Thank you, I have tried there too...no luck...If I got it right with my flashbacks her father was ill when she was alive. If Sadie is the one that I remember it meant her father died 3 years after she did and his home is now not visible on Earth Google because of all the trees dominating where the house used to be. I don't think there is a house there no more, if it is it must be falling apart. It is still in a neighborhood with neighbors, houses, so that has not changed. If Sadie is the one then she lived with her husband and her father in that house once, before she died.
If my flashbacks are further true than her husband got "wild" after her death, drinking, and not taking care of himself properly. I don't know what happened to him. They had no children. If my flashbacks are true than she felt like a failure for not keeping ( miscarriages ) and giving him a baby/babies, he would have been a great dad then and wanted to become one. I think she felt like a failure to her Father because he had high hopes in her getting further in her education ( instead she was a drop out because she got pregnant and had to get married, but she loved her husband very much. She also felt like a "bad girl", because I remember her husband-to-be would tell her he was trying very hard to make a "descent" / married woman out of her, and not go "all the way" before marriage. I think if she had said stop he would have. Basically, she took the blame for everything. It was always only him, for her. She would never dream of being with someone else, she was very shy, no one else would ever come close so she was not be "bad" in that aspect ). I'm sorry I have such a long explanation.
I suppose my point is that there was no one around to care for her grave, if she ever had one, that is, if her husband either moved on or died young due to his life style or accident and her Father dying shortly after she did.
I don't know what they did of those they thought/or was 100% had committed suicide. If they were allowed to have a funeral just like everyone else and be buried on sacred ground ?
I don't know if they separated colored from white folks in the US regarding grave yards and if the colored were in more danger of having theirs removed or something ? That is if my flashbacks are now right and Sadie was of mix race
Jesus, I got carried away once again with my thoughts...sorry...Thanks again for trying to help
/Jaimie