An issue close to my heart...
What they can do is engender self-doubt... but self-doubt, if we use it rather than let it paralyze us, spurs us to greater rigor in self-examination.
I was lucky... in the first two years after my past lives emerged, I ran into no one else who claimed the really famous one. Subsequently I've heard of about ten or fifteen, ranging from a cult leader in Sedona who plans to rule the world after Armageddon, to a guy who somehow convinced a university department that he was the real thing, to a basement-dweller-type who based it all on one glimpse of a vision of himself standing in front of an army of the time, apparently not realizing that he could have been someone else standing in front of an army of the time. And then there's the person who wants to sue major TV and movie studios, because she believes that they steal all their ideas telepathically from her thoughts.
There's too many of them to let them bother me, any more... except when they verbally attack me, which two of them have on no provocation other than my claim... but that proves nothing except that they are frightened by my claim and overcome by the urge to lash out. My feeling is that if I ever run into another who has more evidence than I do, or even an equally convincing amount, I'll accept that their claim seems to be strong, and question myself as to what might actually be going on in my own head, which I do anyway. That has yet to happen.
I think evidence is the bottom line, really. Maybe it's not fair that no one's going to believe us off the bat, but, with so many spurious claims around, it's a reality we have to live with. As I mentioned in another forum, when I give the name, now, I also give the best piece of evidence -- right up front. It doesn't convince everybody, because those people who in their past lives refused to look down Galileo's telescope, so as to avoid seeing what was there, are still with us today... but I find many people are open-minded, and it gets better results, in my experience, than not offering said evidence.
Fact is that spurious claims discredit us all. Real past life memories, of whatever degree of renown, are dismissed; the whole field is made to look like the refuge of lunatics; people struggling along their own path of self-discovery get thrown into confusion. My position now is that people shouldn't make famous past life claims unless they have amassed enough evidence to defy other explanations, and are willing to share it all, or at least the highlights.
Having said that, I'd like to offer what I consider to be some clues as to whether a famous past life is genuine. A genuine one:
- is remembered in a similar way, with a similar tone, to other past life memories... details, confusion, images, emotions, that interesting mix of vague and vivid you get, etc. If it sounds like it's out of a history book, it probably is.
- has connections and relevance to the person's present life, which prove useful in spiritual growth and/or healing.
- contains little or no sense of grandstanding, boastfulness, self-importance or one-upmanship. If someone clearly wants to be treated specially due to having had a certain past life, it's almost certainly not real.
- is accompanied by no signs of mental illness, e.g. confused thinking, other grandiose or bizarre claims, verbal aggressiveness, social or career non-functionality, excessive negativity, etc.
- contains memories of scenes that were not recorded by history, but fit well with it, and may provide logical answers to questions whose answers are not historically known.
- has the firmness of certainty in memory, while at the same time the person expresses doubts... ordinary people remembering extraordinary lives doubt their memories as a matter of course, because it's natural to think, 'How can I have been that?' In other cases, their memories were suppressed in childhood, sometimes brutally, by closed-minded parents, and thus doubts are deeply ingrained. Their desire to confirm their memories comes less from a desire to impress than the drive to know the truth about themselves.
My .02 anyway.
This thread finally inspired me to write an article for the FAQ section that I promised Deborah oh, months ago, on exactly this question. I sent it to her privately for her perusal/approval, so it won't be up until after this one is...
Love & peace,
Karen