Hi, I'm new here. I'm very interested in reincarnation and have read many books including carol's and Michael Newton's. It's facinating. My question today is is it possible to prepare now for a better future life? I'm currently going thru a miserable period in my life. I'm dealing with some very toxic people and am in some unhealthy relationships....unfortunately they are siblings so I can't exactly end these ties. I often wonder why these toxic family members are in my life. I often wish they weren't. They have hurt me terribly and this pain makes it so hard to enjoy the good people in my life. I feel like the pain is ongoing because they are my family and I'll never be able to put the bad experiences behind me. I've been beaten down so much. I feel like my only hope is that my next life will be better BUT what if they end up in my family again?? I guess they are in my life for a reason. I just wish I can look forward to a day when they are not in my life anymore. I want to be happy and I feel they make it hard. What is the lesson here for me? Is it true that we have a choice in planning our next life? I, like so many people, wish I can do it all over again. I have so many regrets. It seems family members keep reappearing in our lives. I want to be done with these people. I wonder what your thoughts are about choosing our family, the lessons and what can we do in this life to have a better, happier future life? Also can we choose to keep the ones we love in our future life and choose to not have those who hurt us in our next life? Thanks!