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My daughter's past life

MakesMeWonder

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It's been almost a year now, and my daughter, whose 5 years old, still talks about when she lived on the farm. Since my sister told me my nephew use to talk about being a pilot in WW2 when he was a little boy, I didn't past off what my daughter was saying to be fantasy. I took interest and I started writing things down and ask questions, but it seems once I start to ask questions, my daughter will not answer truthfully. She'll make up answers, so I stopped asking questions unless I didn't understand her. Everyday she talks about something that they have on the farm or did on the farm.
This memory started first thing in the mornings when she would tell me "Grandpa came last night to take me to the farm!" She would say Grandpa and Grandma loved having her there and would cry when she had to leave. Grandpa would always reassure her he'd take her back when she was ready to go. She would tell me they wouldn't be speaking to her that they "didn't talk" was her words. Grandma always wore a dress and it had flowers on it. And Grandpa was old.
So this would continue for a week or so, when then she would say she didn't like the bad man at the farm. I said "what bad man". She said his name was "father". Grandpa didn't like him either. I really didn't get much info at this point because she just decided to stop talking about it and didn't like when I would bring up the subject so I just let it go.
My husband and I are convinced someone on the other side brought her to the farm during her dreams. At first we thought it was a family member that's past to the other side, but now were not too sure. She stopped talking about being on the farm for a couple of months and then she started talking about it again and now talks about it daily. There is no "bad man" or a man called "father". There is however grandma, grandpa, mom, dad(her daddy is younger then her mommy) an older brother, and 2 younger sisters. One sister is a baby and her name is Karen. Dad works at a school very far away. My daughter said she died when she was 10 years old and that her Mommy was very sad. She died in a hospital. She remember having something on her arms and that she didn't wake up. She said as soon as she died, her Grandfather brought her here. To our house we live in presently. She says she remembers waking up as a baby.
Thanks for letting me share my story. If my daughter shares anymore interesting tidbits, I'll come back and mention them
 
Thank you for sharing such an interesting story. I certainly does sound as though she is still visiting the farm in her dreams. Have you asked her to draw a picture of the farm and the people there?
 
That is really neat. Please keep posting, I would love to hear more. Don't forget to take notes. I really find it interesting when I am able to look back and compare what my daughter said a year or so ago and what happened.

Good luck to you!
 
Yes I agree, please post more if you get anything, I enjoyed reading your post very much and am very intrigued.
Hammy.
 
Hello

Yes, I will keep everyone informed. So far since I've written this she hasn't changed her stories nor added anything. I should makes things more clear though, she no longer says grandpa visits her in her dreams and she talks about living on the farm throughout the day, not just when she first wakes up like she did in the begining. Thanks for being here and letting me share my story
 
More from my daughter

I woke up this morning to find my 5 year old daughter lying in bed with me. I told her i'ts time to get ready for school. She said "Mommy I want to tell you something, but you can't get mad". I said 'what sweetie". She said that there was a good man in her room last night and she didn't want me to meet him because she was afaird the good man would get scared and run away.
I was completely taken back by this. I said "what good man?"
She said " I don't know, he was in my room when I woke up."
I said "Did he say anything?"
She said " He said hello to me. He was very nice."
I asked "What did the good man look like?
She said she couldn't remember, but "he was here to keep the bad man away."
Once again if you remember my story in the beginning my daughter spoke of a bad man and that she nor the person she calls her grandfather likes this man.
I said "where's the bad man?"
My daughter said "he's in the basement. The good man is here to help keep the bad man way".
I asked if I could go into her room to see if the good man was still there and she said "yes" and that she wanted to come with me. Of coarse he wasn't there. I asked where was the good man when she saw him. She said he was sitting on her floor.
She said she was afaird of going down the stairs because the bad man was very scary. I said "lets go downstairs. There's no bad man down stairs.". She said "yes there was" and she refused to go downstairs.
This is the very first time in my daughter's life she didn't want to go downstairs. All her toys are down there so she spends a lot of time down stairs on a daily basis. I went down the stairs first and she did follow me. I showed her that the bad man ran away and she was okay with that. She said she didn't want to stay downstairs by herself anymore encase the bad man came back. I reassured her that would never happen.
I am completely convinced my daughter did have someone in her room last night and this was not a dream. I'm thinking the "good man" might be her spirit guide or guardian angel. Can anyone give me the slightiest idea who this bad man could be? My husband and I have no clue. I also think that this so called "bad man" can somehow hurt her or put her in harms way. Why else would someone would be sent to protect her. If someone has any ideas, please let me know.
 
I'm not sure that the "good man" is so much for protection as for comfort. I can't say for sure, but I don't really think anything is out to get your daughter. However, if she thinks there is a "bad man", perhaps that's why the "good man" showed up: to make her think he's keeping the bad one away.

The "bad man" might be just a memory of someone from a past life... someone your daughter doesn't realize isn't in this life now. So the "good man" is there to reassure her, in a simple way that a child would understand.

In any case, it sounds like she has support and protection.

Lib
 
I agree with Lib. I don't think the "good man" is there because the "bad man" can actually hurt your daughter, but he's there because your daughter thinks the "bad man" can hurt her and she needs the comfort and security the "good man" is giving her. If he makes your daughter feel better, then consider him a blessing. You can ask your daughter to ask the "good man" to keep her company downstairs and see if that helps. :)

Chelle
 
we are not powerless

Hi there,

If I were you I would make it clear to the spirit whom your daughter says is the 'bad man' that you and her guardian angel will not allow him to get anywhere near her, body or soul. Then you communicate with the 'good man' (in your mind of course, as you do with prayer) and between you, place an impenetrable wall of protection around your daughter.

Then you can tell her in all truth that you have sent the bad man away and he's not coming back. Most importantly, tell your daughter, kindly and gently, that what she sees is in a other life and that she's your daughter now in a new life and nothing can hurt her. The farm and the grandparents were messages to you too, to show you that she needs to express this and get rid of it, then she can grow up in THIS life, free of the past.
 
Thanks

Wow, great advise from everyone. Thank You. Now I have the "bad man" figured out. So far my daughter hasn't spoken again about anyone visiting her. I appreciate everyone here for taking me serious. I know she's only 5, but if you could hear how she talks about these certain things, you'd know yourself she's seeing something. Anyway I will keep in touch.
 
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