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Claudia

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my (almost) two-year old daughter has a huge mark on her belly the form of a pentagram. She doesn't seem to "remember" any pain there, could it be a sign of sth? she also suffers from "neurodermitis": both her wrists get sore from day to night and it seems to itch really bad. She was taken to the most prominent homeopaths apart of other dermatologists, nobody can tell us why or how it happens one says it is lack of "attachment" and want to send her to an impersonal clinic, others don't say anything, all in the end prescribe atibiothics! She sleeps with us always, alone she gets crazy (our friends say it's so the first(s) night(s) and we should show her limits but I (we) can't stand to leave her by herself, she gets red, looks sooo lost, her eyes show anguish, I (we) just can't wait, she can only sleep cuddled in our arms, (till when? asks her pediatrician) We don't tell our friends or pediatrician anymore, she only sleeps between us and if it happens she finds herself alone (or thinks she is alone ) she gets up and shouts and seems in dispair instead of just coming out of our bed till one of us run to her so she jumps into our arms and sleeps again, tight as can be. WE both are tired, longing for a good night of sleep, any parent must know what it is like, two years like that!
I have tried really hard (before even imagining I could have a baby) but could never get any hint of a past life (my own). Our little girl, apart of sleeping is very healthy, sociable, I mean a happy, messy two year old. I fell "guilty" wondering that maybe I caused her her pain, then she clings to me deep in her sleep, so safe she seems I don't really want to know more. My question is in fact was I an enemy, a friend, how (if) can I help my little girl to feel better?
 
Claudia,

Welcome to our forum.

It sounds to me as if your little girl is being affected by one or more past lives. Her wrist pain may be from being stretched or pulled or something to that effect. The mark on her body?---may be from someone else's doing. Perhaps she was persecuted for her beliefs.
Don't hesitate to bring her in to sleep with you. I would do the same thing.

Peace thoughts to you,
DJ
 
You know, Family Bedding is a lot more common than people let on; and the 'norm' in a lot of Europe/Asia. I don't remember exactly where on the web I read it, but it's actually considered abnormal in some countries to have the kids sleep apart. (I have the bookmark, but it's on the other computer that's in the shop, and I'm not even going there right now. Let's just say, we only had it for 6 days.)

And though your daughter is past the stage, it could actually help prevent SIDS by preventing the baby from falling into too deep a sleep so that they forget to breathe. (And if they do anyway, you are right there to notice an abnormality.)

I did a lot of research on this when I decided not to use the crib we had for my oldest. I'd kept falling asleep while nursing him, and somewhere along the way it occured to me that I wanted some ammo against CPS should it become neccisary. (My neighbours hate me, and have several times called them, and every time they come out and investigate, we're nice and polite, let them in, and never hear from them again. Worst thing I was ever told was 'well the house could be cleaner' but she was the one polite enough to send us a letter letting us know she was closing the case, and no further investigations were planned.)

You know, I think there was some other point I intended to make here too, but got interrupted and forgot it.
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I had my car's alignment checked...It's chaotic evil.


[This message has been edited by Galadriel (edited 07-27-2000).]
 
Count me in...

I've always had a crib but only use it for naps. Kids eventually want their own space, believe me. I feel that it is important to let them know you are there...

Anyone ever hear the song, Silent Lucidity by Queensryche? It is about a parent being there for his child even when the child is dreaming, and teaching the child to see dreams as a window to another world and catalyst for growth... It's really beautiful, and if I can find the lyrics I will post them.

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Be Blessed

Moonbeam
 
I feel for your little girl, but I doubt that this problem is something that you caused. It sounds more like a past life manifestation. Maybe you should e-mail Carol Bowman.
Who can say just how many children have been forcibly removed from those they loved and lost in this last war filled century? Perhaps they are returning now and it is our job to prove to them that they will not be
subject to such a fate this time.
 
I also have a crib for my son and have only used it twice. My son is 20 months and still sleeps with us. I think it's one of the best decisions I've made. If you feel comfortable with it and it helps make your child feel comfortable then don't listen to what anyone else says. Sometimes as parents we have to listen to our own intuition rather than what the pediatrician or some parenting book says. Good Luck!

Peace,

Shariad
 
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