reincarnation or something more.???

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  1. matthew46

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    Hi to anyone..
    I suppose im looking for help or even slight clarification if even possible on events that have happened to my partner and myself over the last couple of months. Without going into everything the facts are that approx 2mths ago during our very first night as a couple we were disturbed during the night by a sound in the wall which at first we thought were mice or god forbid rats etc etc this went on for at least an hour and eventually really began to upset us so i lashed out and kinda slapped the wall in a bid to move what was ever there.

    After about a second later a slap on the wall was returned...i repeated this a few times and the same result at one point i even tapped out a series of notes which was also returned..as anyone could imagine we were both a lot freaked out and spent the day looking for a explanation but there is only the 2 of us and during the last number of weeks we have slowly been communication by a series of tapping 1 for yes 2 for no and through various different methods have not only asked about our past but our futures..

    from my understanding our futures depend very much on the choices we make but they have guided us on 2 very serious situations that have avoided serious consequences however we have also discovered that we were a couple in the past myself born in 1715 and married in 1741...

    another thing is that they will only come to us when we are together i even set 3 trick questions that myself and my partner had agreed to ask...sure enough the first question was answered by 2 taps meaning how many dogs we had the second and third questions were answered before i had chance to ask them they know what we think....this is just the tip of it as they come 3 to 4 times a week for maybe 30 mins to 90mins ...

    im not sure what is going on but the tapping is loud its real and at times can be a comfort but at other times can be mixed with loud scratches like metal on metal...people may find all this hard to believe but we live with this and to be honest never would ever of believed in this type of thing...as i said before there are so many more situations that have happened that i really need to find out more any help really would be helpful..thanks
     
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    Hi matthew.


    Welcome to the forum.


    I'm going to move this to Parapsychology, as I think it fits better there, although there are reincarnation aspects too.

    While this may be a ghostly haunting of some kind, the 'tap once for yes and twice for no' is a classic seance parlour trick. Spirits don't actually have to knock on walls to communicate with people. They simply appear to them and/or communicate via their thoughts.

    My first thought is that your partner is playing a trick on you. You say this only happens when you are together and you have asked questions that only 'we' know the answer to. Has it occurred to you that you may be being hoodwinked for any reason? Perhaps this started out as a joke, but has gone too far to back out of now?
     
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    bizarre ??


    Hi


    Thanks for reply and i can understand your thinking but i can honestly state there are no tricks involved and are many episodes when we are both literally holding each other and in no way could of made these sounds....it is very hard to put into words how it is but i spent many hours thinking for logical explanations but there are none.....we asked a direct question that asked were we actually communicating with ourselves and a very strong yes was our answer...we also worked out that our appearance back in the 1700s was very much the same and also had children which over the last 2 weeks has become more evident .i know this does sound far fetched but i would really need to talk with someone to give the full story as its very difficult to understand..hope someone can help


    Many thanks
     
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    Hi, Matthew! Though I'm no expert on this field, I've heard of a few cases where the tapping you mention (I think the paranormal term is "rap") happens in poltergeists. Poltergeists can be caused by entities, but it's been observed in the last few years that it's more likely to be caused by ourselves, in an unconscious way. Usually it's a teenager in the house whose mind is altered and can't control this type of phenomena. Then the fear and the addition of other "unproved hypothesis" to the equation often lead to situations out of control... until one day everything stops.


    I don't know what you could do to stop it. Has there been some stress on your lives, lately, some abrupt changes, is it going everything right between you two? I would just forget about it and calm down. Experts say that if you ignore this kind of phenomena they will eventually disappear.


    Btw, I don't think this has anything to do with past lives.
     
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    Hi


    Thankyou for your reply..but the way the communication has gone through us supposing or even guessing has lead us to ask certain questions regarding our past and and a little of our future but from a simple yes or no or by using a number system we have found the past ie locations etc are now most definately linked to our future...we have found also that they feel anger towards certain people or situations that threaten us...in fact due to this information my partner was able to recognise a situation and the police have now taken over..so what im saying is that the communication is real and accurate...they display anger with an awful loud scraping noise which is very un-nerving as you can imagine we have really looked for logical explanations but there are none...within the last week i have been poked in the back on 3 different times i understand this sounds bizarre this really isnt my thing at all im could of said i was a total non believer however i know what we hear and the questions we ask


    One thing myself and my partner did always say to each other before all this started was that we felt so conected on all levels and felt we had been together a lifetime...bizarre or fact ????


    Thanks for your interest
     
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    Of course, the communication can be real, our subconscious is more powerful than we can ever begin to imagine. Maybe it's your partner the one who has some psychic abilities she's not even aware of, and she's picking up some information inadvertedly, and then she is manifesting it that way. That would explain the knowledge about your past lives. If with logical you mean "scientific explanation", no, probably there isn't, but from parapsychological research, seriously done, we can find alternative explanations and some can be certainly "logical", if only we learn there are more things in this world than our eyes can see.


    I understand your anxiety though, but even those who live with poltergeists in their houses get used to it!
     
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    You could go for a professional regression, or try meditating on past lives separately, without relying on the external interaction. It may be that once you face whatever is going on from the inside, that the external expression will no longer be necessary.


    I must admit, I'm far more comfortable talking with my guides and guardians in dreams and visions. I made very sure that I was only open to loving, positive, and protective spiritual interaction from the beginning, and kicked out anyone who scared me ... or faced them only after creating a safe space with an established spiritual guardian consciously present with me.


    It's possible that you could create that dynamic, even now, and set rules for interaction that would be more comfortable for you. It is my opinion (based on a lot of research, but still merely an opinion) that our spiritual "level" will interact with us with whatever "game" we create for it.


    Your internal mythology (book and movie themes, spiritual preferences, belief systems, fears) are the framework by which you can be reached, and they will use a patchwork until they find something that at least begins to make sense to you.


    It's a bit like trying to communicate via written word, pictionary, or charades. The information can get through either way, but the method you use affects how it is understood,... and different people are easier to communicate with one way than another. If you really were pushing away all spiritual communication until now, it may be that this is the only way you'd listen.


    Now that you know, I think it is possible (with self awareness and meditation) for you to choose a different "method" and get out of horror-movie mode into something a little less stressful. It is, at least, worth a try.


    After nearly a year of interacting with my guides on a daily basis, I still think that visible or audible feedback would give me quite a shock. Kudos to you for your courage in interacting with this energy.
     
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    Good advice Mere Dreamer! There will be others on the forum who are more experienced with this kind of thing than me who can give good guidance I'm sure!


    You say 'they' make these sounds. Is that because you think there is more than one entity, or because you don't know the gender?

    Matthew - would you like to briefly outline the past/future life connection for us? That might be an important clue to what's behind all this.

    That happens quite a lot actually. If you both feel you've known each other before, it's usually because you have.
     
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    I agree with Mere Dreamer. Matthew, it is very important to determine identity and true intentions of your contact. Not every entity communicating with you is benevolent. They can insinuate themselves into your confidence to wreak havoc at a later time. Be very careful!
     
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    Hi


    Thankyou for all your replies as i cannot emphasize how this is so strange for me as i have led a quiet life with minimum drama etc..however through various methods i asked a direct question to the as to who that were and by a simple yes or no were told it was ourselves we were with and that they were here to help and would be in the future....


    apparently our life has been mapped out from the very begining we met in the early 1700s in scotland in a place called iona but later moved to england to a area in derbyshire at an old manor..now myself and my partner have no links to scotland we thought but after a lot of thought we discovered that my partner did have in the very same place....who then later had links with the manor in derbyshire..the place in scotland has very strong religous links as it is considered one of the most sacred parts of scotland...


    i also know through my partner the original manor was home to monks etc..all of this may sound a little mixed up i know but as i said the tapping at times is so strong it vibrates the head of the bed.


    Also as regards present day things my partners situation with another person who had been threatening her had only come to light through this communication ..we never took it too serious but in fact if it wasnt the fact that we knew who and what to look for it could of been very serious..


    I have asked so many random questions to try and logically get answers so look forward to more comments or ideas people may have


    Many thanks
     
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    Hi


    Further to previous we have learned we are commincating with ourselves but over the last week to 10 days the children have also been to see us hence the poking in my back and the lifting of the duvet..another recent finding was through a photograph taken in the mentioned manor of a small boy maybe about 3yrs old kneeling down with his back to the camera this picture was taken about 2yrs ago by my partners brother as he always thought the manor had mysterious goings on etc...when i asked the entity ?? Was it my partner it said well tapped 2 times meaning no..was it me was answered with a very loud tap meaning yes.!!!..as i said so so many things over the last 2 mths


    Thanks again
     
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    Hi matthew.


    Sorry. This isn't too clear. I can see you're typing on your phone or something and I know that makes it difficult. Are these real children we're talking about or some kind of 'spirit children'?
     
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    It sounds like he's talking about "spirit" children. I guess they are living in a haunted house.
     
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    Hi


    The children i refer to are the children we had as a married couple back in the 1700s we are led to believe 7 in total included in this are twins. Another thing that was also predicted was that we were at somre stage going to have another child which would be a boy .


    Thanks again
     
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    Hi


    I know a lot of this can be difficult to follow but if anyone could recommend someone to talk to it really would help to try and understand what has and is happening..we live in the west of ireland and would travel to try and sort this out ...its hard to put into words the events of the last few months and way out of my comfort zone..having said that it doesnt scare or frighten us but does leave more questions than answers ...


    Thankyou
     
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    Matthew, if you're living in a haunted house, you should try and contact a serious specialist, that is, a paranormal researcher or a psychic you can trust (I'd prefer the first, but that's a personal thing). Like I said, it's likely the poltergeist phenomena (raps and whatever you are not telling us) is being caused by your subconscious (yours or your partner's). There can be ghosts in the house, yes, if they're the ones causing it, it would be great to know why they are there, and that's where the psychic could help. Or, you could use your communication system to find out. Anyway, if they're there because they haven't crossed over, you yourself can tell them mentally or in a loud voice to move on to the light and stop disturbing you (and yes, it's as simple as that, I've seen it recently in some cases here from people I do trust). They will understand. Usually they cause this type of phenomena because they're calling for attention, maybe they have some unresolved business, but they have to know they are dead and there's nothing they can do here.


    And if they don't get it and they stay (they have free will to do this, sometimes ghosts stay just because they want), you'll have to get used to them or ignore them... They say they are there to help, well, that's possible, if so there is no problem. But keep in mind ghosts also lie. If you can't stand the situation, and the problem is in the house and not in either of you, leave the house, if that's possible. I think looking for other explanations or adding unproved things like the past life information no one knows if it's true or where it's coming from, will only complicate things.


    That's my advice, I hope it helps.
     
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    Hi


    Thanks for reply


    Have asked many times as to whether they are here to help etc and all we have ever had back is that they are only here for us to help and as i said they have to a certain degree..the house we are in is the only one ever that we have lived in and it is always the same room and the same place within that room..the only exception being the very first 3 nights where we assumed they were trying to get our attention ie things moved many times and simply no explanation...very rarely does it wake us from our sleep maybe at 3 different times the others only come early in the night we are wide awake and very aware


    Thanks
     
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    Hi again


    Further to recent post have asked a few times why they are here and similar questions but what we have worked out is that they will follow us wherever we go and one day we ourselves will do as they do by helping the future i think depends on our choices the past they say is scary or will frighten us but if we give them time they will tell us...except for the horrid scratching no harm as ever been shown however its the kind of thing that can be really scary not knowing when or why its going to happen.


    We did ask on one occassion to show themselves and they said they would but we would not like what we saw so im afraid we did kinda chicken out i am leaning towards seeing a professional as i am so new to this idea and way of thinking


    Thanks
     
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    To me this is sounding more and more like a typical poltergeist where your subconscious is involved. Of course I can be wrong, I'm not there with you and there's no research going on. And yes, I know it's hard to believe there is no other "entities" doing this, and of course I know how scary it can be. Usually ghosts or spirits don't have this kind of "interaction" with people, telling them they will accompany them wherever they go or will always help. Let's say they have their own lives, things they are worried about and places they feel attached to. This doesn't sound like normal spirit guides either, as we usually know them in reincarnation circles. Like someone else said above they communicate through other means, they don't need to be causing physical phenomena like those you describe, and of course they wouldn't try to convince you of anything or intervene in your free will.


    I hope you'll find a solution and things will improve for you. Let us know what happens, I'm always interested in these cases!
     
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    Yes. I'd be thinking perhaps it's time for some outside assistance with this. Does anyone in the forum know of a good practitioner in Ireland who might be able to help with this?
     

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