Charles Stuart said:
The problem is, John, that no matter what 1st hand experience I have had, and attempt to share, will to you and to Gary and everybody else here be second-hand. So what am I to do? I can share what I have encountered, and believe me, I do try. But invariably here on this forum, ever since day one, whatever I have attempted to share has so often come back in the manner of Gary's response. One of the reasons I stopped posting here for so long...
And believe me, I am again wondering if the effort is worth it at all...
Sometimes I share your frustration.
Personally, I too have my own faith; things I believe about reincarnation, even though they cannot be backed up scientifically. I respect Cayce, and I am very impressed by the Seth material. But there are other sub-forums in this forum for informally discussing our beliefs. This particular sub-forum was originally supposed to be about scientific approaches, and only about scientific approaches to reincarnation.
The average person responds favorably to the warm personal story with an emotional hook, and is left cold by rows of figures and statistics. But the scientist is left cold by the personal story with the emotional hook, calling it "anecdotal" and referring to it's emotional charge as "manipulative". SO that same average person sees the way the scientist responds to the warm personal story and calls the scientist cold and arrogant.
That's why most people just don't "get" science. They don't respond to the things that are important to science, and get all excited about the things that science considers worthless.
If a careful researcher collects and tabulates first hand stories, for example, about children's past life memories, or near death experiences, that is science. If I tell you a story about something my uncle's neighbor said happened to his mother, that is not science. But if the uncles' neighbor's mother's story is more exciting or emotionally compelling than the first hand account, then the average person will get more excited about that anecdotal story than about the more trustworthy first hand account.
This forum has many excellent categories for discussing those emotionally compelling stories. I, myself enjoy sharing and discussing them. But stories like that really shouldn't be in the science category. Not if this category is supposed to really be about science. And if this sub-forum is all about science, then anyone who posts here has to expect to be met with skepticism and harsh scrutiny. That's how science works.
Maybe I just need to loosen up and get comfortable with the fact that most people who really "get" science are not interested in reincarnation, and most people who are interested in reincarnation really don't "get" science.
That's why the sensationalist titles are the best sellers and Dr. Stevenson's serious academic work has very, very few readers, even among those interested in reincarnation. He is rigorously scientific, and his books, therefore, are VERY boring to people who don't "get" science. A popular author discusses several cases and concludes that they "prove" reincarnation. Dr. Stevenson probes deeply into a collection of much stronger cases and concludes that they are "suggestive of reincarnation" at best. The average person just hates that kind of inconclusive waffling. But that's how science does things.
The truth is science is slow, methodical, plodding, skeptical, slow to believe anything new, intensely detail oriented, and for the average person, very, very boring.
Sure, you might pick up "The Tao of Physics" and read it for fun, but that's not really a scientific book. Would you pick up a physics text book for a little light reading? Of course not. You will read a news article about some scientific breakthrough, but will you look up and read the actual scientific paper that published that breakthrough in the journals? Not a chance! Real science is tedious, mathematical, mostly boring, never definite (everything is always "maybe" or "probably" or "possibly") and very seldom is there anything exciting to say about it.
So I guess I'm just being too fussy and nit-picky. My humble apologies.
I value and enjoy reading everyone's contributions. Charles: I really do enjoy your posts. Please do keep them coming.