The deaths that have affected me most in my adult life, were of 2 friends. Strangely, both died on the same day as the family member they were closest to. A few weeks ago, one of my friends was found brutally murdered alongside his brother. They were very close, even roommates. They were both in their 30’s. 5 years ago, a friend of mine died on the same day as his grandmother. His grandmother had cancer, and had been battling her last few months at home. My friend, who had been raised by her, nursed her up until the day she died. That night, my friend wrecked his car driving at over 100 mph, and died instantly. It’s as if he had a death wish. He was only 23. I’m wondering the significance of both of these guys dying at the same time as the person they were closest to. I’ve read that often unexpected/premature deaths occur as a result of using up your karma in this life. But what are the chances of the two brothers using both of theirs up? And could one family member die in order to serve as the spirit guide for another, whose fate was inevitable?