This is kind of a philosophical question. Is "drama," or disagreements, or arguments-- something that ALL relationships must have? Is occasional disharmony necessary for a relationship? Sometimes it seems so unavoidable, almost predestined. What is the purpose of it? Can't we have a relationship that does not include this unpleasantness? Seems I have been fighting with everyone in my life lately. I am so upset about it. I wonder if it's mapped out in my Life Plan or something, to learn and grow from. It is so difficult! I don't feel that ANYONE is learning from these situations. What do you think?