Sunny1994 said:
I just signed on to post about this! ;0) It sounds really interesting, I just hate that they refer to it as "ghosts", kinda bugs me. ;0)
I had to laugh when I heard the title because it reminded me of a conversation I shared with my own Mom when I was 12 about my childhood memories. We tried to utilize humor as much as possible when the 'past life' subject came up. She got very upset when it resurfaced again at the age of 12 and her emotions were worked up and that is what she said,
"I am tired of my son being haunted by another man's ghost."
It bothered me that she was looking at me like a walking, talking ghost. My Mom didn't want to believe in reincarnation due to her religious beliefs - as well as opening the door for her other children to put her through what I had put her through. My Mom and I had a heart to heart talk and she tried to get me to see it from her point of view - and she was very intimidated by the whole idea.... so it was very scary to her.
There is a segment where Cade's Mother echo's my own Mother's sentiments about the hardship it is to see her child as anything more than her child.
The title brought back pleasant memories of the humor between my Mom and I dealing with a very painful subject.
There was another point expressed in the show when Carson's sister stated she felt the 'memories' were an act to get attention. My own siblings often expressed this to me when I spoke about my past life memories.
I like the way the show focused only on the families and didn't have 'experts' injecting opinions.
(Usually when they do this, they have to present both sides of the coin and have someone who is opposed and biased against reincarnation talking about hallucinations or some sort of subliminal expression of things heard as a baby and stored away in the unconscious or something to that degree.) So, I liked the way the program focused on the testimony of family members and how they were coping with it.
Another segment about one of the children not wanting to refer to their current Mother as Mom - rang a bell to me as well. I went through a phase around 5 to 7 were I wouldn't refer to my current parents as "Mom" or "Dad" and only wanted to refer to them by their first names. I didn't realize it at the time but it hurt their feelings a great deal. In hindsight, it was more out of respect for the memories I did walk with of the past life parents. I felt it was disrespecting their memories. I eventually couldn't bear to see the tears well up in my current parents and got through the phase. Years later, my Mom still talked about her hurt feelings from that phase in my childhood.
I loved the focus on the family aspect of it - and felt I witnessed Andrea Leininger (and Bruce) presented their story in a more down to earth way without appearing they were being 'interviewed.' So - I liked their presentation in this production as opposed to others where they seem 'scripted' by an interviewer.
Sincerely,
DKing