Will my daughter reincarnate and be with me again?

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  1. Varinder

    Varinder New Member

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    It is almost 3 months since I lost my infant daughter. She lived 47 hard days fighting every single day to be with me. The doctors kept telling us they don't know what kept her holding on for so long as infants with her condition don't make it through a few days. Finally when her body became too weak, she gave up.
    I have not seen death so closely except for my grandparents who lived till old age and their deaths were acceptable. The time I held her lifeless body was a big revelation for me. I realized that I am in love with that soul and not the body.
    But my actual quest started when- me, my husband and my mother were meditating in a Buddhist monastery. A japanese prayer was being recited and its an alien language for us. Much to our surprise my mother started saying that prayer word by word. We were taken aback and my mother later told us that somehow she knew that prayer, it was in her mind may be from her past life. I started looking up on the matters of Life and death as I realized that there is something beyond this physical body and my daughter still exists. We have had many experiences where my daughter has tried to establish a contact with me and my family.
    The last time I held her I kept saying things like - " Come back again fit and healthy", "Don't go to any other mother", "I will wait for you, come soon". When i reflect back it makes me hard to believe that i was actually saying all this, as according to my way of thinking death is the end.
    Shortly after her passing I had dreams about her growing up in my house. My sister has had a couple of dreams - In the first one, a voice kept telling her that my daughter will be sent back again at the right time and even a name for her was suggested . In the second dream she saw me deliver a girl, and i kept crying and telling that my daughter has come back.
    My mother had a visitation by my daughter the other day, she saw her face on top of hers and she was smiling and my mother kept requesting her to come back again.
    I get random thoughts usually after i get up from sleep. Thoughts like - "Get me from the same hospital you lost me " (I was scared of that hospital that i would turn my head away when i used to pass that place), "The love that you share with your child, no other does" ( I got this thought on the night i slept weeping after seeing my colleagues deliver healthy kids and i thought how unfortunate I am as a mother). I wrote a poem with some thoughts entering in my mind and a line of it said " Mamma let me go for now, but I will come back to you somehow".
    I came across a lady who has authored a few books and autowrites with her spirit son. Her spirit son found my daughter and sends me messages about her. All the messages say that she is dreaming of home with me and will find her way back to me when the time is right. The messages say she feels an urge to be more and more with me. I had no idea about a communication like this but all this just kept happening on its own, as if my daughter wants me to move ahead and get her back again. And then I stumbled on this forum and Carol's book. I haven't yet read the book but ordered it already.
    Besides this, messages like this come through different people as well. My doctor told me the other day "That soul was trapped in a weak body. She is still there, you just have to make a body for her. He also mentioned that though he is a doctor, he doesn't know what makes him say all that.
    We are considering another pregnancy as soon as I am physically and emotionally little better. I somehow feel my daughter will return again in a fit body.
    I would like to know what you people feel about our experiences and how would you interpret them?
     
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    If you look through the forum and read various books by those who study reincarnation you will see that this is a common element among mothers, to receive notifications from their future child that they have been chosen. It sounds like she wanted to comfort you and help you recover from losing her. Of course, we can't predict when or how that will happen from our side, but when you feel ready to have another child then move forward in the direction that seems right to you.

    From what you say, your daughter seems determined to reassure you that she is not lost to you forever, but is still close and plans to return.
     
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  3. Varinder

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    Thank you "Mere Dreamer" for reading my long post and thank you for a beautiful reply. Gives me so much solace to know that there is a possibility for my daughter to return....This is what keeps me going. I am working hard on my body to carry her again!
     
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    HI, am sorry for your loss. 3,500 I lost my daughter NEFERU-RE she was five years old, and I held her lifeless body in my arms...Does were the most terrible moments for me, she was fine earlier then later she was death.
    I found her in this life... but I can tell you if GOD ALMIGHTY wants he will fill your heart with happiness again, Lets pray for it! I also had another daughter, her name was HATSHEPSET, and I give birth to her in this life. Have you seeing the movie HEAVEN IS REAL? I suggest for you to see it.
    Smile GOD ALMIGHTY will have a gift for you.

    HATSHEPSUT
     
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    Hi Varinder

    Welcome to the forum. I am so sorry to hear about your loss.

    As the others have said, this kind of thing happens more often than most people think. It's probably not just your imagination. I hope your daughter is on the way back to you. Love usually finds a way.
     
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    Hi, that love an connection you had with your little baby, you will regnize it even if she comes back from another womb...And you will love her very much too, because I am telling you from my own experiance. I meet my daughter NEFERU-RE in this life when she was 15 years old and I was 24...my feelings inside of me was that I kew her, but my heart was move with a greater sentiment of mother love, she became attachad to me, I justo ask her WHY DO YO LOVE SO MUCH? (I already know the answer but I wanted to know if her inner feelings recognize me) then she said because "I feel that you are my mother, and I cannot understand it" see souls has the way to find its loves one. Then I told her, What I am about to tell you most people dont even know or speak of these, but You were my daughter NEFERU-RE 3,500 years ago! And you look like your father SEN-MUT. I follow and told her our lufe story, since then we became closer, she will come to my home early in the morning and spend the day playing with my little son when she did not have school , but come every day after school... I help her with her home work, I saw her graduate from high school, help her choose he promp gown...celabrate with her, help her with her first job application...guide her through her ups and downs, she got engage and I help her choose her weading dress, got married, I was her made of honor in her weadding...then she left to Germany for so many years... we fade out in our communication then re-started again...well I have been as much that I could in her life...she had 3 childrens. (My grand childrens).
    Just to let you know this, even that THUTMOSES II was not her father, he love her as if she was his. Then I married him in this life...and we lieve a life at it was in EGYPT apart from each other, but he did believe me when I told him that in a prior life he was THUTMOSES II...and in this life the love he felt for her 3,500 years ago, never change. Even that we are divorse since 1982, him and I never been apart, we alway comunicate daily, and he comes for thanksgiving every year, And that is the most beautifull part. I found so many of my love ones in this life. Including my most beloved one SEN-MUT.
    Now, be at ease that she will come back to you... and I know it is very hard what I am sbout to tell you...Be relax and HAPPY she is in heaven with the Angels, BECAUSE GOD DOES EXIST! and some day God will send you a precious gift, and if she is the one back...she will let you know all on her own.. AND YOU WILL KNOW THAT SHE IS THE ONE!." GOD BLESS YOU.
     
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    Thank you for your reply...yes Love transcends death. Even when we lose our physical bodies, loves remains!
     
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    Thank you for sharing the beautiful relationship with your daughter and the connection that you rediscovered again. Your msg gives me so much solace that we never ever lose our loved ones forever and that love remains forever.
     
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    So a dream about a person led me to Naadi Shastra....

    I dreamt of a person with a particular name and got up with that name. To my surprise, i found that person in real. He is on Wikipedia too and has a great contribution in bringing the Nadi astrology system into limelight. I looked up on net about what is Naadi astrology.

    So this is a form of Hindu astrology practiced in Tamil Nadu, Kerala and adjacent regions in India. It is based on the belief that the past, present and the future lives of all humans were foreseen by Hindu sages in ancient time.About 2000 years ago, 18 rishis including the Saptarishis (the seven sages), had drafted future predictions of humans and composed them on palm leaves. The palm leaves contain recorded facts about an individual's entire life span i.e. the Past, Present and the Future. It covers family background, education & career, love & marriage, children & their future, business & financial status, foreign visits, health, property, litigations, secrets of success, etc. Besides, they also depict the planetary positions in the individual's horoscope. These palm leaves and the science of future predictions were passed down from generation to generation.

    So the Naadi astrologer took our thumb prints and began searching for our leaf (you don't have to tell your name even).Eventually when our leaf was found he told us our names, family background, marriage and everything. All the points he said were bang on correct including names of our parents. Then he came to the point, I was interested in. He told us about our daughter, what had happened to her and then said something that made me shiver and gave goosebumps - "He said, your daughter wants to return". He said she is going to come very soon and will be a girl again. He also told us how her future life will be. My husband who is skeptical about all these spiritual matters was taken aback at these precise details and predictions. It gave me so much solace and i then realised this dream was my daughter's way of getting me into this reading and knowing about her intention to return. It barely took him 5 minutes for him to find our leaf as if someone had already kept our leaf in the first bundle itself.

    I read that this is the distinctiveness of this astrology. Even the very age when person is destined to come for the reading is manifest on the leaves. Whoever is destined to come for a reading will come at the right time they say. Belief is the core of this system.
     
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    fireflydancing just a fly in the sky Staff Member Super Moderator

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    Dear Varinder,

    I guess your daughter will return somehow, and I hope you will find your peace.
    I almost cried when I first started to read your story. I have my own history in wanting my daughter back, although I do not share the experience of losing her as a baby in this life.
    As I look back through my life, I've found several daughters (or they found me), and although it's not quite the same as baring a child, it's very close, as long as they are happy and safe in another family.

    But in your case, Varinder, she is on her way to you. Just relax in the meantime.
     
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    I am living in the hope of her return....so interesting to read about ur experience. Love is the driving force of this universe indeed!
     
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    I hope you find comfort in all of us...
     
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    Varinder, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to loose a child, how devastated it is and that you want him of her back. When I saw your post, I wanted to share my experience with you. I recognize your experience with dreams and feelings about reincarnation. I had them too and I think that my son came back to us after 2 years. This is my story. I hope it helps you and that you will have your daughter back.

    I lost my son N 5 years ago, suddenly a week before his first birthday. I was so devastated and I wanted to die too, but I had to take care of his twinsister. Before he died, I had strange dreams and thoughts about him dying. And unfortunately it did happen. After he died more strange things happend. I write a few down. Because of these things I got the feeling that his soul was coming back someday.
    – I had a ereader with a lot of books on it and everytime I hooked it on my computer to put more books on it, the reader showed me the same text from a book I wasn't reading at the time. It happend at least 7 times. It gave me goosebumps! It was a book of Harlan Coban and he wrote down a peace of a lyric of the song Atlantic city' by Bruce Springsteen: "Well now Everything dies baby that's a fact
    But maybe everything that dies, someday comes back.”

    – After 5 months we decieded to try for a new baby. Then I saw in a magazine a boys name (starts with L) which I really liked and I had a feeling that N choose this name. Later I found out that it means the same as N's name.

    – Every night befor I went to sleep I thought N will be L. I didn't know where that came from.

    – my daughter was 1,5 years old and stand across the livingroom. I was lying on the couch. Suddenly she says the name of her twinbrother, rans to me, pulls my shirt up and gives me a kiss on my belly.

    – I was looking for a memory necklage with a print of my sons hands and feet on the internet. Then I saw a blue sling with the text: L...has been born. I saw it as a sign dat he was coming back.

    – Some songs helped comfort me. Songs with 'home' in it gave me the feeling that my son said that he was coming home like the song:' I'm coming home, tell the world I'm coming home', by Skylar Grey and Diddy. One day i was in my car and I heard the song 'home' by Chris Daughtry. I wanted to hear more of this artist and then I heard the song that gave me goosebumps: 'It's not over'

    part of the lyrics are:

    Well, I tried to do it right this time around
    Let's start over, I tried to do it right this time around, it's not over
    There's a part of me that's dead and in the ground
    This love is killing me, but you're the only one, it's not over

    Taken all I could take, and I can not wait
    We're wasting too much time
    Being strong, holding on
    Can't let it bring us down
    My life with you means everything
    So I won't give up that easily


    – dream: I dreamt that I was in the hospital lying in a bed with a babyboy in my arms. I asked him if he was back with me. And he said “yes”. This dream came true. (except that he said “yes”ofcourse ;-))

    I read the book of Carol Bowman: Return from heaven. It really helped me and also reading on the forum.

    My son L is now 3,5 years old. He looks a lot like N and he has the same character. But he never talks about reincarnation. I hope he will someday. I really hope he was my son N.


    PS: sorry for my spellingmistakes. I'm Dutch ;-)
     
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    Thank you dear Vlinder. The first thing that struck me was our similar names...Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. Every time I read such experiences, i feel so much at peace. Our children never truly leave us, they keep comforting us through various signs and messages.

    I can imagine your feelings having your precious son back with you. I am waiting for that day too with all the anticipation. The dream that you had already validated that its your same son who has reincarnated again.

    Love is indeed is the driving force of our Universe and when true love is there, then anything and everything is possible.

    Few lines about the love we share we share with our precious ones:

    And within me is where you belong. Inside of me is where you stay. And it doesn't matter how far you go or how long you are away, in the end you will come back home. You will come back to me, in my arms, in my heart....your home forever!

    Many happy days to you in the company of your loved ones :)

    Lots of Love,
    Varinder
     
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    She is on her way again....
    On 20th May my sister had a dream that tested positive on a pregnancy kit (It was our wedding anniversary that day). She insisted me to test but I was adamant...I kept saying it is not possible to conceive naturally for me. I took a test on 23rd May and it came positive to my surprise. Just a couple of days before this I saw my daughter in a dream. She was floating up in the sky and just when she was on top of my terrace she started coming down and i ran to catch hold of her and she came in my arms. The day i conceived, I had a very strong sign. A class 4 student in the middle of his math class ( I work as a teacher in a school) told his teacher that he is getting a feeling that Ms. Varinder is going to be pregnant again. When the teacher told me about this I asked the boy what made him say so. He said that he predicts things...he said he looks at people observe their expressions and body language and ask my brain about that person and my brain answers me. He said when he was doing his math sums he could see my tummy becoming bigger and bigger. A couple of weeks later he told me that now I was pregnant and his prediction was true.
    These signs are convincing enough for me and I know I will meet her again in a few months now.
    Thanks to all the people who supported me through my tough times.
     
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    I am soooo! VERY HAPPY TO HEAR THAT, you are going to be a great mother! have you had a Sonogram yet? let me know... I am so happy for you. Take care.
     
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    Hi, just to touch bases with you. Did you have your baby? Please let me know..
    About me, finally my book of my past life as Pharsoh Hatshepsut was publish Sunday 7/6/18 by Amazon.com after 2 years beig edited. The full title is
    "HATSHEPSUT THE WOMAN WHO WAS PHARAOH" By Nely Emiliani.
    I hope you be able to read my whole life in Egypt. 819 pages is my book. It took 4 years to write.
    Please let me know about your baby. God Bless you.
     
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    Hello,

    So delighted to see your message....so nice of you. My daughter has returned back in the form of a handsome boy this time. He is 6 months and 11 days today. He came as out new year gift born on 1st January. We were not very prepared of his early arrival though. He was in the same NICU this time for 2 days but was handed over to us safe and healthy. We were amazed to see the him looking very much like the last time just with a different gender. The whole 9 months of pregnancy were being guided...every step was guided through different ways right from drrams to random people. He is a very naughty fellow and keeps us on our toes day and night ☺ that grief has given way to so much joy and love now.

    Congratulations for your book. I am waiting to read it...All the very best to u.

    Lots f love,
    Varinder


     
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    MAATKE-RE Probationary Member

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    Oh! You make me very happy! GOD himslfe send you a gift. He knew how wonderful mother you will be and send you a precious gift. I am happy that he is healthy. You know that boys love their mothers more? Enjoy him ( And wao! Born in the New year. What is his name? Kiss him for me and congratulation to you and your husband.
    Lets be friends, I will like that.
    I hope you read my life story, and know how much I love Sen-Mut. A love that transended space and time. And still love him the same. I found him in this life, and was able to tell him about our life 3,500. We still in touch and some day I will tell you our life in this life.
    God bless you.
     
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    Thank you so much my friend for all the good wishes and love. We have named him Meher ( Meher means blessing and also benevolence). We were guided to give him this name before his birth and it is after our beloved master Meher Baba. I discovered my past life connection with him through all that happened with me. He assured me all through out about my daughters return again. The most wonderful thing was that He is not in his physical form, but then this body is just a cloak.
    Anyways I am so happy to see the power of love in your case. Love truly transcends all boundaries and is beyond physical. How amazing that you are still in touch with Sen - Mut....
    I am going to read your book very soon. I wish you all success for your book and hope it helps many many people who are confused about this matter.
     
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