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Alice07

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I met my current boyfriend at the end of August of this year, 2018. When I saw him for the first time, I immediately felt attracted to him. We went clubbing with other friends a couple of days after we first met, and that night there was a full moon. One thing leads to another and I ended up going to his apartment. I didn't really know anything about him, he was basically a stranger. I was on holiday, I was only looking for fun and I didn't expect anything more than casual sex.
The thing is, it didn't feel like casual sex at all. I can't explain why, but it felt very deep and spiritual. I felt something that I had never felt before, not even with my previous partners, and it wasn't just physical pleasure, it was something more. But he was a stranger to me, so why did it feel so real and intense?
After that, I felt a sense of affection and attachment towards him that I can't explain. Like I wanted to hug him and cuddle him and I wanted him to protect me.
We decided to meet again... And now we've been together for 3 months. We talked about it and he said he felt the same exact things. And I still feel that feeling of attachment and it's quite scary, because it's just like.. Even before getting to know him, I felt like I wanted to be with him. Like there was chemistry between us even before I started to get to know him as a person.
How can I explain this? I don't know too much about past life/karmic connection, but I wanted to ask if this could be one of them. If anyone is into astrology, I will also attach our synastry chart in case it could be helpful.
Thank you to anyone who will reply!
 

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Welcome to the forum, Alice07!

No one will be able to tell you, I am afraid... of course, it COULD mean that you are soul mates and have been close in past lives, too. You will only know for sure, though, when you remember past lives together with your love.
Strong emotions definitely are an indicator, but what, exactly, it exactly it means you only can find out for yourself.
My best wishes to you. I am happy for you that you are in a fulfilling, happy relationship. This is nothing everybody has the luck to experience, and nothing to be taken for granted. But you probably are aware how special it is.
 
Hello!

Welcome to the forum! This is indeed an interesting story you are telling us here, and thank you a lot for taking the time to share with us.

It is hard to tell from scratch wether or not this special encounter you have been granted to have in your life is from a past life connection or not. However, from what you are saying, I can feel how strong you two felt connected, and I know how beautiful and intense that can be!

I have personnally experienced it myself once, even though Life had got us to become very good friends now, and not involved in a romantic relationship. I did feel very shaken by how intensely me and her resonated when we shared, on a spiritual level. It is still as of today one of the most precious gift that I have received from life. I have had almost a year after we met a very intense dream, where I was back to being in my previous identity, and we agreed to meet again in my current lifetime.

I don't know if we indeed crossed paths in my previous life, and frankly it's a bit irrelevant as, no matter what, it will neither add nor change anything to how beautiful it is to connect on a spiritual level with another being.

I am happy for you to have met a fellow soul with whom you can let your soul sing, and I will kindly remind you that, wether you two met before, you are now together and will have a lot of joy writing a beautiful story on the white pages you were given when you were born in this present lifetime.

You will have time to investigate your past lives if you feel the desire to, and I can only say that if your past memories are to surface, don't worry, they will unveil themselves when the time is right!

I look forward to hear more from you and know that reading your words have put a bright smile on my face. Enjoy this gift as it is not given to every living being to experience what you are experiencing now!

All the best to you two!

Benjamin
 
Hello!
Thank you to everyone who replied, it was very interesting to hear your beautiful stories.

I wanted to write here and give an update on what happened between us. Long story short: we broke up last week, after only 6 months together. There were external factors that contributed to this decision: it was a long distance relationship, and very hard to carry on because our schedules just don't really match, so it was becoming hard to be together.

But it's not just that. I feel like I've kind of always known we weren't meant to be. Rationally I knew it. But my feelings for him were still very strong, stronger than I've ever felt. As I said, I felt a weird sense of love and affection towards him even before getting to know him. And then I got to know him, and even if I knew he was not the right one for me, I still felt like I couldn't let him go, and now that we're apart it's like I lost a part of me. Why do I feel like this? I feel like I loved him unconditionally, no matter what he was like.

For example, I am a person of very strong opinions and I usually can't feel a connection with someone who doesn't share my same values.
But with him... It's like all my certainties were destroyed. He was far from being "my ideal type", yet I loved him unconditionally and I feel like I was ignoring a lot of things that would have usually upset me, just because I felt something very strong towards him.

Also, I was having toxic behaviours for the first time in my life: jealousy, need to control him, fear he was lying to me, trust issues....

What do you think about this?
 
In regard to reincarnation, it would seem that there is some remembered issues and love from a prior relationship.
 
Those are some interesting ideas to think about, Benny. It also plays into the cycles of life, of growing up, leaving home, starting a new family. Without actually reaching the 'new family' stage, I was already finding stronger telepathic links with people I'd met, total strangers, male and female, than with members of my own family, so I'd have to give the DNA link a bit of a cold shoulder, there are connections stronger than that. A number of people I've known over the years I'm sure played a role in some of my past lives. But I don't get excited about that since there have been so many, and not necessarily in the context of finding a mate.

From my perspective we have strong connections with other people, sometimes those we spend much time with, but also connections powerful and strong in some fleeting moments which pass by. Maybe my perspective is unusual, I only state things as I find them. I recall strongly after decades people who I met for perhaps thirty seconds, more than some who I was involved with for years.

I think all important communication takes place beyond the physical, and even perhaps the only language is love. When we don't use that language, we are misunderstood, we feel misunderstood, there is separation. But I don't mean words. The words we use are like grains of sand, all blend into the distant beach. What is expressed, regardless of words, is something which lasts.
 
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