maddy crumbs
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Life For Me Sucks Now. I Can't Wait To Transition. I Ready To Start Over.
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reincarnation is not an escape for left the problems or responsability, problems exist for force ourself to growth and to become better persons.Life For Me Sucks Now. I Can't Wait To Transition. I Ready To Start Over.
Don't lose hope dude. Look forward. They're just a problem that you need to solve on your own.Life For Me Sucks Now. I Can't Wait To Transition. I Ready To Start Over.
Life For Me Sucks Now. I Can't Wait To Transition. I Ready To Start Over.
I am also getting concerned that this talk of 'karma' is becoming the norm on this forum, and is now being presented as fact rather than opinion or belief. I feel this can be quite unhelpful for new members and only adds to their unhappiness, as their misfortune is then assumed to be the result of something they have done wrong in their past life. As an example, SheSearches has recently illustrated this by saying how disheartening she found it. I feel that we owe it to our new members not to worry them with ideas that nobody can prove as true or untrue. These topics are complex and difficult, and each of us can only talk from our personal experience.
It's both good and interesting to hear differing opinions on the forum, and gives us all food for thought. But for now I'd really like to see things more carefully voiced as personal opinions (however popular the ideas are) rather than statements of fact that apply to all of us.
I am also getting concerned that this talk of 'karma' is becoming the norm on this forum, and is now being presented as fact rather than opinion or belief. I feel this can be quite unhelpful for new members and only adds to their unhappiness, as their misfortune is then assumed to be the result of something they have done wrong in their past life. As an example, SheSearches has recently illustrated this by saying how disheartening she found it. I feel that we owe it to our new members not to worry them with ideas that nobody can prove as true or untrue. These topics are complex and difficult, and each of us can only talk from our personal experience.
It's both good and interesting to hear differing opinions on the forum and gives us all food for thought. But for now, I'd really like to see things more carefully voiced as personal opinions (however popular the ideas are) rather than statements of fact that apply to all of us.
I'd like to think that even the worst offenders get a second chance before disappearing for good. That's only my personal hope, rather than a fixed idea, though. But if we don't have forgiveness and love above all, surely we have nothing.
The forum Mission Statement has a section on preaching which does mean that stating such things as you have mentioned as fact rather than personal opinion would be a breach of the rules. In practice the rules may not be strictly enforced, for various reasons.I am also getting concerned that this talk of 'karma' is becoming the norm on this forum, and is now being presented as fact rather than opinion or belief. I feel this can be quite unhelpful for new members and only adds to their unhappiness, as their misfortune is then assumed to be the result of something they have done wrong in their past life. As an example, SheSearches has recently illustrated this by saying how disheartening she found it. I feel that we owe it to our new members not to worry them with ideas that nobody can prove as true or untrue. These topics are complex and difficult, and each of us can only talk from our personal experience.
It's both good and interesting to hear differing opinions on the forum, and gives us all food for thought. But for now I'd really like to see things more carefully voiced as personal opinions (however popular the ideas are) rather than statements of fact that apply to all of us.
Thanks, Speedwell. Without knowing reasons why rules might not be enforced I'm not sure ... but if that's the case, is there any point in rules? And what I'm very concerned about is how potential new members looking at this forum might feel, seeing the present emphasis on what has been referred to as 'New Age' talk. Thinking back to the time when I first came across this forum, if I'd seen the way it seems to be going now, I definitely wouldn't have considered signing up! I wonder what Carol Bowman's view might be.
Fireflydancing, I have to shamefully admit here that I didn't even know karma was an Eastern thing! This forum is the first time I've come across it. It did strike me, though, that there's a certain similarity between that idea and the kind of judgment-induced fear of past-generational Christianity. Repent and behave, or you'll suffer in hell in the beyond. I'm a Christian, but my own idea of eternity is far more merciful. I'd like to think that even the worst offenders get a second chance before disappearing for good. That's only my personal hope, rather than a fixed idea, though. But if we don't have forgiveness and love above all, surely we have nothing.
Hi Landsend,
Can you provide a link for Matlock's group? I'm always curious about what else is out there.
Cordially,
S&S
Well, I am a survival of extreme abuse that lasted many years of my life, and have to disagree with you. 'Problems' do not make you a better person, and nor any abuse! What can one learn through constant terror? I tell you; anger and resentment. No, I am not a bitter or ignorant person. Have been a seeker for a long time and understand quite well dynamicks of good and evil and what is truly hidden behing so-called 'lessons of learning' through forced upon us reincarnations. It has nothing to do with any karma, but rather it is all about control and ensalvement of your body, mind, and spirit! Look into pre-birth regressions, there is some info on that, and you will see that there is much more to learn than 'karma'.reincarnation is not an escape for left the problems or responsability, problems exist for force ourself to growth and to become better persons.
i had a nice childhood, an hellish teen age, a sad youngness, now is not much good, but at least i have a lot of experience that help me to face that. escape is never the solution, and also, if you not fix here on that life your problem, you will get however, for karma law, into the next.
Look, i am a disable and i understand you.Well, I am a survival of extreme abuse that lasted many years of my life, and have to disagree with you. 'Problems' do not make you a better person, and nor any abuse! What can one learn through constant terror? I tell you; anger and resentment. No, I am not a bitter or ignorant person. Have been a seeker for a long time and understand quite well dynamicks of good and evil and what is truly hidden behing so-called 'lessons of learning' through forced upon us reincarnations. It has nothing to do with any karma, but rather it is all about control and ensalvement of your body, mind, and spirit! Look into pre-birth regressions, there is some info on that, and you will see that there is much more to learn than 'karma'.