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My 2yr old recalls hanging-Preschool Concern

Dm71

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Hello,

I'm new and I knew my son was recalling memories from a past life but my concern about what he says to his pre school and what they make of it is what drove me to search for help.
He is 3 in June and about two months ago in January he was playing with a crane toy, building crane and suddenly asked holding it up if he was hung from it, yes it looks like the gallows in shape. I was taken aback and asked him again and he repeated the question and I said I didn't know.
Fast forward to about 3-4 wks ago and sat beside me playing on the sofa he started putting his hand round the back of his neck and saying it tickles, like he was trying to brush something from around his neck. He then said that he had string around his neck and could I remove it for him. All quite matter of factly.
So I calmly said yes I could and visualized the rope and treated it as though it was around his neck and lifted it up over his head. He didn't blink, just calmly said thank-you mumma and carried on playing.

I showed him the next day a photo of a piece of string looped and knotted and a noose made from rope and said which one was around his neck and he pointed at the noose and I just said okay and that was that.

He started at a new pre school two wks ago and is still trying to find his feet, very confident at home with me and his grandparents and family but he is not used to other young kids around as he's been born 18 yrs after my last. So he is not confident in me leaving him, fine when the helpers are with him but when he is left to play with other kids is still feeling scared, so has moments of fear. We are getting there!
Today a helper asked to speak to me and said on going outside to play he started crying and when she asked him why he said because he didn't want to be taken. She asked me if there were or had been any problems at home! I looked as confused as her and said no reason for him to say that. She said she reassured him they wouldn't let anyone take him, great I thought now that's gone down in the black book.

I asked him when putting him to bed about why he cried and about who was he scared of taking him and at first he said about too many kids there(fear trigger cause of lack of confidence) and I said there were only 15 so not too high he said okay. Then he carried on and said that 'they' had taken him and took his clothes off and he was in the mud and he didn't like it as the mud was so cold. I said okay and asked no more. I am linking this to the hanging memory.

I am Clairaudient and have other abilities spiritually and his father is clairvoyant and other things. His father started talking about past lives when he was a bit older aged 4 and the result back then was he was nearly removed from his parents so he had to be silenced by them to keep him with them.

My son has separation issues with me and other child care I had to give up on as it was so extreme. This one is better for him, he's a little older but now I don't know what to do as what if he talks about rope around his neck or something similar to them? What can I say? That its just a past life memory? To people who are in an official position and may not be open to these things. Take him out and he misses out.
I could do with some advice and has anyone been in similar position? If so what did you do?

Thanks for reading
 
I think I would just say - he was born with a lot of fear and anxieties and I am hoping being around other kids will help him - and leave it at that.
 
Welcome to the forum Dm71,

He is lucky to have you, and vI hope there is something we can do to help. If you would like, you can contact Carol directly, especially about the separation anxiety and the rope around his neck. Dying traumatically his memories are also feelings now. The Healing is very important. Have you had him draw what he feels or remembers without leading him? I imagine from what you said you are keeping a journal, very important! In order to heal, I believe you are doing the right thing, having him in a small school, reassuring him that he is OK - NOW and safe. Have you read Carol's books? She is a BIG advocate for the healing aspect of memories for children. Thank you for sharing, and I hope this helps - at least a little.
 
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