I’m sorry if the title is a bit confusing, but I am wondering if one can choose a simple and happy life after having a hard life, just to relax and ”heal” before choosing a harder life the next time? Or do the soul always prefer having rough experiences so they learn faster? I have so far figured out four past lives, and I was a man in three of them. Today I’m a woman, but in all my lives I’ve had a very hard time. I guess at the point where I am right now in life, it’s the best moment so far. But it would be nice to experience having a simple life, atleast one time.