Hi briski. The week before my father died he called us all into the room to speak to us individually. He called me in. Straight away he said "You're a terrible disappointment to me. You had brains to burn and you didn't use them." I thought about all the people holding me back and manipulating things to keep me down. I thought about my then current fight for my old love and I thought how I considered myself a successful human being for surviving what I was going through. I said none of that to my father though. He wouldn't understand. Two and a half years after his death I had a visitation dream from him. He said that what he had said to me was wrong. What I'm saying is that what we or others consider our failures may be successes spiritually speaking and what we consider our successes may be our failures. I'm sure that if you have a life review it will only serve to mirror you back to yourself in all the ways unknown to you on this Earth. It can only be a good thing.