The premise that you or someone you know did a bad thing in the past - and that is why bad things happen to them now, is not always true.
Please do not assume based on
karma that someone deserves to be in an abusive relationship or negative situation. Here’s one example:
My Mom did a lot of regression work with people back in the early 1990's. It was her way of sharing her gift of inner vision with others and helping them through traumatic past life memories. One of the things she did, was when she would come across an individual who was having clear memories of a past life, that included another person who was repeatedly abusive, hurtful, or manipulating -- was she helped the person to
reverse the magnetic poles between themselves and the hurtful individual that repeated the offensive behavior.
One woman who she worked with --whose father and brother had raped her repeatedly in this life since age two -- appeared (in several regression sessions with my mother) over and over again in many life times. The woman was raped, and abused by the same two men. Different time periods, different scenarios.
This woman was very obese, very depressed, owned nothing personally and was in her 40's. She had come to think that --with all of her searching into New Age thought regarding Karma - that her karma must be to endure this from them -- that she must have done something terrible to them.
My mother helped her to see that she had not brought this upon herself,
she was not responsible for their choices -- only hers. During her last session ..Mom had her visualize her father first....and to feel the energy pull between them, to actually see him standing in front of her; then she had her visualize reversing that energy, as if the other person was upside down and opposite of her-thereby reversing the magnet pull or releasing the bond between them. Then she did the same with the brother.
After doing this she reinforced the fact that she had choices, that she was not responsible for her father or brother, nor had she done anything wrong in any of her past lives to deserve to be raped and abused repeatedly. She helped her see that it was their choice to engage in the abuse....not hers.(Mom could of course see the woman’s past lives with her.)
The woman came out of trance state, fully energized, happy, released from the negativity, the anger, and the shame. Last my Mom heard -- she lost 100 pounds, bought a condominium, was going to school and was very happy.
As the Tibetan Buddhists suggest, --
the soul will be drawn, as a magnet, into whatever womb resonates with all its past experiences -- if a soul is not aware.
I still have a hard time with the guiding and planning sessions so many authors write about. Suggesting that we plan to be abused and we need to learn to choose differently, but not telling us how! Mom showed people how.
I did this visualization in a meditation myself, reversing the magnetic poles between my ex and myself.....it has an amazing effect, an immediate release.
And ummmm who is Shirley? I’m late to the conversation.
But I do see a 1974 transcript.
