I have experienced different people from my past life to have been envious or jealous. For example the envious part existed in my past life family. I had a sibling who demanded more attention while I was comfortable not getting the same amount. This sibling would struggle with being envious and being jealous later in life as well. While I would be happy for my sibling's success and happiness, and be kind to the love in my sibling's life I found that in return my sibling would criticize my own love for reasons that either he or I could understand. Like it was forbidden to just be happy for him if something went his way. Later in life I was with someone, a man, who was jealous and whom I felt I had failed and tried everything I could because I felt so bad about it all. I so did not want him to feel this way. In the end I realized that I loved him in my own little way, but not in the way that should exist between two people in love. His flame had died out too. By the time we parted we were scarred and tired. When I have experienced other past lives I see a recurring theme of this envy or jealousy thing that has made me underplay my part. I don't know what the lesson is in this. All I know is that it created a lot of negativity for no good reason. Have any one else been given an answer from within or spirit guide what these experiences are suppose to teach us ?