How to overcome the overwhelming yearning?

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  1. Jaimie

    Jaimie Senior Member

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    I guess I have an overwhelming yearning to make my yesterday's wrong doing right, differently, but there is not a thing I can do about it now. Maybe I had to go through that in order to finally get it, and the pain from it will help me not to repeat my mistake.
     
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    That's it. No use crying over spilt milk. What's done can't be undone. That life is finished, there is no return to it in any way. The only thing we can do is to learn from our mistakes in order not to repeat them.

    I can't see any sense in this kind of yearning. To begin with, there should be no memory leaks from our past lives, it's a kind of a defect in the soul-body coupling, that the evolution has not yet repaired. Some of us suffer from these leakages more, some less. Just luck, we should not try to find any sense in it. All this IMHO, of course.
     
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    Do you folk think that was unplanned?
     
  4. Cyrus

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    As unplanned as any natural selection can be.

    A body that (when coupled with a soul) produced an individual with greater PL memory leaks, simply gave origin to a less psychologically stable individual, that died earlier.
    Thus, the evolution went in the direction of more hermetic PL memories. IMHO.
     
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  5. Ophelia3

    Ophelia3 Senior Registered

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    All a lot easier said than done unfortunately. Not seeing any sense in it doesn’t make the yearning evaporate, it’s a very (speaking for myself) deep-rooted emotion. Knowing you can’t return almost makes it more difficult to process.

    Again, I think if I could tap into this PL more it’d be a healing process.
     
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    I fully agree with you, and I know what it is from my own experience.

    And I never offered a solution to the problem - I just don't know any.

    Best regards.
     
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    Ophelia3 Senior Registered

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    That’s okay.

    In a way you’re lucky to not have experienced this kind of yearning for a past gone.

    I say in a way because I do enjoy it to some degree, I suppose anything that brings me closer is better than nothing!

    Thanks,

    Ophelia.
     

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