had never even been to church..Ever.
Now for my 10 year old. She has always made comments like "When I was a boy I used to do this or that." She came to me when she was 7 and she said "Mom when you die you come back again as someone else"
She is extremely drawn to all things Native American and also to rocks (she has fascination with rocks that could almost be obsessive??) She is extremely talented with anything Artsy and has been choreographing dances since she was about 4 years old. She also draws extremely well. She plays well with other kids when she's around them but prefers to play alone lots of the time.
Oh and her birthmark (which I am writing about only because I have read so many post here regarding them and it may be relavent) She has a very large oval shaped dark birthmark on her wrist...
Well sorry this was so long although I could say much more. I look forward to your opinions.
Have a great day!
I have been reading this forum for a few days now and I think this is where should post my questions.
I have two children, both girls, one is 13 (14 in about 7 days) the other just turned 10. I have a very good friend who is also a child therapist that has told me both of my kids are Indigo Kids- I am only vaguely aware of what that means and I haven't done much research yet. But I talked to her about some of these things to make sure my kids didn't need therapy. She said nope their fine, their just Indigo kids...
The reason I am posting here is I guess to validate what I feel like is going on as well as to ask you to point me in the direction of good reading material so that I don't stifle the spirituality out of my kids.
My 13 year old has always been very different from most kids. From the time she was born she has always had this way of wisdom about her. She started talking at 8 months old, has never been one to play with toys, is highly intelligent and doesn't really relate well to kids her own age but relates well to older people. Here's the part/parts I am curious about. She see's what she calls lights around people. If we are in a store she will talk about complete strangers or people we are meeting for the first time she'll say "Oh I like so and so they have a good light around them" Or "Mom that person over there makes my skin crawl they have a bad dark light around them..." These dark lights seem to disturb her greatly almost as if they scare her. Is she seeing what I am guessing would be Aura's? ( again something I don't know anything about.)
She has been scared of the dark her whole life and still at 13 sleeps with a night light. She says she see's things at night but she hasn't really described these things and I haven't pushed her on it. She talks about very realistic dreams of deceased relatives and pets. Animals, babies and small children flock to her and love her. Once when she was 4 years old she said to me "Mom, why does it feel different when dad kisses me goodnight than it does when Jesus kisses me goodnight?" This wouldn't be so shocking except at that point she had never even been to church..Ever.
Now for my 10 year old. She has always made comments like "When I was a boy I used to do this or that." She came to me when she was 7 and she said "Mom when you die you come back again as someone else"
She is extremely drawn to all things Native American and also to rocks (she has fascination with rocks that could almost be obsessive??) She is extremely talented with anything Artsy and has been choreographing dances since she was about 4 years old. She also draws extremely well. She plays well with other kids when she's around them but prefers to play alone lots of the time.
Oh and her birthmark (which I am writing about only because I have read so many post here regarding them and it may be relavent) She has a very large oval shaped dark birthmark on her wrist...
Well sorry this was so long although I could say much more. I look forward to your opinions.
Have a great day!
