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Discovery of a long lost relative in WW2

Lynnette

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Hi,

I know this is not quite past life related, but am so curious and excited, I thought I would share it. Perhaps others have had a similar experience, or similar memories.

In my family, in WW2, the youngest son, I suppose he would have been my great, great, uncle, disappeared in WW2. The story handed down had always been that he had been taken prisoner by the Japanese, then disappeared from history.

Being interested, generally, in tracing my family history, I had searched for information on him, with no results, so cast him aside and had completely forgotten about him.

Then, very randomly a couple of nights ago, I started having some very strange dreams of being trapped in a tight space, feeling strangled, and tired, and on my last knees, hearing gunshots, and being resolved but terrified that I was going to die. I thought perhaps I was over tired from working so hard and was eating my supper too late. But at the same time I found I was suddenly and very incessantly thinking about him.

The day after I had those dreams, and out of the blue, my mother decided to visit and brought some very old family photographs to renew the guessing game of who they might have been. These included a couple of photos of a WW1 and WW2 soldier - we think they are the older brother of the son who disappeared. Coincidentally, there happened to be a WW display in our local museum, so we decided to take them along. Although the insignia on his outfits were a little fuzzy, the curator gave us some very broad ideas as to which regiments they might have belonged to - no guess there, they were local regiments -for the brothers.

But... I looked them up again anyway... and found him. Wow! What a story!

It turned out he was part of a regiment that was declared lost in action - on the 15th March - the exact date that I finally found him, and the date presumably when he was captured and subsequently went missing. From the prison camp, he was packed onto a ship and secretly transferred to dig an airfield on this island in the middle of the Pacific; and whilst no one knows exactly what happened - there were no survivors, it is clear they were worked to the death and subsequently massacred.

It completely blew me away. First, hoping his mother and sisters at the time did not know what happened to him after his disappearance. Second that he had been amongst not one, but two well-known events of the period. Third, that I had actually managed to finally find him. And fourth, that it happened to occur on the exact date to the hour that he had disappeared!

It begs the question, of course, was it all coincidence ... ?
 
Lynnette said:
In my family, in WW2, the youngest son, I suppose he would have been my great, great, uncle, disappeared in WW2. The story handed down had always been that he had been taken prisoner by the Japanese, then disappeared from history.
Then, very randomly a couple of nights ago, I started having some very strange dreams of being trapped in a tight space, feeling strangled, and tired, and on my last knees, hearing gunshots, and being resolved but terrified that I was going to die. I thought perhaps I was over tired from working so hard and was eating my supper too late. But at the same time I found I was suddenly and very incessantly thinking about him.


It turned out he was part of a regiment that was declared lost in action - on the 15th March - the exact date that I finally found him, and the date presumably when he was captured and subsequently went missing. From the prison camp, he was packed onto a ship and secretly transferred to dig an airfield on this island in the middle of the Pacific; and whilst no one knows exactly what happened - there were no survivors, it is clear they were worked to the death and subsequently massacred.


It begs the question, of course, was it all coincidence ... ?
There is no such thing as coincidence. Was he British or American? You may know the defeat and capture of Singapore was the worst British military defeat ever. For the Americans it was Bataan in the Philippines. I think both happened in 1942. Things did not turn around until 1943-4 for both the U.S. and British war effort.
 
That you found him on March 15th, the day he was declared "Missing in Action" took my breath away. He "needed" to be found. Are you the first relative to have your "third eye" open?
 
BriarRose said:
That you found him on March 15th, the day he was declared "Missing in Action" took my breath away. He "needed" to be found. Are you the first relative to have your "third eye" open?
I am not sure. I suppose in some ways I may be. I know my great grandmother - the soldier's sister was certainly a character. Wild animals galore flocked to her house, ambling in and out without fear! Whether that counts, I don't know.


What I do know is that I am probably the first person to have the skills and knowledge - and resources - to be able to seek out and find him.


I also know that having found him - he was in one of the British regiments lost in Singapore, and then amongst those killed on Ballale Island, I felt in myself a sense that I had solved a long-term question ... what had happened to him ... that he had finally been recognised, remembered, and brought back home to rest. I also had the feeling that his sister - my great-grandmother, and his mother and other family members aware of his loss, had gained this understanding and were once again at comfort. ... if that makes sense?


I wonder if the past really can come back to us that way? Not only did I find him on the 15th March, the day he went missing; but I also solved the final piece of the puzzle - his place of death on Ballale Island, at around about the same hour as the regiment was declared lost in action...


Perhaps the timing of our past life memories follow similar coincidences? Until I realised the correlation of date and time by having it in front of me, I had never before given it much thought.
 
From my own experience, and what I've read, PL memories can be revealed in that way. What you experienced with the revelation of your relative's time of disappearance and place of death goes beyond the possibility of coincidence.


It is also interesting about your aunt. Are you familiar with the character "Beorn", in "The Hobbit"? I wonder if there are a few real individuals with the ability to live at peace with wild things?
 
Yes. I vaguely remember Beorn. It's been a few years since I've read the Hobbit, and haven't watched the film yet. My great gran sure was amazing. My mum said visiting her was like a scene out of Snow White, or Cindarella. She had robbins, a crow, foxes, hedgehogs and squirrels who would all happily walk or fly through the windows and doors into her kitchen.


All my mother and I attract is cats! Stray and pets, for some reason. We move somewhere new and in less than a week, we turn into Feline Sanctuary! One young stray even came to us to give birth, then promptly went away again. I even had a precognition of my present adoptee! It is nice company, to be sure, sometimes, but does have its downsides, given that we used to have birds and guinea pigs... :laugh:
 
Oh, goodness ... the film won't cut it if you're talking about Beorn! Read the book first. *laugh* I appreciate the films as their own separate work of art, but sometimes I don't recognize the characters I read.


I'd love to be so comfortable with animals. Allergies prevent me, but perhaps I'll overcome them one day.
 
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