annabell_leah
Anna
Hi, i came across this forum and thought OMG! WOW! im not the only one.lol
Anywho, I have a couple of things to share.I have 3 childen ages 2,4 and 6.
My 6 yr old son is where i would like to start.He has ADD and has been a little behind developmentally with speech,articulation and paying attention.But, when he finally did begin to tell me what was in his little head, it might have ansered a couple of questions.
This sweet little guy of mine suffered from nightmares,sleep walking and other things.It was horrible, he couldnt tell me what was going one.But, now i think I know.One day in the car he was talking about playing his "race car" game.He said " hey momma, i was driving in my game and i crashed and my car sploded" I said.."yeah?" he continued with " if that was for real, i would be died, right?" and i ansered.."yes" He continues again with " hey mom, did you know that if you are really good and you die before you are old, God will let you be a baby again?"
I didnt think much about it but played along...it was great to finally conversate with this guy..i had waited along time.So, I replied" no, I did not know that" He said " yes you did mom, its the rules" i said " really? I really didnt know.Who told you those were the rules?" My son thought i was teasing him and laughed, then said " God did, dont You pay tention?"I had to laugh back, as part of his therapy we ar forced to ask him regularly if he is paying attention.
I decided to push the conversation, lol, my curiosity was bubbling.So I asked him how someone could be a baby again.He repeated the same line he did above because at this point he thought i was playing dumb and pulling his leg about not knowing.So, I said.."ok,do you get a new mom when your a baby again? and he said "somehimes"(sometimes)so i asked where do you go? and he says anywheres, anyhime(anytime) is now.I was very confused then but was teetering on an edge because he thought i was teasing him, he might end the conversation at any moment.I asked " anytime is now? What do you mean?" He said "you knooowa,you can be a new baby along hime ago and that would be now.And you can be a new baby along hime from now and that would be now" I got nothing else from him that day.
Was he telling me that time is not a staight line as we see it? That you can be reincarnated into anytime frame? Just jump at random? or am i reading to much into it? or does he just have an overactive imagination and i shouldn't think anything of what he said.My son has the same learning problems, ADD problems,appearance and personality of my deceased older brother who died 1 yr before my son's conception.He is fasinated with cars just as my brother was,and whom died in a car.He was also affraid to go to sleep for the longest time,which is what caused my brother's death...falling asleep at the wheel.My son also used to say things such as"member when i was your big brother and i stepped on your arm?" But, my son in the last yr or so has said nothing of the sort.So, i guess he has passed that age of remembering.
THis next story is from my 4 yr old daughter who was 3 at the time.As soon as her brother stopped telling stories, she started and omg,did she have things to tell.It first happened one day whan a friend of mine was visiting.The friend and i were sitting at the table conversatiing and having coffee.My daughter awoke from her nap and came into the dining area.She looked upset but was not crying.She started telling me about how she was in a big trash box with her pannies on and ants were all over her."ants in my eyes, ants in my nose and mouf(mouth)" I didnt think much of it, she plays with bugs all the time, i just thought it was a bad dream.
But, a week or so later, she mentioned it again and i started becoming affraid.I've seen children mention the future and i started locking up tight before bed, keeping my daughter in my site while shopping and other things.I was not convenced,but, caustious with the idea that she may be kidnapped and left to die in a dumpster somewhaere.This caution went on for about a week or so.Then while sitting at the computer desk, my daughter came in the room with a doll house and sat on the floor beside me.And started playing.She sat a toy bus over to the side away from the house and said that was the big trash box.So, I decided to start conversation with her and this is the result w/o telling you the long drawn out conversation.
She said: " I was in a big trash box with my pink tuesday pannies.My dress was all gone with the water.Ants was in my eyes,ants in my mouth, ants in my nose, ants in my PANNIES, it was ants all over me.But, i wouldn't (wasn't) scared momma, just tired.Then i came to you.She seemed very upset to tell me this, so i didnt dig for unansered questions.I should have, what did she mean when she said her dress was gone with the water?
I was teary eyed just listening to her.If this did happen to her..what a horrible thing to happen.I told her that god sent her to me so that she wouldn't end up in a trash box again.I didnt know what else to say.she simply said" i know" and has never mentioned it again.She does have a slight fear of water, dark places and a mild fear of men and abandonment.
She also has mentioned that she wants to see her mommy or go to her mommy's house.lol, and i tell her " i am your mommy" and she will say " noooo, my other mommy" Also, she is a beautiful golden haired little girl with huge blue eyes.But, she tells me that she wants bwown(brown) hair. And when i ask why, she will sometimes say..I liked it when it was bwown, it was pwetty(pretty) like you momma and my other mommy.
This post and discussion is continued in the thread New member with a couple of stories to share
Anywho, I have a couple of things to share.I have 3 childen ages 2,4 and 6.
My 6 yr old son is where i would like to start.He has ADD and has been a little behind developmentally with speech,articulation and paying attention.But, when he finally did begin to tell me what was in his little head, it might have ansered a couple of questions.
This sweet little guy of mine suffered from nightmares,sleep walking and other things.It was horrible, he couldnt tell me what was going one.But, now i think I know.One day in the car he was talking about playing his "race car" game.He said " hey momma, i was driving in my game and i crashed and my car sploded" I said.."yeah?" he continued with " if that was for real, i would be died, right?" and i ansered.."yes" He continues again with " hey mom, did you know that if you are really good and you die before you are old, God will let you be a baby again?"
I didnt think much about it but played along...it was great to finally conversate with this guy..i had waited along time.So, I replied" no, I did not know that" He said " yes you did mom, its the rules" i said " really? I really didnt know.Who told you those were the rules?" My son thought i was teasing him and laughed, then said " God did, dont You pay tention?"I had to laugh back, as part of his therapy we ar forced to ask him regularly if he is paying attention.
I decided to push the conversation, lol, my curiosity was bubbling.So I asked him how someone could be a baby again.He repeated the same line he did above because at this point he thought i was playing dumb and pulling his leg about not knowing.So, I said.."ok,do you get a new mom when your a baby again? and he said "somehimes"(sometimes)so i asked where do you go? and he says anywheres, anyhime(anytime) is now.I was very confused then but was teetering on an edge because he thought i was teasing him, he might end the conversation at any moment.I asked " anytime is now? What do you mean?" He said "you knooowa,you can be a new baby along hime ago and that would be now.And you can be a new baby along hime from now and that would be now" I got nothing else from him that day.
Was he telling me that time is not a staight line as we see it? That you can be reincarnated into anytime frame? Just jump at random? or am i reading to much into it? or does he just have an overactive imagination and i shouldn't think anything of what he said.My son has the same learning problems, ADD problems,appearance and personality of my deceased older brother who died 1 yr before my son's conception.He is fasinated with cars just as my brother was,and whom died in a car.He was also affraid to go to sleep for the longest time,which is what caused my brother's death...falling asleep at the wheel.My son also used to say things such as"member when i was your big brother and i stepped on your arm?" But, my son in the last yr or so has said nothing of the sort.So, i guess he has passed that age of remembering.
THis next story is from my 4 yr old daughter who was 3 at the time.As soon as her brother stopped telling stories, she started and omg,did she have things to tell.It first happened one day whan a friend of mine was visiting.The friend and i were sitting at the table conversatiing and having coffee.My daughter awoke from her nap and came into the dining area.She looked upset but was not crying.She started telling me about how she was in a big trash box with her pannies on and ants were all over her."ants in my eyes, ants in my nose and mouf(mouth)" I didnt think much of it, she plays with bugs all the time, i just thought it was a bad dream.
But, a week or so later, she mentioned it again and i started becoming affraid.I've seen children mention the future and i started locking up tight before bed, keeping my daughter in my site while shopping and other things.I was not convenced,but, caustious with the idea that she may be kidnapped and left to die in a dumpster somewhaere.This caution went on for about a week or so.Then while sitting at the computer desk, my daughter came in the room with a doll house and sat on the floor beside me.And started playing.She sat a toy bus over to the side away from the house and said that was the big trash box.So, I decided to start conversation with her and this is the result w/o telling you the long drawn out conversation.
She said: " I was in a big trash box with my pink tuesday pannies.My dress was all gone with the water.Ants was in my eyes,ants in my mouth, ants in my nose, ants in my PANNIES, it was ants all over me.But, i wouldn't (wasn't) scared momma, just tired.Then i came to you.She seemed very upset to tell me this, so i didnt dig for unansered questions.I should have, what did she mean when she said her dress was gone with the water?
I was teary eyed just listening to her.If this did happen to her..what a horrible thing to happen.I told her that god sent her to me so that she wouldn't end up in a trash box again.I didnt know what else to say.she simply said" i know" and has never mentioned it again.She does have a slight fear of water, dark places and a mild fear of men and abandonment.
She also has mentioned that she wants to see her mommy or go to her mommy's house.lol, and i tell her " i am your mommy" and she will say " noooo, my other mommy" Also, she is a beautiful golden haired little girl with huge blue eyes.But, she tells me that she wants bwown(brown) hair. And when i ask why, she will sometimes say..I liked it when it was bwown, it was pwetty(pretty) like you momma and my other mommy.
This post and discussion is continued in the thread New member with a couple of stories to share
