Hayden's comments

[snball]

Hi! I discovered this site this evening, and found the stories to be very interesting. I have been thinking about comments my son Hayden has said over the past few months, and wanted to compare my stories to others and gain some feedback.
Hayden will be three in March, and is very mature for his age. He has been speaking in complete and very adult-like sentences since before he was two. We feel like we are talking to a little adult all the time- it is hard to remember that he is just a toddler! Anyway, his first experience occurred in May, when he was 26 months old. He woke up crying (from a dream) and told me, "I was at the hospital. I was hurt in the road." He was very upset, so we just talked with him and held him until he calmed down. He has since mentioned being in the road, being hurt in the road, and an ambulance coming to get him. Just tonight we passed an ambulance on the road and he said, "Mom, did an ambulance come get you from the road?" I have never been injured or in a wreck, so he is not drawing from comments I have made. He mentions this frequently in a matter-of-fact manner - the only time he seemed frightened was when he woke from his dream/nightmare. Another thing about him - he is terrified of the street and cars on the street- I have trouble loading him in the car when his side is facing traffic. I always reassure him that I am with him, we are looking both ways and we are safe.
Any comments?
Thanks!

 

[deborah]

Welcome to the forum,

Thank you for sharing your story and your son's expressions regarding his memories. Past life memories for children are sometimes right on the surface and they are very real for them. Some researchers suggest that children do not perceive time as adults do and that is why the memories are very clear for them.

Your story reminded me of my niece who screamed bloody murder every time she was put into a car from day one. Poor dear, my Mom had seen that she was in a terrible car accident in Russia her last life, burning and scaring most of her beautiful ballerina body, after which she went into seclusion. Until she was about 6 she didn't even want anyone to look at her. Her (soul) remembered how she looked and seemed confused over what happened, and she had difficulty discerning between now and then.

At six months in the babyseat, she use to do ballerina stretches holding her foot and stretching her leg above her head. LOLOL Quite a sight.

Night terrors are very common with children who have had traumatic deaths in their past lives. Have you read Carol's books about it? It sounds like your son remembers being taken in an ambulance, and that his death was traumatic. It might be something you would want to look into.

Nice to have you on board.

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Love and Light,
Deborah

The soul's Center...is God.

 

[Marsey]

Hi Deborah,

I have just come back to the forum to update the postings for my grandaughter Helena Rose. Reading your posting I see several similarities. You may want to read the "Helena Rose" thread.

Marsey

 

[deborah]

Hi Marsey,

Thank you for directing me to your post. I will go and read it right now. I think I remember when you originally posted it, I was in New York for the month and had limited cyberspace access. And the past four months have been a blur...LONG story *S*S*S I am looking forward to your updates!

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Love and Light,
Deborah

The soul's Center...is God.

 

[Marsey]

Sorry Deborah and Snball. I accidently typed Deborah instead of Snball. As long as I'm here Deb, thanks for your thoughtful post in the Helena Rose thread.

Marsey

 

[psykid]

I really think it is great that he remembers. I personally think more will come back to him if you dont ask questions. To me it would better and know true information like remember his old name. It would be neat if he found information and remebered more as he got older