I don't know anything about past lifes as I was brought up to believe they are bs.
Yet now I am at a loss to decribe what is going on with my 3 year old and I am doing all the research I can.
She has a very detailed understanding of what it looks like to drown, she can describe what it feels like to not be able to breath, and vividly reinacts this for me to see.
Last night she was playing and kept telling me of her other mommy and daddy, when I pointed out that she had no other, she said that she did before she came to us and that they died.
Intruiged I ask her how and she went on to matter of factly decribe how a mean man (she calls him the wolf) knocked on their door, he was mean to her mommy and so her mommy pushed him. He then proceded to stab her and push her into the water where she drowned. She says she was very scared.
At first I thought it was just her imagination as she is a very smart girl, so i just said oh okay and left it at that. Then around 1 when she woke up to go to the loo, I couldnt help but ask her again about the mommy and daddy. She got irritated with me and said I told you, they died, and procedeed to tell the exact same story as before, no changed details!
This led me to believe it might be more than just fantasy, but due to my strickt religious background I have no reference and cannot honestly say if this is a case of past life memory.
I am also scared of asking to many questions, in fear that I might ask them wrong and lead her to tell me what she thinks I want to hear.
So basically here I am, please teach me. Can this be a real memory? And if so how do i pose my inquiries so as to not lead her into anything?
Yet now I am at a loss to decribe what is going on with my 3 year old and I am doing all the research I can.
She has a very detailed understanding of what it looks like to drown, she can describe what it feels like to not be able to breath, and vividly reinacts this for me to see.
Last night she was playing and kept telling me of her other mommy and daddy, when I pointed out that she had no other, she said that she did before she came to us and that they died.
Intruiged I ask her how and she went on to matter of factly decribe how a mean man (she calls him the wolf) knocked on their door, he was mean to her mommy and so her mommy pushed him. He then proceded to stab her and push her into the water where she drowned. She says she was very scared.
At first I thought it was just her imagination as she is a very smart girl, so i just said oh okay and left it at that. Then around 1 when she woke up to go to the loo, I couldnt help but ask her again about the mommy and daddy. She got irritated with me and said I told you, they died, and procedeed to tell the exact same story as before, no changed details!
This led me to believe it might be more than just fantasy, but due to my strickt religious background I have no reference and cannot honestly say if this is a case of past life memory.
I am also scared of asking to many questions, in fear that I might ask them wrong and lead her to tell me what she thinks I want to hear.
So basically here I am, please teach me. Can this be a real memory? And if so how do i pose my inquiries so as to not lead her into anything?