Hello all, I am new to the reincarnation forum and am looking for some advice, feedback upon matters of reincarnation. I have two wonderful children that have been the light of my life. I experienced EXTREME postpartum depression with my last birth (about three years ago). After that I swore I would never go through that again. Recently (four months) my husband and I found ourselves unexpectedly pregnant. I terminated the pregnancy a day later due to my fear of being able to go through with it again also due to my husband recently quitting his job and losing our insurance. I was four weeks. I am not looking for any sort of judgement I have felt massive amounts of grief and sadness. Prior to the termination I didn't look into reincarnation or anything to do with the spirit. But when I started reading more and more about how souls choose their parents ETC., the guilt began to pile on. My husband is extremely reluctant to try again but I can't help but think that I need to fulfill another pregnancy to "make it right". Many people that I have talked to about this don't look into reincarnation and what not so its hard to have them understand my inner turmoil. The church is of no support because they like to condemn women and many don't believe in reincarnation. Just looking for any answers or support from those that have been through it or may have some wisdom.. Thank you all in advance.