Hi! I only began to consider the possibility of reincarnation about two years ago... I've never asked my sons anything though.. just tried to listen to what they said and see what I thought. My 4yo said something though that I can't ignore and I have a question. First, I have to give a bit of backstory. When I was 4 my mom had a baby girl. When my sister was 4months old she died unexpectedly; the doctors said it was SIDS. Anyway... my mom and I don't really talk about it alot these days. In fact, my kids don't even know I had a sister as they're really young and I haven't ever brought it up. So, about six months ago I was sitting in a chair with my 4yo and we were just snuggling. I said something about my mom, I think she was coming over or something. My little boy looked at me and said "Grandma used to be my mommy before you." I tried to be as nonchalant as possible, and said "Oh yeah?" "Yeah." he said. "Then I got lost from her and I was lost, so I looked and looked and then you found me and was my mommy and you'll be my mommy forever!" I had tears in my eyes after that and told my mom. I then learned that my mom had the feeling she'd known my son before he was born (when I was pregnant, she knew what he would look like and even knew what we were going to name him before we told her). Isn't that weird? Anyway, my question. My son was born 20 years after my sister. Isn't it unusual for a child to wait that long to come back?