Seeing sparkles and spots flying around

[larali]

Long story short here: as I mentioned in another thread, I am debating on whether or not to have another baby and I'm leaning towards no for various reasons, but I've been having odd experiences that this baby wants to be born. If you missed it, I have actually heard this baby's voice as I was falling asleep (calling me Moooom), having several lucid dreams about seducing my husband to have a baby with me, combined with the fact that I got pregnant despite being on two forms of birth control (miscarried early) leaves me thinking this kid is hell bent on coming back here quickly....

I really have no doubt that this kid's spirit is hanging around me. I have memories of seeing my mom and dad at their wedding (specifically in the church reception hall), and in the house they lived in before I was born, so I don't doubt it.

But here are the things I want to ask about:

My cat sleeps on the bed with my husband and I. At night when we are chilling out in bed, the cat sits between us and he looks around the room, like he's watching a fly. He hasn't done this before. Cat acts like it's no big deal, not like he is seeing a ghost or anything. He's just watching something flying around. It's not a fly. Might it be a spirit?

The other thing is, I keep seeing sparkles and little spots of light flashing around. I didn't know this could be a spirit until I came across something online yesterday that suggested it could be. Often it is when I'm just sitting by myself... I really don't want a spirit to see me picking my nose or something!

And I'd like to throw this out there, even though it has nothing to do with the topic question: I prayed that this spirit baby would send me a sign if it wants to be born (not like it hasn't already, but I want another sign). Today my sister and I were talking about something vaguely reproductive-related, and she asked me with great excitement, "Are you able to have a baby?" I said yes, but I was kind of struggling with that at the moment, and she said "Do it!!! Have one."

1. Is my cat seeing the spirit baby?
2. Are sparkles and flying spots signs of spirit baby
3. Do you think that what my sister said was a sign from the baby?

By the way, I just love this forum.... You bet I don't talk about this stuff with people I know in real life.:thumbsup:

 

[Ceridwen]

You sound a bit unsure whether you want a baby or no?


It is YOUR decision and YOUR decision only whether to have one (well....and your husbands equally obviously).


If you both genuinely want a child (ie of yourselves) then that's one thing and have one.


If one or both of you don't - then don't let any spirit push you into it (no matter they determined they are to have you for a parent). They must accept your decision and either choose someone else instead as parents or forget about being born. Their choice.


If they are exerting any pressure on you to be their parents - then what does that tell you about them?


Your and your husbands choice - YOU both make it and don't be influenced either way by this spirit.


It does not matter what this baby wants - it isn't them that would be "having the child" iyswim.

 

[Mere Dreamer]

Children have been born to someone close to the person they want to be around when being their child isn't an option, if I remember correctly from the many stories I've read on the topic of choosing where to be born.


If you really don't want children just tell him/her to take that route this time or wait till another lifetime.

 

[Blueheart]

1. Is my cat seeing the spirit baby?


2. Are sparkles and flying spots signs of spirit baby


3. Do you think that what my sister said was a sign from the baby?

1. Perhaps. Cats are curious creatures. Who knows what they can see?


2. More likely, they are signs of changes to the fluid in your eyes or something like that. Drink more water, and if they persist, see a doctor.


3. I think that what your sister said is a sign SHE wants you to have a baby.