Finally it's become clear what a major issue is re a relationship I'd hoped would work out - and it hasn't. It is now clear that the person concerned is almost certainly asexual. That's something I've never encountered before and I'm "normal" in that respect and sex etc is expected and does need to be part of my relationship with a man I'm interested in. I'm guessing that maybe this is - at least sometimes - down to trauma they've experienced in a past life maybe? - eg something horrific like gang rape or something? I've been raped in this lifetime myself (as have a lot of women) - but I'm still "normal" heterosexual woman and sex is expected/wanted part of a relationship for me. So it won't be happening then....as I couldn't take a more "restricted" relationship like that personally and would want the "full package". I still regard the man-who-wasn't as a friend and care what happens to him - but friendship is clearly all it will ever be for him (with anyone - not just me). Has anyone any experience of asexuality in a reincarnation context?