I doubt this is the case, but I feel like someone I reincarnated with is "ruining" my current life. I have studied reincarnation. In graduate school was regressed by Brian Weiss. Have also read quite a bit about the subject - no expert, but I do have some background. So jumping ahead to "my problem" - I am old now. I helped raise a grandchild who turned out to be a very, very serious alcoholic. I did a lot of "good" in raising him - so much to enrich him: body/mind/spirit - he recently said he wished someone had taught him morals! That was one of my main focuses with him! I have been in a "rescuer" position with him - as he often shows up in bad shape on my doorstep and I haven't been able to turn him away. I have been with him while he has detoxed, several times. He has become abusive during this process. I haven't been able to turn him away because he is often in need of medical care. Abraham Hicks says ". . . if you see someone bleeding in the street, you help them." (Paraphrasing.) My health has been damaged by putting so much energy into him. And he has not been grateful, but often abusive. It has taken me a long time to see this. So now that I am old and have been involved with him for over 25 years, I feel that he has "ruined my life." I don't see how I could have or would have done anything differently. The only lessons I have learned seemed to be that people can be really cruel and do horrible things to themselves and others. I don't know how important this would be to learn. I now feel that I cannot stand anymore of him, yet he is young and he comes to me. I don't want to be cruel and I want to do the "right" thing (which has always motivated me). I was thinking if reincarnation or any of the Feng Shui stuff I have done actually "worked," I "should" be living a charmed life because I have done a LOT of good (not just for him, but for my parents and his mom and others). Any comments? I hate feeling like a victim.