Did he change his mind?????

[Butterfly]

Hi, I'm new here and new to past life stuff. My son is nearly 4 and for a while has been saying he is scared of growing big. I have always asked him why, but he has only ever said 'just because'
He would be hysterical and refuse to eat if people said 'this will make you grow BIg and strong' etc
Recently he shed some more light on it, which has led me to here.
He said that he has been big before, he remembers it, and it wasn't a dream because it wasn't black and white (he has mentioned before he dreams in b/w). He just didn't like it. That's all he would say, as he was very upset.

So I have found this site, and have been reading various posts.
Someone made the following quote:Another thing I wanted to tell you was that my grandmother had 6 children. Between number 5 and 6 she had a stillborn. My aunt, number 6, firmly believes she was that stillborn baby, a boy, and that she changed her mind at the last minute because she decided she wanted to be a girl. It's very probable because she's very feminine, and vain!! She's a girly girl for sure.


Now it has me wondering if perhaps my son was going to be a girl and changed his mind...this is because a few years ago a religious prophet told me my first child would be a girl, she extraordinary, very spiritual etc. While I was preg with my son, i knew he was a boy DEFINATELY, but i had a dream one night of a baby girl with fair curly hair.

I do now also have a daughte, and i realised tonight that she is the baby i dreamt, she is the image of that baby! Ever since she was born, she has looked soooooo familair, and I havenot been able to pinpoint who she reminds me so so much of.
Back to my son, he makes comments all the time saying 'when i am a girl, i can wear pink sandals etc' he asks when he will be a girl, and loves girly things. Pink is his fave colour. He also loves boy things, trains, cars, is very active etc.

Sorry this is long, but with what you all know, can someone make any sense of any of this?
TIA
Sharon

 

[kris0503]

I am going to suggest that when a person changes gender while reincarnating, there may be more mental adjustments one has to make than if he/she were to return with the familiar gender. But then, I know one case where a man came back as a girl, and she is a perfectly well adjusted female. Not much of an answer, I suppose.
Kris

 

[sophie]

Hi butterfly, I have a son and a daughter, and my daughter came to me in a dream too, before I had my son. Your son probably had a tough recent past life experience. He just needs time to get used to his new body. I am a female, but have had more male lives, and this is my first female life in a long time. When I was a child, I dearly missed my male body, especially my penis. In time, I learned to adjust to my new body, and I'm happy to be female. Your son will be fine. Just keep listening to him when he tells you about his dreams and feelings. Ask questions, like, do you remember what your name was before? what did you look like? where did you live? And then write everything down, because you will forget.
Love and Light