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Does a spirit know when you think about them?

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Hi there.Idk why I always keep disappearing for a couple of weeks or so and then out of the sudden come back,but it is what it is lol. idk if I asked this question on here before,but just to be Shure I'll ask it another time then.So I keep thinking about this specific person from my past life all the time,but like all the time,and even if I'm busy doing something else/thinking about something else he is still in the back of my mind somewhere.The problem is is that I sometimes feel guilty for thinking so much about him,and I got the idea somewhere that spirits can actually read minds.I think I got this idea from a mix of different sources,but this idea I developed has something to do with that your thoughts can be some sort of "energy" too and that spirits might be able to read them/get to see what you're thinking about.This idea makes sence to me,but at the same time freaks me out a bit bc if that all where true I would feel pretty embarrassedo_O.Because somewhere I'm just scared that I may be bothering him by thinking about him so much.As I'm written this,more "plot theories" kind of start to form in my head about all this.In my previous post I was talking about the past life dream that I had.And the same person that I'm now talking about was prominently present in that dream.The thing is,that evening before I had the dream I was defenitly thinking about him a lot,and then" boom" he is out of the sudden in the dream I had that same night.So now I'm starting to consider that it may have been possible that he knew he was thought about and found his way into my dream??But on the other hand this theory seems pretty strange too since it possibly was a event from that life and all.But it just felt so real and like he was actually there togheter with all the surroundings....Okay sorry I'm pretty much rambling right now,but I hope i'ts still kind of clear what I'm taking about.But my main question defenitly was if spirits could tell if you think about them and of they could possibly read your mind.I hope someone can help me bc now I got myself confusedo_O
 
Short answer: Yes.

Spirit operate off thought and if you think about them, they will know as they have no veil. Whenever you think of someone whether you have a connection to them or not (even if from a past life) you must always send them love because you don’t know what lessons they chose to learn in their lifetimes or why they behaved as did.

Eva x
 
Short answer: Yes.

Spirit operate off thought and if you think about them, they will know as they have no veil. Whenever you think of someone whether you have a connection to them or not (even if from a past life) you must always send them love because you don’t know what lessons they chose to learn in their lifetimes or why they behaved as did.

Eva x
Uh oh o_Othat actually makes sence,but hey,I just hope they can't actually read everything that I'm thinking about though
 
In my experience as a half baked psychic, yes, although it doesn't happen every single time.

There's been more than enough times where I've thought about a deceased friend only for them to promptly make a brief appearance.
 
Hi

I am not very confident in any of this as it is only based on my own experiences, I have not read nor have not read about spirits being able to read or minds, our very thoughts.

When I was a ghost from a past life in the 1920's, I can not remember reading people's thoughts, even those that I was very close to in life. I do not think I had the ability. I could of course see in their face and body expression and depending on the situation what they could have thought but that is not the same as me knowing what they thought.

Now I do not know if you are referring to spirits that has crossed over and that they have this ability. Perhaps they do ? If so it would be interesting to know how does one know that a spirit can read one's thoughts ? How would this work ?

I have yet another life where I was a ghost and where I do not think I was trapped. I was still kind of busy watching over loved ones, and well, not so loved ones, and I can honestly say that I could not read an ex's thoughts. I was just as surprised as the person he was attacking at one point. If I now could have read his thoughts I would have not been so surprised.

But who knows ? Maybe I was a not so good spirit who lacked this ability to read thoughts. It would be fun to know, though, if anyone here remembers being a spirit and being able to read other people's thoughts :)

What I remember having from the life in the 1950's was a mental connection with someone who I later learn viewed me as his soulmate, his "better half" as he put it (nah...don't think I deserved that, though) in a psychiatrist's office long after our break up, and extracts from his session was quite recently published. As much as different things had happened in our lives and we had extremely little contact with one another, and had new loves, it was as if this mental connection we had still stood no matter what. It was terrible for us both. I had a secret depression at the time, and he had anger management problems which had led him to the psychiatrist's office. He could not turn off his feelings of being so worried about me. Said of all his friends, I was the only one he worried about. (friends, and friends -- we saw each other very few minutes at a time, standing far apart as I would inform him of something. But we had promised to separate as friends, so I don't know if that is what he meant by it). He said he would give everything he had meaning then his new found success, money, if it could only make him stop worrying and for me to be happy. So he could not turn it off. I could not turn my mental connection with him off either.

When he died, he quickly became more and more famed. I have read an old article where an interview took place with a medium who claimed that his spirit had difficult to release itself to the upper realms because of all the emotions, thoughts, the growing number of fans had, that it sort of worked as some kind of energy, if I now understand it right.

I do think thoughts have power and if you have a mental connection with someone you can impact each other, forth and back, in life but perhaps in death too. That is as far as I feel I can go with my thoughts on this subject.

I do think that spirits on the other side way's of communicating is telepathic.

One time I had a dream where I "screamed" someone's name, calling out, again and again and at the same time I was looking and found, that someone. That someone was in real life in a coma, arranged by the doctors to help keep her alive as organ after organ started to fail on her, she was in a fragile state. This would happen several times in my dreams that I would remember that I would talk to her. I would tell her about what was going on with her and what the next plan was. Then when she improved they took her out of her coma and when I met her she hugged me real tight and thanked me for having visited her where it now was she had been. I had promised myself not to say anything because frankly I thought this was only dreams I had had, and of course having been worried about her I likely must have dreamed about her. If this is true then we must have used telepathic ways to communicate. So then I would say that spirits do know each other's thoughts and communicate through thoughts. Still I can't say a spirit can read a human brain's thoughts.

I wonder too in my own case that why I get re-lived traumas, of the person that my past life self had a mental connection with, if it is coming from me -- or perhaps even him. Our situation was that we got into an argument when he learn I was pregnant (by him), when it ended with him telling me I was on my own then. I held him to his words. I took distance from him. When he called I could not take his calls. I was very hurt, but I had a mask on as if to say to him I took it light, everything was fine, it was my way of protecting myself. I did not know what we were, or if we were anything anymore. It was such a terrible mess, and me being pregnant, and not married with him made it most likely 10 times worse. My plan was to somehow take care of this alone and not pressure him into marriage. At the time I was so hurt, but I still had some dignity in me and I did not want marriage to him because I was convinced from before that his first priority was his beloved career out in Hollywood, and his freedom and that I loved him more and there was nothing either of us could do about it. I honestly don't know what priority I nor the baby to come had with him and I was not gonna stick around to find that out either. At the time we could not really work it out. I lost the baby too. At least I told him that so he too could close the door on the past, as he had asked before "but what about the baby?".

When he realized he was really loosing me it was as if he woke up too late, and he started to try to break in the doors. This is what I often get emotional scenes from, him trying to reach me but he can't get all the way and we're loosing each other. At the time being because of my mental state a parent had a psychiatrist on me and I knew one step in the wrong direction (being reconciled with the ex) would mean they would take complete charge over me, and the baby I still carried in secret. So even if he one time showed up and try to make me leave the house, to go with him, after our break up, with intense looking eyes, and his hand reaching out to me, I stood frozen and the parent stood in between, threatening to call important people, and the police. I don't know if he realized to full capacity the jam I was in at the time. I was worried about him too, what could be done to him. To me everything already felt too late. I had no choice.
So anyways, with me these are scenes that often shows up. I don't know if I imagine the feeling of him out of my own remembrance or if it is still him, somehow, but if it is I can't explain that either.
When I studied his life and work by close ones published afterwards, in recent times, I can tell he caught on too late, he had regrets and he tried to get me back, but he couldn't. What he did get in return was the fame, the success, the one thing he had put before me, us, in the past so he did not loose me over nothing. There was one time I got in the hospital and he called and said he had a terrible feeling something had happened to me and then he got the news. As we were talking he was trying to cheer me up so he made a joke and I had to tell him not to make a joke because it could hurt my situation I was in (I had to be completely still). I remember how a perfect gentleman he was on the phone with me, completely unselfish and adapting to my words. It was kind of him to do that. So perhaps that is the mental connection too, when one feels that the other is in danger ?

/Jaimie
Okay maybe a bit off topic,but woah it sounds like you've been through a lot in many different liveso_Oare you ok?as for if the person I've been talking about has already crossed over,I actually don't know.But I have the strong feeling that he has,or maybe that's just an assumption that I automatically have bc i'ts hard to think about someone you knew so many years ago being back on earth living another life or perhaps still being here in spiritform.But if so I'm glad that spirits can't read minds bc I wouldn't want to be stressed out all the time bc some random spirit somewhere will be able to read whatever i'm thinking about o_O
 
In my experience as a half baked psychic, yes, although it doesn't happen every single time.

There's been more than enough times where I've thought about a deceased friend only for them to promptly make a brief appearance.
Jesus, I am sorry my answer was so long. What I am leaning towards in your case is the guestion if you have had a mental connection with this person in that life, and unfinished business with him ? If so it is not so strange this is intense for you. What is more the essence to me is the emotional connection, and I think that take first seat before the capacity, ability to read your thoughts. I think it is more to do with you feeling a certain way and they are picking up on that. I would not worry about your thoughts being read or not. If he is in spirit I am sure he has love and respect for you so he would not trespass to read your thoughts. I understand by my super long reply if I came across as not OK, but I actually am. I have to work on not writing so much, though, ha ha.

/Jaimie
I'ts ok,whenever I just mean to write a short reply I always end up writing way more than intended,but i'ts nice getting to knowore about other people's pl's and experiences.:.)I can say that we had a mental connection to some degree.As for unfinished business,I actually had feelings for this person (still do).At the beginning of the war I attempted suicide,(wich didn't work).And he still tried visiting me often in the hospital at the beginning of the war before I was brought back to my home country to recover.(I never did)By the end of the war he married a woman I absolutely despised,which is probably one of the reasons why I now feel guilty for thinking about him so much.(they died shortly after,so i'ts maybe a bit less painful that they didn't have a full life togheter y'know) Something that has really stuck by me is the postcard where he wrote something amongst the lines of "I will never forget you and I will always be close to you however far you may be".He addressed me one of my nicknames,but I have started to take that statement in question.o_O
 
I'ts ok,whenever I just mean to write a short reply I always end up writing way more than intended,but i'ts nice getting to knowore about other people's pl's and experiences.:.)I can say that we had a mental connection to some degree.As for unfinished business,I actually had feelings for this person (still do).At the beginning of the war I attempted suicide,(wich didn't work).And he still tried visiting me often in the hospital at the beginning of the war before I was brought back to my home country to recover.(I never did)By the end of the war he married a woman I absolutely despised,which is probably one of the reasons why I now feel guilty for thinking about him so much.(they died shortly after,so i'ts maybe a bit less painful that they didn't have a full life togheter y'know) Something that has really stuck by me is the postcard where he wrote something amongst the lines of "I will never forget you and I will always be close to you however far you may be".He addressed me one of my nicknames,but I have started to take that statement in question.o_O
Hi, thank you. From what you have provided me it was unfinished in terms that you two did not get to have your own marriage, life together. How tragic you were so sad you attempted taking your own life. About the mental connection I have only had it with him, but am still close and still love some of my other soulmates just as much. He described this connection to his psychiatrist as if he believed we were the same, the same soul but I do not think that is right, we can not be the same soul. I was very surprised that extracts from these sessions were published, I thought that would have been illegal. The book is no longer available and the website down so perhaps they figure out what was disguised in it and it had to be removed. One of the things he said in the first meeting was that he had check with his lawyer and he had said ok to him, that ir was classified and would not sip out. I kind of felt like a thief reading it, expected he to, if he was to ever mention me, say perhaps something bad of me, but he never did. He did get angry once at the psychiatrist for mentioning my name, but as I later read he said things as if he was trying to protect me.

I think you should trust that the love he has for you he still has as your soulmate. I can feel compassion with you feeling envious, jealous of the new woman he married, but if you can please think of it that way instead tjat it is not a competition, in a family for instance a parent love her 2 kids just as much, how different they may be and how different her relationship may be.

There is noone and nothing that can remove his love to a soulmate, to you.

It could also be that just because you were having a romantic relationship in that life that in your past or in your future you might have a different one, like parent and child to just mention one of the possibilities.

/Jaimie
 
Hi, thank you. From what you have provided me it was unfinished in terms that you two did not get to have your own marriage, life together. How tragic you were so sad you attempted taking your own life. About the mental connection I have only had it with him, but am still close and still love some of my other soulmates just as much. He described this connection to his psychiatrist as if he believed we were the same, the same soul but I do not think that is right, we can not be the same soul. I was very surprised that extracts from these sessions were published, I thought that would have been illegal. The book is no longer available and the website down so perhaps they figure out what was disguised in it and it had to be removed. One of the things he said in the first meeting was that he had check with his lawyer and he had said ok to him, that ir was classified and would not sip out. I kind of felt like a thief reading it, expected he to, if he was to ever mention me, say perhaps something bad of me, but he never did. He did get angry once at the psychiatrist for mentioning my name, but as I later read he said things as if he was trying to protect me.

I think you should trust that the love he has for you he still has as your soulmate. I can feel compassion with you feeling envious, jealous of the new woman he married, but if you can please think of it that way instead tjat it is not a competition, in a family for instance a parent love her 2 kids just as much, how different they may be and how different her relationship may be.

There is noone and nothing that can remove his love to a soulmate, to you.

It could also be that just because you were having a romantic relationship in that life that in your past or in your future you might have a different one, like parent and child to just mention one of the possibilities.

/Jaimie
Yea exactly.I'ts painful to know that we never got to that point.And I sometimes wish that I did not know the woman he married,but I did,and we both kind of hated eachother.She probably was pretty happy when I attempted suicide and was shipped back to my home country with brain damage and the mind of a 11 year old for the rest of my life (I died at age 33 wich is pretty young though)And thanks for the advice,I'll try to think of it less bitterly,even though it will be hard.People are writing all of this stuff about her on the internet,wich mostly triggers these feelings immensely.o_OWich is actually mostly my own fault,bc whenever I find an article that talks about her and her relationship with him I still read it out of curiosity and end up hurting my own feelings as a result.o_OBut like I said i'll try and work on this,i'ts probably for the better.
 
Yea exactly.I'ts painful to know that we never got to that point.And I sometimes wish that I did not know the woman he married,but I did,and we both kind of hated eachother.She probably was pretty happy when I attempted suicide and was shipped back to my home country with brain damage and the mind of a 11 year old for the rest of my life (I died at age 33 wich is pretty young though)And thanks for the advice,I'll try to think of it less bitterly,even though it will be hard.People are writing all of this stuff about her on the internet,wich mostly triggers these feelings immensely.o_OWich is actually mostly my own fault,bc whenever I find an article that talks about her and her relationship with him I still read it out of curiosity and end up hurting my own feelings as a result.o_OBut like I said i'll try and work on this,i'ts probably for the better.
If you could please try to not be bothered by what some write, sometimes they are way off, and got the wrong idea completely, and is often out to cause it to be too simple and to cause sensation, these are often not serious reporters, not the intellectual kind, sad to say there are not til this day many serious reporters who chose to work on the celebrity world which has been well known to cause frustration by their victims of not getting the truth out there. Often they are not interested in the truth if it does not already fit their image, their own thirst to get the story sold. If someone is genuine and have enough smart to study for real your case they will hopefully see through the idiotic reasoning by someone who should not even call them self a reporter.

I remember in my past life that James Dean, the movie star, got a bad rap by reporters after his death. This was strong in my memory that he was not treated fairly. This was also in collision in when I read about him in my own days, my own generations. I could not understand why she had such a strong reaction to what was happening to the view of him. Then finally I was able to get it. It was the way I had remembered it through her eyes, but it had changed after his surviving family got them self a lawyer and claimed their rights to him, to give him a fair deal, to have him protected more. When I one day was able to get the information that my past life self had canceled interviews and had been misquoted in interviews it made sense to me because I remember she got stomach pain during an interview just listening to the reporters leading questions to discredit him and his memory. It wasn't fair. One of the problems was that he was way ahead of his time that I think time and people needed to keep up with him in order to understand him more, what he was trying to say through the movie roles he played. There was also someone else she knew who was especially having a bad wrap in the media. There was one reporter though who had to quote what she said. She said of this person that it did not matter what they tried to tell her about him (what she thought of him being a bad boy) because she had known him since they were children (true) and that he had always been very kind and good to her (also true). I presumed that your past life self's brand is not protected like Dean's is today, at least to some degree. The other person I am referring to had family members that later had to go and sue and win in court over his name being dragged in the dirt for no reason, and was paid a sum of money for it, which is good. So very sadly I draw a firm line because I have to between serious reporters and none and 99% of the none kind of serious reporters exist in the entertainment field where it does not matter how many lies are told, as long as it sells.

I understand what has happened to your past life self must have been and is still very strong for you, no wonder. It must have felt like a needle in the eye that he had to go for a woman whom you could not stand, and if he knew that, even worse. I hope he can, in some way, make it up to you one way or another, as the karma seem right now unbalanced with that kind of ending. But please do not forget that you have other soul mates who love you and most likely new soulmates that will come into your life later on to cherish you.

/Jaimie
 
Yea you're right.Somewhere deep down I know that most of the time the people who write articles like are mostly not that serious about it,but some part in me starts getting hurt by the stuff the write nonetheless and I end up feeling mentally scarred again and my calmer realistic approach on things like these completely disappears.(maybe a bit off topic,but I have actually watched rebel without a cause and loved the movie,and i'ts pretty cool hearing from someone who knew james Dean personally :) )And you're right,my past life self is pretty much most of the time getting scolded by reporters and lots of lies are told about me.I mean there are some people who think of me as iconic,but there are definitely others who despise me and say untrue stuff about me.I was a pretty notorious to some degree I guess,but i didn't do that much wrong
If I now look back.There has even been a documentary made about me back in 1999,and it was probably the beginning of modern "historians' and reporters talking trash about me :/One of the "historians" who talked about me in that documentary didn't take me seriously at all and called me childish and what not.and y'know,verry weird stuff but I'm not getting further into that.Thanks for your last words though, I hope that something like that would happen one day
 
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