What will your next life be?

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  1. Kristopher

    Kristopher Senior Registered

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    Have you ever thought about what type of life you would want to incarnate into next? what challenges you want to face? and if you would want to be male/female? We are here to learn and then pick what path we feel will be good for our next incarnation, so why not do it now :laugh:.

    When you have thought about it, do you think that, when we die, we would still be interested in having the same "next life" as the one we have thought about just now? Maybe when we are in spirit form we have a different way of thinking?
     
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    You do plan the bare bones of that even in this incarnation.. and I feel a strong pull towards Brazil, and it never felt like a past life thing, I just feel compelled to it to the point where I know I will end up there. Well sure I may hopefully take a trip one day. But I had a reading with a brilliant psychic who can look right into the Akashic Records and I have already started planning for my next life in.... Brazil! I will be a female again. As far as challenges go, I have no idea and that kind of thing I don't think is determined after you are done. I am sure that will be the life I will need to face my emetophobia though, just a sinking feeling since I can't even think of doing that now... or for the rest of this incarnation. :eek:
     
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    I am just hoping I get to stick to being a biological female next time around. One lifetime being transgender is enough for me thankyouverymuch. I also hope I stay in Europe. However, I am thinking that I might try belonging to a minority group such as a non-caucasian ethnicity and considering how white Europe is it might be a challenge.
     
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    Interesting. I have a pull towards England that I think I want to incarnate on in my next life. I dont know why, I dont like it over any other country and it is the country right next to mine(Scotland). I also want to be male again. I dont know if I feel this way becuase I am male just now, but I have herd that a lot of souls have a sex type that they prefer. I suppose these are the little things we choose here in earth. I feel it would be hard to pick what challenges we will face as we need to review our life in the afterlife, and take our karma challenges with us into the next life as well.
     
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    I agree on the sex type. I feel as if this was my first time being born as male and I am actually terrified of being born male again.


    Regarding location I am mostly attracted to middle to Northern Europe. Anything above and including Germany calls to me. Could also imagine being Japan or S-Korea despite its cultural flaws(there are some serious cultural differences there that even scare me).
     
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    I naturally have no idea how valid this is, and it doesn't resonate with my usual buzz, but I was told I would be living a peaceful and satisfying lifetime in an agrarian setting with a wonderful and fully connected community. I was told its not going to be earth as we know it but rather the new earth or Gaia in some fifth dimensional situation...all the drama, hate, war, etc. will still be on the third dimensional earth, but I get to move on because I have "done my time" in the denser realms.


    While the above is somewhat nebulous, I have had more confirmation and higher resonance that my ex-fiance will be my mate and my wife now will be our daughter. There are several others that I know now who will be there, but more that I don't know yet in this lifetime.
     
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    That makes perfect sense. Planet earth is said to be one of the really hard places to incarnate on. I have herd of souls who prepare to come here for the first time, and souls who have been here for a long time who deserve to "take it easy" for a while. I personally think I still have a lot of life times to live here on earth.


    Regarding your second peace of information about souls playing different parts in each life we have, do you think that sometimes we may go a life time or two without having contract with some or all of our soul group members during incarnation? I mean, I have herd a lot about how we can pick our parents, rich, poor, angry, nice ect, and what type of life we wish to have. What if we wanted to live a certain life and souls in our group had a different path or idea from us? I think that would mean that we would possibly seperate from them during that life time.
     
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    I think this is a rather common feeling for some people. Possibly a feeling that we have all had in at least one of our lives. I suppose that we eventually move away from our prefered sex to try out the other. Maybe it is recommended that we experience being the other sex at least once.
     
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    Sex will become more meaningless as we learn how to manipulate our bodies to make it more concurrent with our mental image. It might be several decades/hundred years away, but they've already created a ***** out of stem cells, attached it to a rabbit who then went on to screw everything it could.


    What is also interesting is that we are seeing a rise in what is called "genderqueer"; individuals who refuse to to associate themselves with either gender or believe it is fluid enough to switch almost on a daily basis.
     
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    It may be possible that some worlds dont have genders. I think that it could be that this is their first time incarnating on to this planet. Some souls incarnating on to a different planet from what they are used to may be fine, other may have certain struggles. It may not be that they have choose this challenge before incarnating, but the effects of change has a noticable print on them strong enough to cause several problems during their time incarnating.
     
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    Delonada said and I quote:


    What is also interesting is that we are seeing a rise in what is called "genderqueer"; individuals who refuse to associate themselves with either gender or believe it is fluid enough to switch almost on a daily basis.


    That feat just in itself, ought to make the Saturday night bar scene "very" interesting from now on, not to mention somewhat confusing (and challenging!) :confused: :laugh: :eek:
     
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    I do think some lives are lived without primary soulmates, while others are literally littered with them (this lifetime for me). My last lifetime I was born into a family of very unfamiliar souls and was not involved with a single close soulmate until right before entering the military when I became reacquainted with three close soulmates who all died with me in WWII, and whom I even know very well now.


    It seems to me that we have free will to select which life we will lead and what we will work on during our incarnation. We can choose to go it alone and I am trying to follow one lifethread in which I was around not a single friendly soul. Likewise, this lifetime almost all my close soulmates are incarnate and we all wanted to be here for whatever is supposed to be happening...after all, alot of us aren't going to be here in future lives.


    Delonada, I think we do tend to incarnate in the gender we find 1) most effective for the life planned; then 2) which gender we're most comfortable with. My sister had previously been an aggressive younger brother to me a couple of times and now as a woman, still carries that sense of power. I have been female, but not recently.
     
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    I have to admit that I am very lonely in this incarnation so maybe I have close to no soul mates/friends in this day and age.


    My view on gender is that if you take at face value the vibration of a soul and how its vibration affects other things, then it wouldn't be far fetched to view gender as a vibrational field that fits one type soul's vibration better than another.


    Although to be honest I am really biased as I have about 25+ years of gripes about my birth sex and knowing that I can never really make that Y chromosome grow an extra leg can be a bitter pill. The problem with that is that it can create a lot of anger that is targeted inwards. If anything I'd say it is soul destroying.
     
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    Be with the ones who love me


    Hi everybody,


    Interesting question. My answer is : I really want to be with the people who I love and the ones that do love me and not just with my soulmate.I say this because as in this life I have been facing many problems to solve with my soulmate.I have got so scary because in my old conception the soulmate was a person who had given to you just good moments but I realized that I was wrong.


    light
     
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    I have a feeling my next life will be in Egypt (again). My lives have been overwhelmingly female so that's what I am most comfortable with. I think I might possibly be born into a wealthy family and become a teacher or professor...not sure how accurate this will turn out to be but it feels right.
     
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    I'm determined to come back as a billionaire, so that I can finance more parapsychology research.
     
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    I've thought about it maybe once or twice. I always felt this pull towards Southeast Asia. Not like a "I've been there before" but more of a "I need to go there" or "I'm going there". Now, since I was younger I've had this HUGE interest in learning foreign languages. Always had a book from the library on a language (usually German, which I had picked up from an early age), and I was determined to learn Vietnamese. I listened to Vietnamese music, I'd watch shows and films in Vietnamese. Just down right determined. It's hard to learn though. I'd much rather be male, and as far the rest of it, just kind of at random.
     
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    I had this pull regarding South Korea and Japan(even studied Japanese for a year), but the pull there has diminished with age.


    Just one suggestion: Never ever go there to work unless you are accustomed to slave driving. The general culture and people can be wonderful, and as a traveling destination it is amazing, but as a place to work it is downright monstrous.


    and since I am biased: being male sucks. Been there, done that. Not going to do it again as long as I exist. :D
     
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    I often think that I would love to be male again mainly because I think it's sooo unfair that men can through their entire life without experiencing period pains or birth pains! :D


    So, Delonada - in many way, it seems imho in this lifetime you've got the best of both worlds : angel


    Sorry to be a party-pooper, but we're not really allowed to discuss 'future lives' according to the guidelines. Since the discussion is sober we can keep it going for a little while, but please stick to lives in this earthly dimension ;)
     
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    Trust me, being trans is one of the worst things you can be and you can't fight it(**** biology). It means increased risk of violence and death, even more than biological women(ciswomen).


    Personally I think that's what I was to learn in this lifetime that being male is not a solution(ie. believe that it would be better to live with male privilege). That a woman does and can have power and freedom despite social constructs of a patriarchy(it's an uphill battle, but I'd rather take that on than the trappings of masculinity). The little past life regression I have tried with audio recordings hasn't told much, but what I have sensed is that I always suffered from being female(rape, violence) and that brought me to the thought that it would be better to be a man.


    I also think that when you lose the ability to bear children in one life that you will feel that loss. I know when I was younger and dressing up I'd occasionally put a pillow under the clothes to bring on the illusion I was pregnant. I was probably around 13-14 when I did that the first time and for someone who isn't transgender it probably seems mighty weird.


    Personally I'd take all the pains of being a woman despite my friend's comments of me being lucky that I can't have periods. It would at least mean I am biologically correct, it would mean I could bear children, be a mother, and communicate with society without always having my history at my back like a big pink elephant.


    I am sorry if I sound a bit bitter. Being transgender just means you lose so much out of life that others take for granted. A youth that isn't confused, a connections with friends that isn't strained by your weird brain, and a life that offers a great chance of normalcy.
     
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    Another fine example as to why I wish to stay male : angel
     
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    Actually, considering amount of chemicals being pumped in the environment there is a high chance future children will have various sex anomalies/differentiation. We already have seen a rise in wider sexual orientation and gender identity, but more and more intersex people are being born as well as children with ambiguous genitalia.
     
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    The idea of past and future lives has been a topic here for many years. I know our current incarnation is a jumbled vortex of all our past lives. I can feel those influences in a very real way. But that makes it all sound so distant, when (IMO) the soul is right here and now all the time, it IS and will always be a compilation of those past times, with all of the drama, emotional traumas and joys, the boredom, the wars, the passions, the people etc. etc. etc. As I believe my soul is an ethereal vestige of some greater creation, I also believe that there is a relevance to what will happen in future incarnations. There is a "concern" there for who and what lessons will further my journey towards that ultimate goal, whatever that may be...heaven, nirvana, cosmic oneness...I dunno!


    I have twice dreamed that I would return as the son of my twinsoul. But I've given that a lot of thought and still can't process it all.


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    What I'm seeing for the future is living in an area that is a wide space between 2 armies. I'm not with, or siding with, either one. One hates us but the other, the soldiers are polite enough. I don't see them clashing were I'm at. The area I'm in is plagued more with gangs working with drug cartels, but it's a rural area.


    I've been seeing different parts of this for the last 20 years but I don't have a date. I don't think it's too far in the future though. I'm seeing myself back with a lot of my family from my last life and I'm back in the thick of the troubles....
     
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    As for myself, I do NOT try to think about this or put to much energy in this direction. For personally just try to put my emphasis on this life, enjoying this present life, and getting the most out of this present life. This next life in my opinion will just take care of itself! Again will say for emphasis that the next life in my opinion will just take care of itself at that time so why worry or concern myself with it at this time. But I do how much believe and think with how I am in this present life make such a deep impact on who I will be in that next life.


    How much in these present lives can we only see and know in part. And what will be those decisions as concerning that next life as seen from the other side along with those on the other side who stand by us and help us. So in my opinion, just enjoy and get the most out of this present life.


    Just my two cents worth. Wishing Everyone the Best!
     
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    I agree...the reason (says guidance) I am getting information about certain past lives is the message they hold for my present lifetime. The future will absolutely take care of itself...although I did do some deep analysis to put my mind at ease that the ex-fiance would be a part of it.
     
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    A factory workers in China, probably. :tongue: The odds of getting another 'privileged' (in quotation marks because in this life I was poor and literally starving when I was younger, although I realize at that I was more fortunate than most people on the planet) westernized life seems unlikely.


    I have no past-life memories so I have no idea what it'd be like to be anything other than a woman, which means I'm stuck expecting to be one again, even though it sucks. I suppose if I could be the 'right' kind of woman - pretty, slim, well off enough to buy pretty gewgaws, healthy with no migraines, cramps, etc., etc., and most importantly, forever young, it'd be more appealing.
     
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    For some reason, I have always know, that in my next life, I'll meet my dad again for sure, and we will be at the same age.


    :) He will be with me again. I want him to live a nice life next time with a nice and warm family during his first years. He will have a more easy life the next time. For sure.


    I want to do my best, to live this life doing what I can for other people. There are things and people I still need to know in this life. So, this one is the important now ;)
     
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