3 year old shares past life memory

[java4me]

I’m a mother of 3 boys. Last night I experienced what I believe is a past life memory recalled by my 3 year old.
Spontaneous and adult like – Niko (my 3 year old) asked me about how he got here. I explained that he grew in my belly and then was born.

Looking me straight in the eyes and with complete certainty he stated when I was dead… (I assumed he was talking about my pregnancy so I explained that he was alive in my tummy.) No, not there (pointing at my belly). When I was dead, he replied. The ambulance paramedic tried to save me. The police did not try to save me. They tried to put my eyes back in my head. I was bloody. Then he asked me what my brain is made of.

He continued with his story by stating Brendan (my oldest son) got 4 shots, he got 1 shot (Niko – youngest son), and Hayden got 1 shot (middle son). And then completely switched gears and went on to other interests. I was left with the chills and speechless. Is it possible that my children shared a past life that ended tragically? How do I find out more information? What types of questions are appropriate? I don’t want to coach him. I want him to talk more about this memory. I would like to get some information that may be varifiable.

I read that children who are reincarnated may have birth marks, deformities, etc. Hayden has a small, oval, bald spot on his head near his temple. There isn’t a medical reason for this.
Brendan - now a teen - still cannot sleep in the dark.

Any thoughts?

 

[deborah]

Welcome to the forum java4me.


First make sure you write down everything he says. Over time it will be one of the most valuable things you do for him and for yourself. Second. Please purchase Carol's first book Children's Past Lives.


There are a group of stickies in this section - The Four Signs of Children's Past Life Memories, and other threads that might help guide you through better understanding how to handle him and help him through the process.


Please know you are not alone and we are here to help.

 

[ChrisR]

Hi java4me, welcome to the forum, and thanks for sharing

I read that children who are reincarnated may have birth marks, deformities, etc.

I just wanted to point out that all children are reincarnated, it is a natural process that happens to all of us. However there only seems to be a minority of parents who actually pick up on the things that their children are saying, and relate it to a past life, the majority often dismiss it as an overactive imagination. So what your son is going through is just normal, and by allowing him to talk about it, you are helping him to process those memories and move on with his present life, which is a good thing.


Deborah already gave you some great suggestions. Do certainly write everything down, and if he does start remembering again, just ask him very simple questions like what his name is, how old he is, where does he live etc., hopefully that will open up a door to further memories, maybe get him to draw a picture if he can express himself better that way.


Please do buy Carol's book, it will help you to understand how past life memories affect your child, and what you can do to help him. Good luck, and let us know how you're getting on.


Chris

 

[Karoliina]

Hello and welcome to the forum, Java4me.


You had an interesting experience with your son, and it does sound like he had a past life memory there. It's possible everything happened just as he stated, but he could also, for example, mix up his brothers then and now.


However, it's not unusual for people/souls close to each other to be born into the same family over and over again.


I'm also going to recommend Carol Bowman's books, and reading through the stickies in this section. If you have time, reading through threads by different members (maybe using the search engine, if you're interested in a specific topic) will probably prove very interesting, too, as you can see that way you are most definitely not alone, and there are a lot of other members going through the same things.


I hope little Niko will be okay with his memories, and they won't bother him or give him nightmares. You can help him with that, if it seems the memories are traumatic to him.


Please keep us posted and enjoy this space. :thumbsup:


Karoliina