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Irish past lives

bonham

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Hello everyone!

I was wanting to pick up on something I read on a post on this site and explore it a little further. Somebody mentioned in a thread about bagpipes and how they gave a chill and a thrill both at once.

I had been researching Scottish and Irish history and learning Gaelic for a little while when I found I was pregnant with my first son. From a very early stage I got the very strong impression that I was carrying a re-incarnated soul of an Irish hero and so I named him after this famous figure. As it turned out, his father was an old friend of this hero's family and knew them well, including much history not found in books.

What surprised us both was how this boy began to respond to things Celtic once he got to an age of understanding and communicating. He has always hated to hear the Gaelic language and will pout then throw a tantrum if I persistently speak it. He says "Mommy, don't talk like that! The policeman will get you and put you in the jelly (jail)". At the time of his previous incarnation, there was a law that forbade the speaking of Gaelic under the penalty of imprisonment and/or transportation to Australia. I knew that, I found it out in my research, but never spoke of it to him. Gaelic music makes him feel similarly nervous. He dislikes police and soldiers ("No me like police, they kill people, Mommy"), yet is interested in all things martial and loves to wear his kilt!

I have deliberately not discussed politics with him. I am a pacifist, and he is likewise a peaceful and thoughtful child yet there is a quiet determination and strength, and a wisdom of silence as in a well disciplined, high level soldier. If I tell him something then tell him not to say anything about it, he won't, not even to Grandma! This is rare in such a young child!

I showed him a photo of a famous Irish city (not Belfast) and asked him to tell me about it. He did not know the name of the city or anything about it, but he said that there were fires and guns in the city. This city is known now and in history as a place of violent sectarian riots and effigy burnings, but the photo that I showed him showed none of this. All I did was show him the photo and ask him to tell me a story about it. In his past life, he lived there and would have witnessed such things first hand.

It is important to point out here that I have always sought to present a factual, yet positive and apolitical view of Gaelic history (as far as that is possible), one that seeks to understand all parties and not condemn. I did not tell him about horrible sectarian violence, yet he seems to remember.
Over the past 900 years there have been literally millions of lives cut short in Scotland and Ireland, some horrifically so.

When these souls re-incarnate, they will surely have many issues to work out if they are to progress, as will my little boy. Some may be bent on revenge, others in denial, guilt or fear of their karmic past (the bombers and assassins will also have to return...) and yet others with a wisdom and a maturity to guide others to forgive. I think that most re-incarnates from this era will have a mixture of these three traits.

They need a wise, loving, mature, forgiving parent to safely guide them on a peaceful course in life, for only then will they find peace and forgiveness within.
 
Welcome to the forum bonham! :)

What a fascinating story!
It looks like your little boy has very strong memories of that time.
How old is he now?
He is very lucky to have a mother like you. It would be a lot easier to help kids deal with PL memories if parents kept an open mind like you...
It would be a good idea to write down his memories in a journal if you are not doing it yet. Kids usually forget about their PL's when they get older.
May i suggest that you also write down what triggered his memory as well as location, who was with him at the time, etc...

Thanks for sharing your story with us!
I enjoyed reading about your little boy's Irish memories. :)
 
Hi bonham,

Welcome! :D Thank you for sharing your son's story. It's absolutely amazing what we hear from these little ones when we take the time to listen, isn't it?

Fab's given you a great suggestion in recording all of your son's memories for him. Once he's older, he may enjoy reading about his past lives, and what he said as a child.

Please keep us posted on your little Irish boy! ;)


Ailish
 
My little boy is four years old, he will be five in February. He has been communicating these memories since he learned how to talk (when he was eighteen months old).

I have been recording what he says in a little book, sometimes I go back and read what he said a long time ago and it astounds me. I have to remind myself it is real. He once told me that he had a girlfriend and that she was very beautiful-he was two when he said this and as he remembered her I felt that he was somehow still enamored with her (his girlfriend was beautiful-she was an actress and became, in her later years, a very good friend of little boy's father).

He spoke wistfully of her as if he were in love and made comments about her that one would expect to hear from a young man, not a little boy. He was clearly lovelorn-it was a strange event and inexplicable outside of the reincarnation paradigm.

They never married because he was a fugitive during the last part of his life. Little boy never referred to her as his wife, only ever his girlfriend.
Oh yes, while I remember, when I showed him the picture of the city, there was also a picture of an artwork in the same book. This work portrayed a man with a horrific injury, it was an anti-war protest piece. The injury was the same injury that Irish Hero died of... a horrible gunshot wound. I wanted to skim over it, but little boy kept turning the page back to this picture. He was repulsed, yet wanted to see.

He said "that man dead Mommy". I turned the page and said something like "Yes, well, we'll look at something else" and he would take the book and find the photo again. He said "No me like that one" and I kept telling him he didn't have to look at it, yet he kept turning back to it, until he said "No me want that book Mommy", and gave the book back to me. This artwork clearly shook him, yet at the same time he felt he had to face it. There were some other grotesque anti-war art pieces portrayed in this book, but none of them interested him except the man with the gunshot wound.

These are all very grown up topics and it has been a challenge and also an inspiration to me to hear how he deals with them. He is mature and wise beyond his years, yet he is also a little boy who likes to play cars and climb trees. He loves "helping Mommy" with whatever Mommy happens to be doing and in every way is a perfectly normal little boy. His past life was one of great courage but also terrible suffering and almost constant danger.

This has given him a depth of character rarely seen in this modern world, except perhaps in such brave souls as Nelson Mandela and Aung Sung Suu Chi. What will his future hold? I really don't know. All that I know is that little boy has a destiny on this earth, and I'll be glad to do all I can to help him fulfil it.

I hope that I have been able to help somebody out there whose child has very "grown up" memories. Often the memories are more of a problem for us than our children, the important thing is to just accept them for what they are-grown up memories inside a child's soul. They are glimpses of another time and place and may contain "adult themes" (war, death, relationships etc), but this is merely because the toddler or child sitting next to you was once an adult. If you can see the "grown up" within them you will find such conversations much easier to deal with.

When finished, your precious darling will go and find a toy to play with or a song to sing and you will continue with whatever you were doing as well. Innocence will continue, but another layer of richness will have been added to the bond that you have with your little one, for you have glimpsed him as he was and also as he one day might yet be. All the best, until next time,

Bonham
 
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