Tanguerra We Miss You!

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  1. SeaAndSky

    SeaAndSky Senior Registered

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    Well, I don't know any other way to say it than to just to say it. Tanguerra has been a very active force on this board for as long as I have been here, and for a good deal longer than that. I don't know why she has stopped posting, but I want her to know that her presence and wisdom are definitely missed!

    If you're missing Tanguerra, please post something to let her know. I've got no way of knowing whether she is still checking in, but I think she should know if she is.

    S&S
     
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  2. fireflydancing

    fireflydancing just a fly in the sky Staff Member Super Moderator

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    Me too. She was the one to welcome me on the board and gave me the confidence. Like many, I was afraid to sound too crazy.

    Miss you too Tanguerra!
     
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  3. Tinkerman

    Tinkerman Administrator Staff Member Super Moderator

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    She was a beautiful presence here on the forum. And yes we miss her endlessly. I will pass your wishes on to her privately. ~T
     
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    Angie Brown Senior Registered

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    I am still a quite recent member so hadn't read so much of what she wrote as those of you who have been here yonks, but from what I have read I liked her and do hope she is well and is only 'taking a rest from the web'.
     
  5. SeaAndSky

    SeaAndSky Senior Registered

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    Hi Angie,

    Tang was/is notable not just for a certain wry humor and well balanced wisdom, but for some very notable threads. Your best introduction would probably be her thread about her multi-life relationship with her friend "X":

    http://reincarnationforum.com/threads/my-friend-x.1438/

    She often linked to videos, summing up both feelings, recollections and philosophies. This was always one of my favorites, as I think it sums up Tang:



    Once again, a presence I miss,

    S&S
     
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  6. Angie Brown

    Angie Brown Senior Registered

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    Thank you, S&S. I shall have a looksee after supper :)
     
  7. tanguerra

    tanguerra Senior Registered

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    Thanks guys. (Hi!)

    The Tman let me know you guys were thinking of me and I am very touched (yes really). I'm fine! I'm still alive (yay). I am in a pretty good space at this time actually.

    Things have been interesting the last year or two. I am still getting over the passing of X (and D of course). It's still all very raw and I am still in repair mode and don't have a lot left over just at the moment. Wont be forever. But I'm good right now. I really am. But there are massive scars and they are still needing a bit more time.

    I retired from work (lucky me) and moved to a house in the countryside with an old friend (my future twin - whole other story... the mysterious 'Wilhelm' (W)... not as easy or fun as it might sound... ) Apart from that I have been focusing my energies forward lately on saving the world (as one does - climate emergency - VERY IMPORTANT ) so I am sorry I have been away.

    I have 'kind of adopted' the son of D in the last year or so. He has moved to the country with us too and is studying. 'Son of D' was more lost than me over what happened the past few years and was too young to lose his father. I have generally taken him under my wing and been his 'pretend aunty' the past year or so. (He is upstairs pretending to write an essay as we speak. :)) So, that's a good thing and I am keeping two oaths: one to his dad and another to X - if 'anything should happen' - to 'keep an eye on him'. That has been taking up most of my time, along with saving the world....

    I am sorry I have not been around so much lately, but as I explained to the T-Maister. after all the terrible things that happened after D and X died in fairly quick succession someone needed to look after the 'young prince' who could so easily have become a homeless orphan... I am 'Uncle Argyle'... That in itself has been something well worth doing.



    The journey continues. I hope to look in more often. Weather permitting.

    Love to you all

    xx

    T
     
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  8. Deborah

    Deborah Executive Director Staff Member

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    So good to hear from you. "D" is blessed to have you and yes...please! Save the world! ;)

    Many Hugs
     
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  9. tanguerra

    tanguerra Senior Registered

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    4am crying my eyes out on a Tuesday!! with the memories!!. But young prince safely snoring away upstairs makes it all worthwhile. Wounds heal. Love is forever.
     
  10. tanguerra

    tanguerra Senior Registered

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    Back from when I could still smell him, even a bit. Lots of healing is still needed. Sorry everyone but this stuff is like emotional kryptonite to me still at the moment when I am trying to have a 'grip' if only for the sake of 'Son of D' and be all grown up and sensible. I am quietly sneeking tonight being a bit emotional behind everyone's back .... Don't worry about me. I will get over it. I always do but anniversaries are hard. Sorry in advance to be so self-indulgent. Three years is not very long (in the scheme of things).

     
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