Have you ever thought about what type of life you would want to incarnate into next? what challenges you want to face? and if you would want to be male/female? We are here to learn and then pick what path we feel will be good for our next incarnation, so why not do it now :laugh:. When you have thought about it, do you think that, when we die, we would still be interested in having the same "next life" as the one we have thought about just now? Maybe when we are in spirit form we have a different way of thinking?