Feeling a deep soul connection with someone you've never met

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  1. fireflydancing

    fireflydancing just a fly in the sky Staff Member Super Moderator

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    Hi daydreamer 549,

    Welcome to the forum,

    I think it is totally possible to recognize someone online. It happened to me the other way around. Someone recognized me first, although we both felt a connection from the beginning. Sometimes I joked like: don't tell me you think we shared lives together because I don't feel anything but blank about that. He kept contact with a year in between most of the time until one day when out of the blue there was an outburst or call it a clash of energy, I don't know and from then I started to get spontaneous memories of our past. Now it was my turn to freak him out. Lol.

    So my advice to you is not to break that contact you once established. Keep it simple and not emotionally complicated. When they are not ready to remember (and I assume you both must have known each other in former lives) all that emotional stuff will be too overwhelming to them. If it's meant to happen, they will remember in their own time.

    Good luck!
     
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  2. Etta

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    I'm so happy I have found this forum and that I'm not the only one who experience this strange connection.

    My story started about a year and half ago. I wanted to watch some really good movie... I have found several recommendations, I didn't care about most of them, because I'm not an extra huge movie fan (I prefere watching documentaries), but there was one movie which stood out... It wasn't even a genre I usually watch. And it was from a film industry I always thought I could never watch - it just isn't my cup of coffee.... But for some reason I knew I had to watch this movie... And I did....

    The lead actor simply bewithed me... I couldn't get him out of my head. I had to see him again, so after three or four days I watched the movie again... It wasn't any better. I started watching some videos with him on youtube and I started searching his other movies. I have watched them all, not once, not twice... I can't even count how many times I have seen them (and I'm that kind of person, who can't watch a movie twice)... I knew something is wrong with me, so I made next step...

    I introduced him to my mother... actually I didn't tell her how I felt about him, I just told her I had found some really good movies and I gave her three movies with three different actors. She liked them and she liked all three actors, but didn't say anything specific...

    After few days, I caught her watching videos on youtube... With the same man I could not get out of my head... And she finally admited she fell in love with him exactly like I did. We both started watching his movies again and again...

    After some time, my mum asked me: "Don't you get strange feeling while watching him?"
    I said: "No, what strange feeling?" (But obivously I knew, I was just afraid to talk about it.)
    My mum said: "I don't know... Like he's here."
    And I finally said it: "Like I know him... It's a strange sense of familiarity, it is hard to describe."
    My mum: "That's it!!!"

    Later she admited she thought I was crazy giving her his movie. She thought I was weird because I like him. But at that time I didn't tell her I liked him, I gave her three movies with three different lead actors. But she said, she just knew - she knew I liked him... And after 5-10 minutes of seeing him, she completely fell in love with him too.

    We started watching his interviews in english (he is very well spoken in both of his languages). And that is where it gets really weird...

    Things he says, the way he speaks, his thought process, his likes and disslikes, his hobbies... Everything... He's like male version of me.
    Again, at first I didn't say anything, but my mum suddenly started saying: "he is exactly like you... "

    I do the same little things he does and what is even more crazy, I can read him like an open book. I know exactly how he feels, I see through his mask... He is an actor, he acts in public, but I can exactly say when he's acting and how he really feels. And I can't understand how other people cannot see it too, since it so visible to me.

    I notice the slightest gestures and I know what they mean, not because I'm an expert in body language, but because I do them too. And I am aware of doing them and I always try to hide them, because I think everyone must see it...and he does exactly the same...

    I said few things about him. Not knowing they are facts... It was just something I think he might do or what he might feel or think (and it is what I would do or feel or think)... And later on, in other interviews he exactly confirmed all my words. Sometimes he even uses exactly the same phrases...

    He has the same eating habits (which are honestly quite strange), he has the same insecurities like me... It is really scary... He is really like male version of me. When I see his photos or videos, I feel like he is me... I know it sounds absoletely crazy, but looking at him, I feel like that's me, that how my presence is felt, that's how I look in public... Even my mum says so. And I look nothing like him, I'm European, he is from Asia. We are from diffferent religion, different culture... We can't be so similiar... But for some reason even my mum thinks we have the same energy, the same vibe...

    Mum also says when she sees him, she has strange sense of familiarty. Like he is someone she knows from the past. She remembers him, but she can't really grasp it and put it into words. She feels happiness seeing him, sometimes she feels strange tingling in her body. She can't see him sad (even not in the movies). Lately he looks really unhappy, depressed, he has lost lot of weight... When my mum sees him like that, her hands start to shake. She's worried about him like he's family.

    My feelings about him are bit different. How I have said - the similarities between us are really scary. When I see him I feel strange mix of emotions - I feel happiness, excitement, love... I want to be with him, hold him, make him happy, I know I would do anything for him... But I also feel strong sadness, sometimes I have tears in my eyes, I feel depressed, anxious, desperate... The thought of never meeting him gives me so much anxiety like nothing else... seeing sadness in his eyes puts me deep into depression.

    I don't know what is wrong with me... I want to see him, I need to see him, he makes me happy... But at same time seeing him makes me incredibly sad, lonely, desperate and even depressed.

    My mum admits she can stare at his picture all day and never get bored. She also thinks she's absolutely crazy...
    She says: "I'm too old to feel this way"
    I always tell her she's not. I tell her there's nothing crazy about it, yet even I think I'm crazy.

    As a teenage girl, I used to like few singers from boybands, but never like that. Even now I like few actors, but again, never like this. So does my mum. We looked at photos of few of our favourite actors, but we both agree, there is no connection. We like watching their work, but on a personal level, there is distance.

    I have read the stories in this forum to my mum... She looked at me in a strange way a finally shyly admitted: "I think he was my husband."

    Also I have to mention one thing - my mum has psychic abilities. Though she doesn't use them and that's why she can't use them properly. She claims I have them too - even one real psychic has told me so... According to him my abilities are even stronger than my mum's, but I have never noticed anything special about me.

    My logical mind is telling me, I'm just seeing what I want to see. Maybe I'm too lonely and I'm making connections where there aren't any.... But it is not just one or two similarities... There are so many, I can't even count them - he is really exactly like me, deep down I know it, but it's hard for me to admit it, because I just don't understand what is going on and how is something like that even possible.
    How is it possible that I know things about him even before he speaks about it? And how come my mum also feels this connection, even though no so strong as I do. We are both grown up women (she's 63, I'm 34). We have never been fanatic fan-girls of anyone, actually we both hate the whole concept of celebrities... But this man, he is like magnet for both of us...He's something way different.

    I'm so cofused, I want to be with him...
    Somehow I know I should be with him, I will be happy only by his side... Yet I fully realise it is absolutely impossible. He is super famous, succesful in everything he does, he is married with family... I'm absolutely nobody, I am complete failure... Yet deep down I know I'm incomplete without him. I feel so confused.

    (I have just remembered todays little incident... At one point of the day, I started to have clogged ear, which happens to me very rarely... after some time it sudenlly stopped, at the same time the social media was full of pictures of him landed on an aiport...)

    I apologise for this post being so long - I guess I needed to write down all those things.
    I also apologise for any mistakes since english isn't my first language.
     
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  3. Jaimie

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    Hi, I remember the feeling of familiarity and having flashbacks out of the blue about someone famous which I at the time did not understand why, took me years to accept somewhat the idea of reincarnation and that I had known this someone from our previous lives together, it is so far out, especially when it concerns someone famous.

    The way you describe things is that this person that both you and your mom is hung up on is still alive and that he reminds very much of you, then to just spice it up a little both of you have psychic abilities but have not explored them, developed them.

    The way I look at it you could have 1) known him from a previous life 2) because you 2 are so alike your mom could have confused you with him, it could have been you that was her husband in a past life 3) you and him are of the same soul, but split spirits

    I am sure there are other theories as well, but these 3 are the ones that I can think of.

    Thanks for sharing :)

    /Jaimie
     
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  4. Etta

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    Thank you for your answer. It helps a lot.
    Even yours theories are practically the same as mine.

    My logical mind says exactly what you suggest as a second theory - he is just someone too similar to me... But he looks nothing like me... and I felt the connection from the start, not knowing anything about his personality and personal life, I knew him only from his acting in movies. At first I had no idea about all those strange similarities and synchronicities, yet he was like magnet for me.

    My sixth sense tells me the third theory is the right one, however impossible it seems to me and despite my logic saying it is simple not possible. The idea is even a bit scary for me... But how would I know so many details from his life? How come sometimes when he's speaking, I almost know what he is going to say next? Why both of us, me & my mom feel this strange connection (but on a different level)? Why do I feel such strange mix of emotions? So many questions... Who knows, I guess I have to wait where all this is going to lead...

    I'm so happy I have found this forum. It have really helped me a lot... And maybe my strange story will help someone else not to think he or she is total lunatic.
     
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  5. ashleyelizabethxx

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    Honestly, I am so happy to have stumbled upon this forum because it has helped me to know I'm not alone in what I have been feeling the last month or two.

    My story has started and developed rather recently with a hip hop artist from Asia (Korea if we want to be super specific). He is close friends with artists from a label that I am a huge fan of and he makes music with many of these guys. He's not super famous, but he has a pretty good chunk of followers on Instagram, so I consider him mildly famous. He's always been very mysterious and kind of in the shadows and you can tell he really does not want to be in the spotlight very much. I've always felt some sort of pull to him that I can't even explain and what's even weirder about that is I never followed him on social media or listened to his music or any of the songs he was featured on with my favorites from the label. There is just something about him that draws me in & he also feels very familiar like I should know him from somewhere. I've seen pictures of him here and there, but that was about all the interaction I ever had with him. I got this urge out of nowhere to just want to find out everything I could about him, but sadly there isn't a whole lot out there about him. He deactivated his Instagram at some point last year & I was kind of sad about it when I found out because obviously I wanted to know more about him.

    I recently started listening to his music out of nowhere because something was just telling me to do that as well. When I turned on the first song, I was mesmerized by this man's voice. It literally took my breathe away and a sense of calm came over me and I just ended up smiling (He makes me smile a lot). Something just clicked for me once I heard his music and it is literally an indescribable feeling. The only way I can describe it is that I felt like that song was made for me to hear like it was something I was supposed to listen to all along. He makes me feel very much connected to him and like I'm home in a way which is a phrase I never use for anyone ever. He makes me feel so safe and secure and loved even though I have never met this man ever in my life.

    Within the last month or so, seemingly out of nowhere, something was telling me to go check to see if he had reactivated his account. My gut was just telling me that I needed to go check & see if his profile was back up. The funny thing is when I went and searched the following tab on one of the artists' from the label, there was his Instagram (weird coincidence I thought). His profile was set to private, but I requested to follow anyways and had to wait for it to be accepted (he accepted it not even 2 days later). I look forward to seeing him post pictures because anytime I see him post it makes me smile and in my head I just go "Oh there you are" without even a second thought.

    I don't know if I'm actually crazy for feeling this way or if I'm actually connected to this man on a soul level. Being connected on a soul level is the only thing that makes sense and it feels right to me. Any and all replies are greatly appreciated and anyone is more than welcome to dm to privately discuss as well!
     
  6. Speedwell

    Speedwell Moderator Staff Member Super Moderator

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    It does seem there is something about the music which in you feel a deep connectedness. That in itself is good. However, the question of any personal connection, that is something else.

    Currently I'm listening to some music which gives me a great feeling of connectedness. But for me this is just one of many. I've felt connections with the creative output of various people over the years. However, in my experience it doesn't have any great personal significance, even though it may have felt like that sometimes.

    My suggestion is to appreciate, enjoy, be inspired by what you find and leave it at that.
     
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  7. yvettebruneau

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    It's been a while since I came around this forum. I've been letting my memories and feelings manifest as and when, though they're no longer frequent or strong. Just a sense that there was something else before this. A lot more before this. And I still occasionally invoke the known names for strength.

    Still, I feel "strange" connections with people I've not met. The departed one I mentioned last March [2019] and the protector; their influences over me seem stronger this time of year, but major events of their individual life stories happened around these months. March-June time. But, in recent months there has been another. Similar, in several ways, to yours, ashleyelizabeth. Korean. Musician [singer]. Very inactive currently. I took to him pretty much immediately upon discovering him and his group. I've only ever taken to the previous two before. And it's not the typical celebrity 'crush' again. There are none of the usual 'fantasies' about him, though he is admittedly gorgeous. There have been for some of the other celebrities in the same genre and line of work, so why not him? And, as I said, he's recently become inactive online and publicly. I worry about him, though I'm sure he's doing okay.

    But, there's more. I discovered his group's music on, 'coincidentally', his birthday last year. We're both Libras, and we're both left-handed. We were born five days apart, though also four years separate us [I'm the older one, for those interested]. We both have an affinity for animals, wanting to be vets when we were younger. It almost sounds childish, in a way, like how I used to fawn over the similarities with my favourite boyband members. However, there's something different in this one. I don't ever hope to meet him, being continents apart, but just knowing he's happy in what he's doing is enough. Seeing him succeed and enjoy life is satisfactory to me. It's like I know my time with him is done and over, in the past. And his smile is so heartwarming, how could I not want the best for him?

    Also, on a quick side-note, I thought I knew who you were on about, ashley, but a few things threw me off.
     
  8. NickyM180

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    Hi y'all. How are you?
    I've been feeling weird all day. I have a super spiritual connection to someone. It is a crazy feeling. I've never met, spoken to, or even laid eyes on this person. It first started with a thought that appeared in my head 2 nights ago. Then I meditated a little on it. Now, I've had butterflies all day today. I'm hoping it's just an infatuation to him. I thought I was hungry, since I hadn't eaten, but I still have these butterflies. And I'm pretty sure this person doesn't feel the same way. Last time I had butterflies, I was 18 years old. Dodged a bullet for that one. I'm sensitive, but can't catch on fully to it. It feels like something is pulling me hard. This person lives on the other side of the country. In general, I thought I shouldn't feel like that for someone I've never laid eyes on. I think I need help a little.
    You know... usually it's "Oh, he's cute" and just keep going. It stopped me in my tracks. My heart jumps and it feels like my stomach is being pulled out of my body. I've never went as far as thinking what it would be like for me and someone to live together. In my head, I can actually see us living together. Laughing and goofing off. We share the same interests. It's repetitive, even if I'm busy doing something else. It's like I can feel him and hear him. I don't care if it's a physical attraction or a close friendship. I have no idea what to do. I'm afraid to go into deep meditation (would be the 3rd time), I'm scared of what I might find, see or hear. That seems like it's my only option now.
     
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  9. The Traveler

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    Erh, sorry for my objectio, but ... are you sure you're not just in love? be careful anyway. it can be dangerous to idealize a person.
    I have nothing against love or long-distance relationships, quite the contrary.
    but you should really know him first. No chance to take a trip and meet that person face to face?
     
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  10. NickyM180

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    I really took that into consideration. I have idolized people in thepast, but this isn’t that. I feel like I’m going insane. I’ve tried to forget about it and block it out. Last time I felt something close to this, I was 19. I met a guy in the military. I didn’t want to talk to him at first, I wasn’t interested. I was angry at the world and I had to move into his dorm. We finally ended up talking... all night. Took a few days to notice that I liked him. A few months later, my heart was broken up. He left and not one word... (that’s another story). Anyway, the way I was in love with his man. Butterflies and all. This time, it’s way stronger. It’s hard to explain. This isn’t me at all.
     
  11. fireflydancing

    fireflydancing just a fly in the sky Staff Member Super Moderator

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    Hi NickyM180,

    Welcome to the forum!
    Interesting experience. Do you have a picture of this person? Or how do you know about the existence of them?
    When you have an experience like this, it is 'real' although it's almost impossible to pinpoint. It can be an energetic exchange with someone alive or dead.
     
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    sorry for your broken love experience.
    about now, however, there is not sufficients info or clues for help you, at least from me, sorry. sometime i use astrology for have an hint but that require that you know exactly where you born, day, months, year and hour and minute exactly. also these info are necessary for the guy tha cause you that feelings.
    not worry, names and identity are not necessary.
    i not guess is involved Past Lives, i guess is only a remote possibility. instead, i guess can be some kind of soul resonance. or, simple your just very very very fall in love. true love, this time. :)
     
  13. Reincarnat

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    I am saddened to hear your story. Maybe Past Life Regression Therapy can help you figure it out.
     

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