My mum is very unwell...

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  1. Mik26

    Mik26 New Member

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    Hello,

    My mum has suffered an aneurysm, which has resulted in two strokes, this has all happened in the past month.

    She is very unwell... I'm not sure how long she will live, as she's not able to talk or move. She's breathing for herself, which is good, and she can open her eyes. But the doctors have made it clear that her rehabilitation will be a long process and that she probably won't gain much mobility if any.

    Do you think my mum chose to have this life before she was incarnated on earth? Do we choose these things, I can't work out what her lesson she's getting from this awful experience is... Or is it more so she was given the opportunity to incarnate and chose it because of all the positive experiences and things she could learn... and this was just a compromise? Like "You're going to have the opportunity to gain this perspective and do this, but unfortunately the body will have aneurysms that will burst at 56"

    Also, will I get to incarnate again with my Mum? I love her so much. I just want to look after her, I've said to her many times, maybe she will one day come back as my grandchild haha. I've also said maybe once upon a time I was your mum!

    I'm just not sure what to think and would really value anyones opinion.

    Kind Regards,
    Mik
     
  2. Somedude77

    Somedude77 New Member

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    What a heartbreaking story, I hope your mum gets well.

    As to your question, well according to Dr. Michael Newton yes. People in the same soul group reincarnate together most of the times, not always as parents and offsprings, but always close relatives or friends. If you love her this much it proves that you are in the same soul group and that you've been incarnating here for a while and will do so in the future if you wish.

    What I've learned is that life, or at least life on earth, is simply life. Anything can happen, good and bad. That is the meaning of life, life itself and all it contains. We're here to experience all that, both good and bad. So she may very well have chosen to experience this, for herself or for another.

    Take everything I said with a grain of salt though, I'm no expert, none of us are as none of us really know the full story.
     
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  3. Mik26

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    Thank you very much for taking the time to answer... I'm very upset and this was comforting. If she does pass away, then I know I will meet her again. I just miss talking to her, maybe she'll amaze us all and get better.. but if she doesn't, I know I'll see her again.
     
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    You will talk to her again, that's for sure. My very best wishes to you and your mother.
     
  5. Tammy Evans

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    I hope I am doing this right! I too was very close to my mom and she passed on almost 4 years ago. I still have dreams where she is still alive and not sure what that means. I am so hoping to find her again when my life is over so that we can again have the closeness and love we had in this life. She was my hero. She endured so much pain while here that I am not sure she would want to come back. When she was dying she said she had talked to family members who were dead. I asked her who I was going to talk to when she passed and she told me I could still talk to her, that she would hear me. So I still do talk to her. Not sure if she is answering me in my dreams. I have alot of dreams of dead relatives and friends.Like they are still right here. But then I wake up and realize it was just a dream. I am so looking forward to ending this life and moving onto the next. But sorry to hear about your mom.
     
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    I don't know anything for fact, but this is my opinion. I don't believe that we choose or know what will happen to us before we reincarnate. I don't believe we are here to learn lessons either. Bad things happen, they don't have a meaning or reason.

    You definitely can reincarnate with your mum. After you die, when you/your soul choose your next life, you can absolutely choose to be with her.
     

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