New member with a couple of stories to share

Hi, i came across this forum and thought OMG! WOW! im not the only one.lol
Anywho, I have a couple of things to share.I have 3 childen ages 2,4 and 6.
My 6 yr old son is where i would like to start.He has ADD and has been a little behind developmentally with speech,articulation and paying attention.But, when he finally did begin to tell me what was in his little head, it might have ansered a couple of questions.

This sweet little guy of mine suffered from nightmares,sleep walking and other things.It was horrible, he couldnt tell me what was going one.But, now i think I know.One day in the car he was talking about playing his "race car" game.He said " hey momma, i was driving in my game and i crashed and my car sploded" I said.."yeah?" he continued with " if that was for real, i would be died, right?" and i ansered.."yes" He continues again with " hey mom, did you know that if you are really good and you die before you are old, God will let you be a baby again?"

I didnt think much about it but played along...it was great to finally conversate with this guy..i had waited along time.So, I replied" no, I did not know that" He said " yes you did mom, its the rules" i said " really? I really didnt know.Who told you those were the rules?" My son thought i was teasing him and laughed, then said " God did, dont You pay tention?"I had to laugh back, as part of his therapy we ar forced to ask him regularly if he is paying attention.

I decided to push the conversation, lol, my curiosity was bubbling.So I asked him how someone could be a baby again.He repeated the same line he did above because at this point he thought i was playing dumb and pulling his leg about not knowing.So, I said.."ok,do you get a new mom when your a baby again? and he said "somehimes"(sometimes)so i asked where do you go? and he says anywheres, anyhime(anytime) is now.I was very confused then but was teetering on an edge because he thought i was teasing him, he might end the conversation at any moment.I asked " anytime is now? What do you mean?" He said "you knooowa,you can be a new baby along hime ago and that would be now.And you can be a new baby along hime from now and that would be now" I got nothing else from him that day.

Was he telling me that time is not a staight line as we see it? That you can be reincarnated into anytime frame? Just jump at random? or am i reading to much into it? or does he just have an overactive imagination and i shouldn't think anything of what he said.My son has the same learning problems, ADD problems,appearance and personality of my deceased older brother who died 1 yr before my son's conception.He is fasinated with cars just as my brother was,and whom died in a car.He was also affraid to go to sleep for the longest time,which is what caused my brother's death...falling asleep at the wheel.My son also used to say things such as"member when i was your big brother and i stepped on your arm?" But, my son in the last yr or so has said nothing of the sort.So, i guess he has passed that age of remembering.

THis next story is from my 4 yr old daughter who was 3 at the time.As soon as her brother stopped telling stories, she started and omg,did she have things to tell.It first happened one day whan a friend of mine was visiting.The friend and i were sitting at the table conversatiing and having coffee.My daughter awoke from her nap and came into the dining area.She looked upset but was not crying.She started telling me about how she was in a big trash box with her pannies on and ants were all over her."ants in my eyes, ants in my nose and mouf(mouth)" I didnt think much of it, she plays with bugs all the time, i just thought it was a bad dream.

But, a week or so later, she mentioned it again and i started becoming affraid.I've seen children mention the future and i started locking up tight before bed, keeping my daughter in my site while shopping and other things.I was not convenced,but, caustious with the idea that she may be kidnapped and left to die in a dumpster somewhaere.This caution went on for about a week or so.Then while sitting at the computer desk, my daughter came in the room with a doll house and sat on the floor beside me.And started playing.She sat a toy bus over to the side away from the house and said that was the big trash box.So, I decided to start conversation with her and this is the result w/o telling you the long drawn out conversation.

She said: " I was in a big trash box with my pink tuesday pannies.My dress was all gone with the water.Ants was in my eyes,ants in my mouth, ants in my nose, ants in my PANNIES, it was ants all over me.But, i wouldn't (wasn't) scared momma, just tired.Then i came to you.She seemed very upset to tell me this, so i didnt dig for unansered questions.I should have, what did she mean when she said her dress was gone with the water?

I was teary eyed just listening to her.If this did happen to her..what a horrible thing to happen.I told her that god sent her to me so that she wouldn't end up in a trash box again.I didnt know what else to say.she simply said" i know" and has never mentioned it again.She does have a slight fear of water, dark places and a mild fear of men and abandonment.

She also has mentioned that she wants to see her mommy or go to her mommy's house.lol, and i tell her " i am your mommy" and she will say " noooo, my other mommy" Also, she is a beautiful golden haired little girl with huge blue eyes.But, she tells me that she wants bwown(brown) hair. And when i ask why, she will sometimes say..I liked it when it was bwown, it was pwetty(pretty) like you momma and my other mommy.

I'm curious what my 2 yr old will say when he starts making complete sentences,lol. Am I putting to much into all of this?maybe?

Hello annabell_leah and welcome to the forum!

It looks like you have very special kids! They are very lucky to have a mother like you!
Have you read Carol's books yet? If you haven't i suggest you do. They are awesome and they will help you understand what is going on with your kids and what to do to help them.
It's very possible that they are talking about their PL's.
Here are the links:

Children's Past Lives
Return From Heaven

Thanks for sharing your story with us and we hope you enjoy the discussions here!
Keep us posted!

wow everytime i see a post, of a new person asking about their children's comments i just find it so fascinating. and i wonder, how many other children out their are trying to tell their parents what has happened and just get passed over as "imagination" or telling stories. its sad really. i know my parents semi ignored my odd statements, that i would make. lucky my mom did recorded that i would say about "other mom" and "other life", as did my other 3 brothers. which i found odd since she never told me about that until i asked her about it.

let us know what else your children say, children are truley so special.

i read somewhere it said something like, perhaps children already know about life and death, adults have just forgotten. something like that. which i always think of when i read one of these cases with children. very interesting. cant wait till my nephew starts talking, well i can, he is growing too fast, but it will be interesting to see what he said. since now i at least know what to look for.

My son has the same learning problems, ADD problems,appearance and personality of my deceased older brother who died 1 yr before my son's conception.He is fasinated with cars just as my brother was,and whom died in a car.He was also affraid to go to sleep for the longest time,which is what caused my brother's death...falling asleep at the wheel.My son also used to say things such as"member when i was your big brother and i stepped on your arm?" But, my son in the last yr or so has said nothing of the sort.So, i guess he has passed that age of remembering.

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Annabell,
I was most interested in the similarities between your deceased brother and your son. Are you thinking that your son may be your brother reincarnated? It is possible. Was it true that your brother once stepped on your arm?

Please read RETURN FROM HEAVEN, which is about reincarnation in the same family. It may make you feel more comfortable with this possibility.

Are there any other similarities you can share with us? Any details about your brother's death that might tie in to your son's behaviors and personality?

Thanks for sharing,
Carol

Hi Annabell_leah,
Did your brother ever step on your arm? Sure sounds like your son is your brother to me.
My son will be 6 in a couple of weeks and while he is articulate and is learning well in kindergarten, he really seems to have problems paying attention. The school counselor observed him in the classroom and on the playground and she said that he is distracted by his own thoughts and not so much what is going on outside of him. He has spoken of several past lives as well as OBE's etc. Like you, I was able to dismiss it the first few times he said something and then one day, I knew what he was talking about. Even though I didn't really believe in reincarnation, I knew there was no other explanation.
Like your son, my son also sounded older and was able to link thoughts together and speak almost as if he wasn't himself. He told me the story of his pl mother's death and part of his life in about 5 minutes and he never digressed into talk about Spiderman or dinosaurs.
I'd be interested in any study that looks into kids that have past life memories and that seem to have some ADD. My son has not been diagnosed and I don't think he will be because of what the school counselor said. Fortunately, she believes in reincarnation and believes his story.
Goos lukc to you and welcome to the forum. You might be interested in checking out the ChildSpirit Institute.
Vicky

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To anser the question , yes, my brother did step on my arm.I really do not recall much about it. My brother is the one who actually told me about his arm squashing.He told me that he was argueing with our mother in the kitchen and i had been sick and was laying in the kitchen floor , in the door way,being a "winey baby" lol. He said that he stormed out of the kitchen and right as he did, i stuck my tiny lil arm out there and he ...squashed it.He told me about this one summer on a road trip to dallas,when i was about 12.

It was just me and him and he had always felt bad about it.Our mother was sort of...neglective.And he always felt...useless in knowing what to do in situations.And on that paticular day he was angry and didnt mean to step on me.I myself remeber just a little bit about it, but, mostly just the fact that he stepped on me.lol

My brother was the oldest and i was the youngest.There was a 12 yr gap between him and i.He was an angry person sometimes, i think it was because he had a harder time than most people,especially with learning.

And yes there are more similarities with my son and brother, but, i am not truley convenced they are the same person.I do wonder though.The thing that gets me the most is my son's eyes.Its the look in his eyes.The same look my brother had.But, that could just be genes.My son can't seem to find his talent, just as my brother couldn't.He also has that same sence of humar and polishes it off with that same smile.My mother says that my oldest brother was very loving and caring to his younger siblings..and he was.

That he was a very sweet kid who just didn't "fit"...so is my son.And my son gets those same spurts of frustration and agrivation.I dunno, maybe it is the ADD. My son also likes pink, alot.So did my brother. Now, that my son can talk and comunicate soooo much better, i see alot of my brother in him.And its not just me, friends and family say the same thing.

Also, im not sure about my brother's death and similarities with my son, so im gonna go ahead and tell the story of my brother's death.Kind of actually get it out there,write it out and see.I really haven't went over it,lol, i've sort of put it on the back burner to study on a later date.I guess my way of dealing.Anywho, here goes.

My brother had been common law married for about 5 yrs and had 2 daughters one who had a few medical problems.A month or so before he died, he asked his wife to marry him.So, they got married.Then he learned that a new baby was on the way and started working overtime..lots of it. My brother was very serious about suporting his family, serious about his girls and serious about God.Anywho, he was working double shifts.On that lol " fatal" night it was suposed to rain and till this day everyone says it did.

But, it didn't.I know, because i was awake and waiting.Nervious and upset for no reason.He fell asleep and hit a guard rail , his truck flipped and slid into the creek below, were he drowned from being knocked out buy the air bag, and strapped into the truck by his seat belt.Later that morning as the sun was half risin.. a by passer noticed the headlights underneath the creek and stopped.I myself was stunned, i had some how convenced myself the night before that he had come home.

well, looking back i can say that my son was at first affraid of water,but, now has got his brave barings and now IM affraid of my son and water..lol
My son is in no real hurry to grow up, even as a baby he hated being on the floor which made it hard for him to learn to crawl.lol But, he was/is very brute strong.holding his head up eary and suporting his own weight early as well.And was very , very adventurious. I can't tell you how many times i was in the ER with that kid the first 2 yrs of his life.He did everything from swallowing moth balls to braking his leg climbing out of the crib.lol

I just knew CPS was coming for me.My mother says my brother was just the same.But i cant find any real relations between my brother's death and my son's actions.He did for a long time sufer from nightmares,sleep walking and was in intense peril when it came time to go to bed. "IM scared, im scared, im scared" he would say.But, he hasn't really been that way in quit awhile.He does sometimes sleep walk and wakes up confused.But, is not affraid and hops right to bed at bed time.A perfect trooper.So, i guess i am going to have to think about that one,lol.
Anna

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Hi Vicky,
I have to say that getting my son diagnosd with ADD was the hardest thing in my lif, lol.
From teachers, counslers and doctors i was told that boys are slower than girls,all children learn on their own level and so on....blah, blah, blah.
My son is the same way you say yours is, busy with his brain.Over thinking things and missing out on some of what is going on around him.

I myself didn't stop untill i knew the problem.Because a couple of yrs ago i had on my hands a sleep walking, nightmare having screaming child who was so frustrated because he couldn't come up with the words he needed just to ask for a glass of water.But, with therapy, most of that has been overcome.He has always had good grades and stays on the A-B honor roll, so it was hard for people to see what i saw in him. Having knew what my brother was like and what he went though,I knew my son had ADD and i know it is a hard way to go through life.I didnt want that for my lil monkey.

Now, the only real problems we have with my son are...getting him to pay attention...lol and reminding him of something he started.Such as taking out the trash, he will become lost in thought while he's doing it and totally forget what he's doing.Then go and do something else...almost like a toddler,lol.
Anywho, i will check out the child spirit institute, it sounds like what i might need . And thank you much! OH! and thank you Fab for the links, great stuff.
Anna

I think it is very brave of you to be expressing the things you are in this forum. I hope all things that need mending, become mended!

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Thank you mejensen.

I have to say that even though it sounds like im tortured, im really not, atleast i dont think,lol. Maybe i am but am in deniel about it,lol. who knows.
I personally think that my bro knew his own fate and showed signs of it with some of the actions he took. such as out of the blue deciding to finally get married, changing his saving from my name to his 2 daughters ( now 3 daughters) and asking me to promise to turn over all his assetes in my name to his wife incase something happened to him. But, i myself didnt want to see them.And that is what caused me to pace the floor the night he died.He made me worry.

Getting married, having children and just other aspects of life have sort of pushed it all back to where it all seems like just a distant memory... if you can understand what i mean. I dunno.
Again, thank you
Anna

Hi Anna, I'm going to try to pm you about the ADD stuff. I have a couple of questions.
What a story about your brother. Sounds like a lot of similarities and it also sounds like you and your brother were close. Is it possible that your son ever heard you talking about your brother stepping on your arm?
Vicky

Hi annabell,
Your thread is fascinating to say the least. Your children do show signs of past life memories. They both seemed to have died young in the lives they remembered. You may want to click on my signature below to find some information on this phenomenon. Unfortunately, I have not yet done the pages on pesonality problems and rebirth. I plan to do them soon. I will touch upon ADHD briefly in my page of personality problems. I think as the more and more people become awake to the working of karma, we will see improvement in the condition of the world. I will be adding more discussion on karma also as time permits. Good luck to you.

I liked your site Kris and would like to hear more about how ADD/ADHD may link to past lives.
Vicky

dont think i ever memtioned it

good question Vicky,


I've thought about that a few times and again after reading your post and, i don't think i have ever mentioned it, but, it is possible.
truth be told, i'm not really around my own family much, we keep in contact mostly through ims and e-mails we are all sort of spread out. So, i know that it didnt come about with family conversation going down memory lane or anything.I myself have very few memories of my oldest bro.there was a huge age difference.So it was a different sort of relationship, i think.

My mother is stuck on the topic, she could have mentiond it to the kids,but, she also has bipolar disorder and not very stable,so i dont allow the children around her often, just holidays and things.I think my kids have met her mabe 4 or 5 times at the most.But, no telling what she might have squeezed into their lil brains in just a 1 hr visit, lol.And if so, i can actually see how my son could have gotten that idea and came to that conclusion.If my mother told him he looked just like his uncle and then started telling stories about him, one being my arm story, then my son might have walked away confused thinking he was my brother.lol who knows.I really dont think my mom even rembers that day, she has never mentioned it to me.i think it was just something that stuck in my bro's head because he felt so bad about it.But, im not really sure.
So, i quess it is possible.
Anna

thx for the site kris, has my attention,lol.

Thanks Vicky and Annabell, I will post to this thread again after I have made some more progress on my website.

Welcome to the forum Anna!

I hope you find help on this forum reading discussions and having them with other people.

Your children are lucky to have you as their mum! :thumbsup:

I wish all the best for you and your family. Please keep us informed about your children!

Karoliina

" hey mom, did you know that if you are really good and you die before you are old, God will let you be a baby again? ....... " yes you did mom, its the rules"

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Annabell, your son seems to be very bright. It is hard to believe that he is behind in development. He definitely has good handle on karma. In the few years that I have been visiting this forum, I have noticed that it is the children who have better understanding of karma than the grownups who write here. I think the biggest advantage children have is that they are matter of fact about everything. Grownups, on the other hand, tend to picture karma in the framework of their beliefs, which more often than not are of New Age type in this forum. I hope you read about karma on my website. My idea of the "rule" can be expressed as a simple equation, which I sometimes call the karmic equation:

(Intentions, Impressions, Karma)1 + Action + Experience ===> (Intentions, Impressions, Karma)2.

This "rule" of course plays in the subtle body of the universe and of the individual. Karmic state thus modified by one's actions and experiences then finds expression in the material plane. I have shown this same equation pictorially in "Personal Growth" page.

Hi Anna,
i wanted to know how things were going and if you've heard any more from your son or daughter?
Vicky

Hi Annabell,
Welcome to the forum. I haven't been particularly active online lately but do tend to hop on to read and respond when I feel drawn to a particular thread.

That's amazing that your eldest son and daughter both have past life memories! Sounds like your responses to each revelation has been highly appropriate and has allowed your children to provide you with more insight!

My mother has just started dating a lovely man and on the weekend she met his mother, who reminds her so much of her grandmother. Your comment about parallel worlds/times has me thinking, it is possible that she may have reincarnated... I haven't yet met her new partner or his mother but I'll be interested in seeing if I sense anything about her!