Have you ever been used?

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    KenJ Moderator Emeritus

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    My fifth other-worldly experience:

    When I was in my late twenties replacing the old double-hung wooden windows in a Building in Hamilton Ohio, this mysterious thing occurred that shook me. While I was eating lunch in the parking lot, I noticed a young lady that worked in the building embracing and kissing a young man, I had no idea who the man was or their relationship. Later when I was in the office where she worked and in front of several of her co-workers, I blurted out that “Someone was watching you kiss that fellow in the parking lot”. I wondered to myself who I was talking about and why I would say such a thing. It was like I was playing a game; not sure if it was “sport” or caused by something more.

    She would ask questions and answers would come out of my mouth. “What did he look like?” – “I don’t know; he was in a car” – “What color was the car?” – “Green” (I was imaging a friend’s car) – “What kind of car?” – “Small; maybe a Volkswagen”. It appeared that my answers fit her reality and shook her deeply. Very strange experience! It seems that this might be a case of her guide using me to get her attention.

    What are your thoughts? Have you had a similar experience?
     
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    It could be you were shown something that happened in her past and she remembered; you kind of were looking through the hologram into a piece of time and space - spirit wanted to remind her.???? Just a thought. I have blurted out things that didn't make sense to me; it's been a while but it is an odd feeling - especially when who you blurted it out and they know what you meant ~ and you don't. ;)
     
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    When A was gone, before i left for work, i talked to him & told him "A, if u r here with me or could hear me, pls give me 3 same rare signs today, so i know there is no coincidence & know that u r doing well"

    So ive been waiting the whole day, i didnt witness anything, until...

    B met me in the bus so we took a ride together to go home. All of sudden, the woman in front of us got a phone call, before she started conversation, suddenly she blurted & repeated this sentence 3x

    "I called him A (coz his name super super rare here where we live & in other countries got some, but neither something common)"

    So i was shocked, i thought i overheard. Then, B was so excited, he asked me, "did u ask A for a sign? Did u hear the woman in front of us just mentioned his name 3x"

    I said yes, i thought it was only me imaginating, B confirmed, no, i heard it too

    Did she show discomfort after the conversation?

    I think between spirit guides have sort of connection, they would try to find a way so that the deceased ones could go peacefully & move on, after delivering message to those who were left behind. That guy passed away?
    I just wonder how the spirit guides could achieve that. They say only old soul can make such influence.

    Oh wow! How ackward for both of u

    But i was surprised u were aware & could remember u said that, coz the woman in the bus, she continue talking on the phone as if she wasnt aware (as if under trance) that she had actually repeated same sentences with special name 3x. We didnt notice that she reacted nor got surprised after saying weird things.
     
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    My intent was to try to start a thread that created interest and a place to have others express similar happenings; I'm glad to see some success. The experience that I shared had no personal meaning to me at that time. It did not have anything to do with a need of mine, I had no "skin in the game", nor did I have a "motive", at the most I had only a mild discomfort about seeing a young lady, about my own age at that time, in such an open display of affection with someone I suspected of not being her husband. I had no basis for my suspicions, only some feelings resulting from what I saw at a distance. Note - I know of nobody that would have ever classified me as a "Prude" - ever.
     
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    I copied that written record of that experience and edited it to take out some information, I guess I took out too much as it seems the resulting description did not represent what I intended.

    Her anxiety increased with each utterance and her eyes got bigger and bigger as she seemed to look around for support and guidance, truly afraid. My immediate thought was that what she envisioned from my description was her husband catching her with a boy-friend and wondering what the evening was going to be like.

    I just felt that her spirit guide used me to shake her up, get her attention, cause something in her life.
     
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    Yes Myna, it was very different from your experience. I was VERY conscious of what was happening, I just seemed to be an "observer" there myself, a participant-observer who was perhaps more aware of what was going on inside of her than what was going on inside of me. That is why I titled this thread as I did - I definitely felt that I was being used by spirits to create an experience in someone's life.
     
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    I was at a Brian Weiss seminar and he started us off with trying some psychometry. I was sitting next to another woman and she and I agreed that she would read my ring and I would read her watch. I'm skipping past a lot here, but towards the end, I was getting visuals of a lot of plants when one of them changed into a male peacock with tail fully fanned out ( Note: I've had some shamanic training). She was really intrigued by the peacock. I suggested that she might meditate on it. Meanwhile, I'm thinking, Wow Peacock sure found a good way to get her attention! So, yeah, I got used. Was ok with it though.
     
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    @Cryscat
    Hey, could u tell me more about psychometry pls.
    When i had intensive spiritual experience, i could easily see the history of the object im my movie mind, i normally held it & induce it with question before off to bed. When i held an object of my ex-son, which he got it from his teacher. I saw the history of a lady in my mind movie, her house & cloth etc. Then, i asked the teacher where she got it, she said that she bought second hand on internet. Why I got the vision of this woman, not my ex-son? If he was the last one who used it & always off to bed holding it. Shouldnt it store his energy in that object, not the one from the lady?

    In some objects, i could see my old me with ex-son

    Btw can u read other ppl PL??
     
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    Myna

    Psychometry is a psychic skill that enables someone to pick up information from an inanimate object.

    That was the first time I tried it, and it seemed to work pretty well. Haven't tried it since then. No I don't do readings for people, I've tried on some missing person cases. I can usually tell when someone is alive or someone has died. I do have trouble though with people who are in a coma or just unconscious in some way.
     
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    I have tried several times with different objects.

    U can try as i did, just hold the object & say your intention to read the history of it. It will reveal u. I stopped doing it because i had sort of painful experience on 1 object, so i decided not to try anymore, since i dont know what kind of visions it will reveal to me
     
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    But, Ken, YOU were the one watching them kissing.
     
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    I titled this thread badly it seems, and I apologize for that. My meaning was the feeling of being used by Spirits, Guides, or Guardians for something not understood at the time.

    In my example, I certainly was the one who was the observer in the parking lot, but also being as much an observer as I was a participant in the conversation later that afternoon with her in her office.
    The words coming out of my mouth were not formed by my conscious intentions - my only explanation was that she was to have an awakening of some kind. It invoked fear and anxiety, something I had no reason or intention of doing.
     
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    Okay, I see what you are saying now. But couldn't her obvious fear just have been a result of being told she was being watched, not from being "caught" kissing that guy? It's creepy thinking someone . . . anyone . . . is watching you in public or following you.
     
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    HI Ken,

    Yes....and I understand. I don't always know why until time passes or I watch the meaning unfold. Sometimes I never know why.
    Clairvoyance, inner vision, communication with spirits are all valid topics and perhaps her experiences will unfold and his communications with her down the road - helpful. Takes a brave soul to share, and even braver to listen and ponder. 60 years ago I imagine it was an odd feeling. I think SPIRIT is with us more than we think - and what we think or say draws them to us.

    Here's a recent example. My boyfriend (sounds funny at my age) was telling me that his ex wife's dad told his daughter the marriage between him (Italian) and his daughter was like her marrying a Nigger. (Remember this was the 70's. I don't think this way in fact my grandchildren are half African American.) All of a sudden I felt this really pissed off woman next to me. Kept getting the name Lorainne. She told me to tell him Lorraine. I asked him who Lorraine was. He thought a moment and replied: "Oh yeah - my ex's best friends name was Lorraine. She was Italian too.. I asked...well is she dead? "Yeah a while a go. I wonder why she wants me to know she's here?" My reply - she's pissed off about the term used - She never knew her best friend's father saw her that way too. (N)

    To me - Ken may never know why this happened from his perspective...but my guess is down the road it might have meant something to her. The communication between me and Lorraine would have meant nothing to me. But it did to my boyfriend.
     
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    I understand what you are saying, and I'm truly not trying to offend Ken, Deborah, but I do think the situation was creepy. He was the one watching the woman kissing the man, not the "someone" he described, and then he tells her, in front of others, "someone" was watching her kissing the guy. Sounds like a spontaneous confession of sorts to me. Sorry, Ken. Yes, we need to keep in mind things in the spirit world that we may not be consciously aware of, but we also need to keep in mind that sometimes spirit things are used to explain non-spirit matters. On Earth, we are not living in the spirit world, we are living in the human world.

    The woman may have reacted in a frightened manner like she did, not because she was kissing someone she should not have been kissing, but because she knew someone who had been stalked, or she had read about a serial killer who went after young women, or she had seen a scary movie about a stalked couple, etc. Women are victimized some place every day in one way or another. Or maybe she was cheating, but the man watching her kissing was Ken; and it was none of his business who she was kissing, as well as unchivalrous to mention the matter in front of others.
     
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    Perhaps I did not describe the scene in as much detail as I should have. The building and adjoining parking lot were in the center of the city with people walking all about. The girl came around the corner of the building hand-in-hand with the fellow and turned around and embraced him and kissed him in a blatant PDA. I was not sneaking about or doing anything "unnatural", just sitting in my pickup truck eating my lunch. I had nothing to "confess", I had no reason or intention to have entered into that conversation - that was my point in this entire thread - it just happened.
     
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    Sorry, Ken, I wasn't accusing you of doing anything "unnatural". I just felt what you did was unkind. But I think it's best I just drop out of this thread.
     
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    No, I appreciate your input, it is just that what you stated does really not fit the situation at that time, it might have been unkind, but there was no intent of it being unkind - there was no intent at all.
     
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    Oh, I believe you. It's just sometimes individuals have regrets about things in the past, and try to put a metaphysical spin on it to make what they did all right. But apparently I'm reading too much into your story.
     
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    The original question was: do you get used sometimes (by spirits)?
    Yes, it has happened a lot to me. I do not know where it originates from. Is it my higher self, is it influence by spirits, I don’t know.
    I suddenly feel heavy, heavy grounded, strong focus, strong in the heart area, and a strong urge to reach the other person in the core.
    The words come out of my mouth without thinking. It’s not that I suddenly have extra information on this person. But it still might be uncomfortable, I guess. They are not able to walk away without receiving the message. I can easily repeat several times and all the time I am in a special flow of high concentration.
    I don’t care being used from time to time, it’s always good and pure energy.
    Afterwards I let go and I cannot even remember examples, it’s all out of my memory. I know I do it, but I don’t remember the incidents.
    On the other hand, I ask help back. There is this energy field that I call Archangel Michael. It’s not a person and I am not a catholic myself. I use this energy and it works everytime again. Instantly. When I meet agression or a physical fight between people I just call: Archangel Michael, HELP!!
    Believe it or not, people calm down inmediatly. It also works when people are out of control because of anger, grief or overexcitement.
    It’s not me doing anything because I detach myself in complete trust for help with the best outcome.
    (It doesn’t work with drunk persons )
     
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    wow, that's really weird. Haven't experienced anything like that
     
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    It happened again today! I had a doctor appointment and knew that I had to tell him about reincarnation, knowing that there would soon be a death of a loved-one. Really strange with him trying to get me to attend to my problem and me doing the opposite! I asked a nurse about his family because I felt it would be one of his children (he has four), but it is probably his aging father - hard feeling to describe.
     
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    Well, one time I got into a really strange conversation with my husband because well we were at this old castle-like plays where people were dressed up in medieval area and shows and what have you. Summer time. In midst of this I had a really bad feeling, the feeling one get when a kid is in danger but I could not place it. Suddenly I went "the kids are in danger". My husband, rational gave me a fishy look. I should perhaps add that I had just pretended I had not just had a few flashbacks of being some old soldier/knight type of guy in the castle having fun with his buddies and eating a lot and drinking beer. That would just make it worse. I had tried the last hour or so trying to get that feeling and images to go away and just enjoy my day (perhaps not enjoy it as much as the drunk knight-kind-of-guy but still...). Around this castle was originally a round river around it ( for protection in it's day ) but it was now empty. ( it was very high and there were sharp stones there as well ). I saw in my mind 2 kids ( older ) sitting down by this edge, with their legs down to the empty river. The other kid was very, very young and could hardly stand on her own two feet and was balancing poorly, standing up right at the edge. The older sibling or friend was not old enough to understand that this child could easily fall into the old empty river place (sorry my poor English, you're welcome to improve me). My husband was telling me that other children were other people's responsibilities and we had enough keeping eye on our own and I should just calm down and be a normal person and stop this. When I saw them I saw LOTS of grown up people around. LOTS of them. No one did anything.
    Almost in slowmotion I saw the little girl moving about. I was paralyzed to my feet. Could not breath. I was the worst cower ever. Still so ashamed about this. I just stared at them. That was my entire contribution. Just stared. My husband saw my petrofied look. He slided without a word sitting down on the grass and carefully took his arm around the little girls tummy and pulled her towards him. How that girl had not fallen down before that is beyond me, she must have had a protector from the spirit world or something, it seemed to have been going on forever when I first saw them and before my husband could get her and then get the older children up and go further away. If we had started to shout or run over or told them to move or something she could have looked at us and fallen right into it. He then told the other 2 they should not sit there, they could fall down. I was all shaken for hours afterwards. Oh yes I forgot. then the grownups came and said they had lost track of them and were a bit riled up. The good thing is perhaps that me and my husband agreed that one should always help any kid one see in potential danger because the grown up/s that is suppose to watch them has lost track of them and wouldn't we want the same if we lost our kid, for someone to help her. When we left that place me and my husband was completely silent in the car til our kid pointed out that we were strange : ) .
    /Li La
     
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    Hi Li-la,

    I understand in terms of being parental. It's not just your own children you have to worry about. There are so many little ones, and there are so many bad things that can happen in an instant of time. You were right and your husband was right to do what he did.

    Cordially,
    S&S

    PS--I think what you are talking about would be called a "moat" in English. E.g., most castles seem to be surrounded by a moat full of water. A "drawbridge" that can be raised and lowered is used to cross the moat.
     
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    I'm adding to this old thread of mine, feeling as though I have been used with my full intent to help open-minded people remember their prior lives or understanding their parapsychological experiences and the way these things play out.

    I have been blessed with the unexpected years since my brain injury nearly 49 years ago. The wife I am leaving behind, my two male friends that are like my children that I hope to live to see tomorrow morning, the ability to have stayed alive long enough to see the "You reap what you sow" become so real and apparent that I'm truly humbled by it all. Hopefully, someday my grandchildren and two daughters that are distanced from me, through circumstances I feel were beyond what I had control of, can be resolved.

    I had a delightful visit with the two men that have shared parts of my life today, truly great, they helped me do some tasks and spent several hours talking while they got to meet and know each other. One was an ex-son in-law and the other a fellow that I helped get hired into our IT department.

    I'm so "shaky" now that I need help drinking from a glass or cup without a straw if it is close to being full, I'm that close, so I'll say again that you have more control of your life by attending to what it tells you and good supplementation. Curcumin/Turmeric, Omega3, Vitamin D3, Probiotics, Brain helpers that are sold by lef.org [in Florida] or similar companies. Your body is indeed your earthly temple.
     
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    Ken, thank you so much for everything, wish you all the best and hope you will edit, I send you blessing and love.

    /Jaimie
     
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    my thoughts are with you too ken, you're appreciated.
     
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    KenJ Moderator Emeritus

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    The reincarnation "Course" that I spoke about was from Udemy, a Michael Newton site.
     
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    wow, that's amazing. haven't been used yet, but I would like to experience it someday
     

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