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How has your belief in reincarnation changed your life?

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I remember when I was a young girl attending Catholic school, I would ask myself, O.K., Christians will go to heaven, but what about people from other religions? Will they go to hell?, etc. I've always liked esoteric books and themes, but when I was in my mid-20s I attended classes in metaphysics. Of course, they taught about reincarnation and karma. That has opened up my mind, has made me (at least I hope so) less judgemental, and above all, it makes me think...if we're all One, why do we hate and fight each other? Maybe today's Muslim will be tomorrow's Jew, or today's Iraqi will be tomorrow's American...
I really think people should experience at least one past-life regression. When I had mine, I was working as a freelancer and didn't make much money, but I used part of my savings for that purpose. It was an incredible experience (I've shared part of it with you).
I guess the only downside of believing in reincarnation is that you can't just go on sharing your beliefs with everyone, especially people who are very religious in the traditional way or those who are skeptics.
 
What does reincarnation mean to you?

The majority of people on this forum accept reincarnation in one form or another. Are there a definitive set of rules? What are the laws (or rules) of reincarnation? What do you think reincarnation is all about? What does reincarnation mean to you? Is reincarnation a religion? A philosphy? A Law of life? A theory? or wishful thinking? Is there a common core of beliefs? Is it possible that we can all agree on the same definition?

What do we really mean when we say we "believe" in reincarnation? If reincarnation is a fact, then we shouldn't just "believe" in it, we should "know" it is a truth. These questions and more are bouncing around in my mind. Do you have any answers?
Majic J
 
Many people on this forum seem to recall past lives with great clarity.

They KNOW reincarnation.

I, for instance, am not clearly aware of any past life...only feelings of affinity for certain situations and people etc..

I can only BELIEVE in reincarnation because it explains many things and fits many new situations that come up.like a scientific principle.

I wish I KNEW reincarnation is...but as of yet I'm just a student.

Nexus
 
I agree with Nexus on this.
I believe in reincarnation, although I do not have any memories of past lives. I feel that I am learning and continuing life's lessons from my lives before. Everything that I have read and understand leads me to believe that.
Sometimes I even say out loud that I must have done something terrible in my past to deal with some of the stuff I go through in this life. (I've always said that, even before I got really interested in past lives). I've always loved history too. I like old things, and feel at home in a thrift shop or consignment shop.
I would love to know some of my past lives, but obviously I don't have a need to know at this time, because none of them have been presented to me in this life.

I will continue to wait and see, otherwise I'll go through this life like I'm supposed to. Perhaps my life lesson will be learned without the aide of the past.
 
When I was very young I remembered things from past lives and told my parents about them. Also I seemed able to speak French (an ability that faded as I grew up). I don't have any idea who I was in my past lives, but I can have no doubt that I did have past lives.

I say I "belive" in reincarnation, but I guess in my case it's really something stronger than mere "belief".

What I know for sure is that we have been here before with different bodies and different names and different problems and challenges, and that we will be here again, with different bodies, names, and challenges.

Beyond that I guess I'd have to say I believe the rest is guesswork. Is there such a thing as karma? I don't know. Is there a God? I don't know. Are we growing and perfecting our souls as we travel through life after life? I don't know. Is there any point to all of this, or is physical incarnation just a "game" we play purely for the fun of it? I don't know.
 
I'm going to get the ball rolling.

From years of reading and research here is my understanding of reincarnation. To me reincarnation means that we live successive lives for the purpose of leaning and reaching some sort of perfection - a perfection that will allow us to "graduate" from this Earth school.

To me reincarnation is a law of the universe. It is something that happens whether we believe it or not. It is just how things work.

Reincarnation also means we are totally responsible for everything that happens to us, be it good or bad. There is no blame, no excuses. We are never victims. There are no accidents.

We preplan, alone or with the help of guides, the major events in our upcoming life. We choose parents that will halp us learn the lessons we have chosen to learn this time around. We choose and plan whether we will marry in a particular life. We choose how and when we will die - to be reborn back into the Spirit World.

We have complete free will. Although we make these rough plans for a life, we have the freedom to change them as we go along. However, to achieve our preplanned purpose it is best to follow our plans as closely as possible.

We stay on track my listening to our intuition and urges.

Cause and effect is another law of the universe. This runs parallel to reincarnation. We call this law, "karma". What we sow we shall reap. Of course we still have free will to change our karma and learn at the same time.

We are all a part of Spirit (or God). Being a part of Spirit makes us co-creators of the universe. We are in effect gods.

Since we are totally responsible for our lives, there is no external God, out there, who will control us - give us favors or punish us. We are responsible and we create our own reality. We are not given "gifts". The "gifts" - abilities we are born with have been earned from previsous lives. That is why some people can play the piano at age 4.

Prayer was another word for "intent". With intent we can create what we want. We have distorted intent by thinking that we can ask favors and be granted them. We have used prayer to place fault and ask for forgiveness. Intent is a sureness in visulization that will become reality.

We can only forgive ourselves and others. We are in control.

Reincarnation means respect. We respect every living thing on Earth, in the universe. Everything has a right to live and learn.

Understanding responsibility and respect will lead us through incarnations at a rapid rate.

Are there any points you disagree with, or agree with? Can we ever come to a consensus?
Majic J
 
An excellent summary. I can't find anything there that I really disagree with. Parts of it I'm more certain of than others, but on the whole I'd say you pretty well captured my own feelings on the subject.
 
Hi Majic,

Regarding Karma I would like to add --

A lot people have not moved beyond what the Andean shamans call the third level of consciousness -this is a level that is mired in fear, conflict, violence, and spiritual impoverishment. Therefore, the world mirrors back to us what we believe and what energies we hold within our physical bodies.

So if our actions and thoughts arise from fear, conflict, violence and spiritual lack, the universe mirrors back to us our intent and actions.

In this sense we create our own karma, and the future then will reflect what we are setting in motion at the present moment.

We are undergoing a spiritual evolution..so subtle, so subjective it is hard to see. Many people, are undergoing a process -- a process of ridding ourselves of limited beliefs, and the residues left from past incarnations.

To build new karma, in my mind, is to work through the heart, to form harmonious relationships between ourselves and others, between male and female, race and culture. To be aware of BEING in the moment and to create consciously is what karma is all about.


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Namaste,

Deborah

I want to suggest that we consider beauty as a transformative experience -- one that awakens the unconscious, and leads us to one another.
 
Deborah, I really like your summary of Karma. Some people believe that karma is bestolled upon us by a god - it is punishment for what we did "bad". I agree that it is simply a result of cause and affect. Example: We cut down our forest, there is no mechanism to deal with carbon dioxide, therefore we are faced with global warming. We create and express anger in our lives, then anger will be our reality. We create and express love in our lives, then love will become our reality.

I put the reincarnation thread here as a learning tool for us. Most of us accept reincarnation and talk about it, but it is good to have clairity in what we are talking about. I'm not asking for proof of reincarnation, or examples of reincarnation, simply a definition - what you believe reincarnation is.

P.S. Your sign-off slogan about beauty is so true. I wrote a part of a chapter on it in my unpublished book. Beauty is a part of the idenification frequency we use to make contact here on Earth.
Majic J
 
Thanks Majic,

My signature at the end is from my artist statement. Been thinking of changing it again..as my feelings inspire me to do so.
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Namaste,

Deborah

I want to suggest that we consider beauty as a transformative experience -- one that awakens the unconscious, and leads us to one another.
 
Nexus had a great point. We Know Reincarnation. For us it is a part of our existence.

In my case ,flashbacks are repetitive. The most important are in the here and now. You feel the heat and wind. You feel the earth as you walk or swim, whatever. Spontaneous flashbacks are in waking visions or dreams. They are very lucid.

There are occasional flashbacks that are in different worlds. My most interesting occured in the early seventies. I am resting eyes closed but not asleep. CLICK! I see my face in a gold hue against a very marvelous purple background. It took a good minute for the vision to fade. It was unmistakeably clear that the purple color was a denotation of my celestial "rank".

One clear proof is that you recognize past /future life associates. Another is that your handwriting is similar and that you tend to look similar to other past/future personalities.

Lastly, there is a common thread if you have a repetitive leadership role.

A question. What future roles would Socrates play? Let's say 15 lives.
 
Thanks Jerry(Johnson)
Yes,
I am not embarassed to say that even with my intuitive belief in reincarnation and my rich dream life, I have never realized before I came to this forum, that so many people actually had clear MEMORIES of a past or OTHER life.

I feel it is important to say this because there are probably many more like me out there who need to learn more while not feeling qualified to speak.

Maybe for one reason or another some of us have the need to remember or are further along in their personal soul evolution...but you who DO remember are teaching many of us lessons we will find few other places in such an interactive and personal way.
Thank you for that.

I have learned to pay more attention to things I considered co-incidence or just "personal preferences" such as my seemingly innate feeling of "home" in the deep woods and connection to native ways.
I was shocked to find that others were afraid of these situations which give me comfort..even in my own (Earth) family.

I have since understood why my children and all people raised in very similar situations are so totally different! This has,in turn, given me a much greater respect for ALL individuals and an awe of new babies who have chosen to come again to this harsh school.They have so much to teach, being closer to their immediate past. I listen and watch more intently for untainted truths.

I have suddenly noticed some relationships that feel ancient and like home...while others seem placed along my path to teach.

Basically, reincarnation,has taught me to be more sensitive to the bigger picture of life..in a way no other explanation of life can.

Perhaps in a future life, I,too will be ready to have lucid memories because I will be ready to further my evolution in this way.

Maybe KNOWING about reincarnation makes one more self assured about his place in the world..happier...as a good friend recently explained..until we no longer have the need to learn in this plane.

I'll quit here as I feel a new topic coming on... [

Until tomorrow..
Love, Nexus
 
For new members -the question remains the same. What does reincarntion mean to you?
 
I'm only relatively new, but I haven't replied to this yet.

Reincarnation means, to me, that I have all the time in the universe to learn valuable lessons. It means that there is no one out there sitting on a throne of judgment, expecting me to get it right within a few years that are actually no more than a matchstrike in the large scope of things.

It means that what I don't learn this time, I will be able to work on at another time, and that the people I love, though they pass on, I will spend happy times with again. It means that life is cyclical, not linear and that all the possibilities of the universe are mine to claim, and I may take as long as I need to learn and to perfect. Thus, I am free to be gentle and patient with myself; no rush, no hurry.

It means that God is truly a force of unconditional love, and that I am loved and accepted at every stage of my development, and will not be punished for being only too human. It means that I may love myself and delight in myself, for I do not need forgiveness for making honest mistakes. I may learn and grow at my own pace without fear of judgment and retribution, and that I may show my fellow humans the same unconditional love that is shown to me by my creator.

Stephan
 
O.K so I'm not particularly new, but I didn't answer before - and it's such a good question, so here goes.

Before I started to learn about reincarnation I had many 'strange' ideas and experiences floating around in my memory.

I'd explored many different avenues and tried to fit myself in to some place, yet never felt that I belonged.

I didn't seek out information about reincarnation, but was led to it by many strange events. Suddenly things about my life, both now and in the past, started to make such enormous sense.

I had been walking around with a handful of pieces of a jigsaw puzzle, not having a clue what to do with them. Now they all started to fit together and with each piece I started to feel more and more happy.

Reincarnation means everything to me. It is the light and I am the moth that flies towards it.
 
I will try to answer Majic's original question first, i.e., whether I believe or know reincarnation. I do not distinguish between what I believe and what I think I know. I do not believe in anything simply because some "authority" figure somewhere said so. That I call religious mode of believing, something that I consider devoid of value and therefore not useful.

That brings me Deborah's question, viz. what it means to me. Everything I do, every decision I make is influenced by this core belief/knowledge. I evaluate everything by considering its karmic consequence. I try to attune my reasoning to the law of karma as I understand it. I find this very useful. It seems to take all the load off my shoulders. While I have tried to live like this from very young age (I started meditating at around 12/13), subtle changes, and refinement, I hope, came as I grew older.

Kris
 
What a fabulous thread! And certainly a profound question. What does reincarnation "mean" to me?

On what level to answer such a question...... What does the word mean, as in a definition?
What meaning does reincarnation bring to our lives?
What does the existance of reincarnation mean for our world?

I think that which of these questions we each choose to answer to your more generalized question may say more about each of us than the answer we give to that question.

I think I'll chose the second question, Alex for $400.

For me personally, the knowledge of reincarnation gives me a level of insight as to my relationships with those close to me, as well as those I only brush against along the way. It allows me to look at my successes and defeats in a larger context; easing my troubles when I fall flat, and helping to control that old bugaboo ego when I am successfull.

The concept of Karma reminds me daily of my responsibility to myself and others in a long term sense. It also is a healthy balance to the narcissitic streak in all of us. The idea of reincarnation could easily lead one to say "The heck with it, I'll get it right next time, for now, LETS PARTY". The heavy responsibility of Karma is a healthy balance against those urges.

Maybe I'll tackle the other two questions later ........... see ya round the mandala, Aga
 
"What does the existance of reincarnation mean for our world?"

I think it would mean a peaceful, loving world. If everyone accepted and lived by the premiss of reincarnation then wars would be eliminated. Why? Because we would understand that we are all apart of one Life Energy - we are all a part of what could be called god and we are all equal in our search for understanding.

We would understand the importance of complete responsibility. Being completely responsible for ourself means there is no one to blame. There are no victims. What happens, happens because we have caused it to happen for our learning. If there is no blame then there are no enimies and no war.

Reincarnation also teaches respect. We begin to understand how respect for ourselves and others is "the golden rule". When we respect all of Nature and every living creature in it, then we will not destroy Her.

Forgiveness is also a big part of understanding reincarnation. We need to forgive ourselves - because what we do is simply a learning experience, and forgive others - for what they do is their learning experience and shouldn't affect us.

Reincarnation means we will be coming back to Earth to learn further lessons. This should encourage us to look after Earth (not pollute it) because we will be coming back to it again.

Reincarnation means there are no churches and religions to control people with fear and power. Reincarnation is a law of the universe and is not a belief. It is simple and straight forward. There is no god to bow down to - we are completely responsible for ourselves. There is no god to ask for favors (pray) or to give punishment. Again, because we are completely responsible for our actions. With no religion there is freedom without fear.
Majic
 
Greetings,
What reincarnation means to me is that as an aspect of All-That-Is, God, The Great Mystery, "I," get to actually experience all attitudes, belief systems, actions. Without experience, it'd all be theory. I can't point to all the beads on my personal string but I have no doubt that I've explored being everything from near-saint to absolute horror.

From an earthly, physicality, duality, illusory point of view, we, in our view, choose to forget our totality so's to focus completely within a particular cluster of beliefs -- for however long we choose to do so. This is the "beads on a string" above, or "lifetimes" implied by reincarnation. More and more, we, as soul-in-flesh, are re-membering our ONEness, our totality. In the words of Richard Bach, we're not humans having spiritual experiences, we're spiritual beings having human experiences. This rings our bell.

Personally, awareness of reincarnation has suggested to me a "continuation" or "expansion" or "further addressing" of soul-growth issues that I'm currently addressing. It suggests to me a connection to a totality of me-ness. And it's practical in that I've used such awarenesses to effect changes in my NOW or my perspective of that NOW.

Example: For over 50 years I flat refused to button the top button of my shirts or wear a tie, and became MOST uncomfortable when anyone, even a loved one, touched my neck. "Knowing" that I'd been beheaded in a "past life" came at the very same time that I "unaccountably" began feeling kinda exposed without my top shirt button buttoned.

Example: For almost 50 years my wife Vickie avoided showers like the plague because she ("unaccountably") couldn't stand water splashing on her face. When she did a "reading" on this for herself, she discovered that she'd been dunked to death for being a "witch" in a past life. Nowadays, she enjoys showers like a normal person. *chuckles madly @ "normal"*

A couple years ago I had a "meditative" insight that I'd been everyone in the 18th century. Could it be that we only become aware of certain past lives because the issues "then" are most current "now?" Do we selectively focus on or are we "given" only one or more "past lives" at a time, as a sort of baby step toward opening up to full awareness of our totality? Is it such a radical leap of perception to become aware that our current "reality" isn't the whole of things? Probably, I suppose. I used to call myself a slow learner. :O)

My wife and I "do" readings of various types for others. Something that's tickled us is when someone asks us to connect with, say, their Great Aunt Bea, who's transitioned to what many call the other-side, or "died," and "she" relates thru us that "she" has since incarnated as a young male, far from the seeker. "She" then goes on to impart information that only "she" and the seeker understand. What does this say about the "personalities" we tend to get so addicted to?

Karma, to me, is simply part of the learning "mechanism" of experience; an Unconditionally Loving mechanism of actions (beliefs, etc.) leading to consequences, which lead to further actions..., ad infinitum. We're given the free will, the choice, to experience/explore all possibilities in love and joy -- or fear and pain. "Well, I wouldn't CHOOSE to have this cancer consciously!" someone might say.

Quite often, about this time, someone brings up things like the Holocaust and the trials and tribulations of "innocent children." Out personal view is that no soul-in-flesh would choose to incarnate in the role of "victim" if not one soul-in-flesh hadn't volunteered to incarnate in the role of "victimizer." And that no soul is any "older" than another. (DavidB<--- *sniffs the air for other possible topic threads*)

In response to an earlier post by silvermoon.... Some look at the yin/yang symbol and focus on black or white as being "more holy" or "better" to seek or emulate or live up to, overlooking the fact that the symbol representing All-That-Is contains and incorporates both -- including a little dot of black in the white half and vice versa. In our own personal goal of living Oneness, we find it appropriate to accept everything that is without judgement. We accept the situations we confront without judgement. That's our lesson material. How we CHOOSE to re-act (*offers up a vision of a pingpong ball*) is our free will, our choice. Invest our emotional energy in another's dynamics -- or not. Choose to call ourselves empaths and Choose to suffer the physical symptoms of what others have Chosen to experience -- or not. One can indeed choose, in our experience.


It strikes me that all projections "backwards in time" of physical motion leads to what many call the Big Bang -- to me, the ultimate bit of "magic," in that a "singularity" or ONEness seems to've exploded and rapidly expanded into all this. *waves his arms around foolishly* Combining this imaginative vision of reality with Great Aunt Bea above..., is it such a great leap to envision an enormous sea of energy, exploring what it's like to "be" this AND that from time to time? Is "being human" some kind of pinnacle of expression of conscious energy? Is ANY energy "unconscious?" If we got really handy with what's called psychometry, what would a Limestone outcrop have to share with us about "beingness?"

Feel free to get out your Strange Crayola set and color me weird.

*grins friendishly* -DavidB
 
To me, reincarnation most of all implies the only viable explanation to the memories in my head that aren't mine. It took me quite some time to buy into the whole deal and I am still highly sceptic when it comes to many things spiritual that others seem more open towards. Mine is a rational and practical mind (at least I like to think so), and I don't always feel very comfortable with what I can't touch and see and feel. It is an explanation, and in such, acceptance of the fact that I have past life memories lets me deal with the traumas and emotional scars of the past without wondering what is 'wrong' with me this time around.
 
Has It Changed The Way You Behave?


Assuming you believe in reincarnation, has it changed the way you behave in this life? Have you become more aware of Karma, or have you always been consciousof that?
 
Hi tpicco,


I don't believe karma is a punishment - simply an action and reaction. I believe that knowledge of reincarnation - has furthered my understanding of who I am - and where I am going. It's also allowed me to see that the choices I make in the present moment - impact my future, and I have the ability to create conscious change for the good through my thoughts, my feelings and my emotions. ;)


I think that knowing we are all connected has taught me to try to be more understanding, more compassionate and to reflect in love instead of in anger - or any number of other limiting emotions. I've learned that what we reflect outwards - we also draw back to us.


I also think that everything we are presented with - both good and bad - in our lives, is a lesson to us. Sometimes it's hard to see - but that's the challenge and the beauty of it.


Aili :)
 
tpicco said:
Assuming you believe in reincarnation, has it changed the way you behave in this life? Have you become more aware of Karma, or have you always been consciousof that?
Reincarnation is very real to me, and accepting that reality has made a big change in my life.


I define karma as 'sanskrit for baggage', and in my case, not long after I accepted that it's all real, I became very conscious of the fact that things you did in a past life do come back to haunt you, just like the things you did in this life can and do. I had an object lesson in that, recently.


I ended up with a great big piece of past life baggage coming back to haunt me. It's the only thing that explains why it is that I was able to tame and reform the neighborhood's worst juvenile delinquent-practically overnight-when nobody has ever been able to reach him.


He's an absolute doppelganger for a former adjutant of mine-right down to the mole on his cheek in the same place. He's also reported some of the other indicators of people who remember the period.


Every so often he forgets, and instead of sitting down in my visitor chair, he stands at attention in front of my chair. That's funny. What's really funny is that first, I had to train him to just walk in and sit down. Otherwise, he'd just stand there right in front of me, leaving me talking to his kneecaps.


And that's what believing in reincarnation and how I define karma has changed the way I behave. I used to hate that kid. We all did. He broke into our houses, set fires, stole things, etc., etc., et. Now, he's my kid brother.


And karma changed the way that he behaves, too. He's not the same kid since he got my attention. I'm a big piece of PL baggage, too. And he knows better than to put one toe out of line with me watching the neighborhood. That's a change that came about with my belief in reincarnation's reality, as well.


Phoenix
 
Ailish said:
Hi tpicco,
I don't believe karma is a punishment - simply an action and reaction. I believe that knowledge of reincarnation - has furthered my understanding of who I am - and where I am going. It's also allowed me to see that the choices I make in the present moment - impact my future, and I have the ability to create conscious change for the good through my thoughts, my feelings and my emotions. ;)


I think that knowing we are all connected has taught me to try to be more understanding, more compassionate and to reflect in love instead of in anger - or any number of other limiting emotions. I've learned that what we reflect outwards - we also draw back to us.


I also think that everything we are presented with - both good and bad - in our lives, is a lesson to us. Sometimes it's hard to see - but that's the challenge and the beauty of it.


Aili :)
I don't see karma as punishment... but I do see it as a system of balances... if I learn the lessons I chose to learn in this life, then I try something else next time. If I don't learn them then I need to have another life and try that lesson again. I don't think additional life has to be the very next one, but I believe once you choose a particular focus/lesson, ya gotta foinish the course to your satisfaction.
So I guess that makes me try to be a little more diligent this time around...
 
Assuming you believe in reincarnation, has it changed the way you behave in this life? Have you become more aware of Karma, or have you always been conscious of that?
An interesting question for new members...


Does the knowledge of reincarnation change the way you perceive others? The world around you? Does it cause you to reflect on a deeper level - about your current life's situations and how you can create a positive change in your life now?
 
Karma


A lot of the arguments I personally encounter against reincarnation hold that it is an excuse to act immorally.


'But if you're born again, you don't get punished-' etc. This disgusts me. So the only excuse to act morally is because of how you could be punished after you're dead? Hell no. The only impetus one should need to act morally is the happiness and well being of your fellow people. Who could be glad to make someone suffer for their own benefit or if they knew they would never pay for it in this life but the worst monster? I find it offensive that morality is so intrinsically confused with religion and that people assume it is the same thing without even thinking. That's what always gets me riled- people who don't stop to question themselves. I'm always questioning myself. I don't think that people who never bother look at their lives or society are really even living.


So, after that slightly irrelevant ramble- no, never.
 
I suppose in some ways it has changed me. It has broadened my perspective of life, its purpose and why things are. I think it has deepened my spirituality, which for me, is certainly welcome. By understanding past lives, or at least attempting to, I see rationale for my thought processes, habits, likes and dislikes. Joy and fear have deeper meaning when viewed through the kaleidescope of other times. Love took on a whole new meaning, as did the pain that came with it. It's magnitude defies words.


Koshka your "ramble" wasn't irrelevant. The way we see and perceive our lives is a part of karma. Whether we are cognizant of it or not, it still is working, flowing through time. I too believe that the innate instinct of humans is kindness, compassion and peaceful existence. Yet it is so corrupted by greed and religion. Yes, I said religion... look at the world's conflicts, it's greed or religion.


By understanding reincarnation and karma I think one tends to be more in-tune with the true compassionate spirit. And for that reason I see the truths of reincarnation as a deeper and more spiritual side of us. And I suppose not everyone is suppose to "get it," until their journey finds it.


Tinkerman
 
There are some wonderful and thought-provoking replies in this thread!


For me, reincarnation was always front and center in my life, though I didn't fully realize it until I was in my late teens or early 20's. I grew up in a large US Irish-Catholic family and we were all very different personalities from day one. We all had/have our own quirks that I now realize were past-life clues.

  • I was a child who feared starvation in spite of the fact that I was the only chubby child out of eight kids, and we always had plenty of food.
  • I had a terrible fear of losing my loved ones - always. I never lost a single relative until I was a teenager, so there wasn't a reason for this gripping fear in early childhood.
  • I would routinely have dreams about my siblings and parents where I recognized them in the dream - but it wasn't how they looked in this lifetime. I remember being very puzzled by that and discussing it with my sister, who had the same experiences.
  • Instinctively I knew that some of my siblings were with me in this life in order to work on relationship issues.
  • I've had a very strong sense for decades that my mother in this life was once my sister and my best friend. My father was also a friend in at least one past life.


The above examples illustrate to me that I always "knew" the truth about reincarnation, but society is so quick to call you a weirdo if you try to put the puzzle pieces together and finish up with a picture that doesn't match popular religious dogma. I had to do my own homework, which I did gladly. Luckily, I was a voracious reader.


Now, several decades later, I don't see reincarnation the way I did in the early years. I don't think it's a system of reaping what you sow as much as it is a carefully-crafted lesson plan of our own design, with help from guides and whatever divine entities are floating around. As others have pointed out, Ying needs Yang; good needs evil; villain needs victim. It's a game with a purpose, and the overall purpose is to learn. You can't learn much in one lifetime because you quickly get boxed in by societal norms, expectations and circumstances. You need lots of different lifetimes, set up deliberately to give you what you need to create decision-making opportunities.


To answer the question, my belief/understanding of reincarnation has changed my life in many ways. I have more patience, tolerance and compassion. I am much less willing to judge the actions of others because I now know that whatever I *think* I know about a person, there's probably far more that I do not have a clue about. I do not hold on to anger; I never did, so I must have learned that lesson already. It always seemed obvious to me that people who retain anger become unhappy.


Most importantly, reincarnation means that there is hope for everyone. All is not as it seems, and to use my mother's favorite quote in times of hardship or tragedy, real or imagined: "This too shall pass." It used to irritate me greatly when she said it, but now I see the wisdom of it.
 
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Deborah said:
Hi Franklin,
Ultimately the belief in reincarnation is based on experience, either through a loved one or by personal experience. Remembering who I was, and who loved ones were, and why I struggle with some and have such an affinity with others has given many AH HA!!!! moments LOLOL.


But for me, what came with the belief in reincarnation was expanded awareness' - OBE's, remote viewing, altered states, and a deep exploration into the realms of consciousness. Reincarnation was and is just the first stepping stone!


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Love,


Deborah


Lifes experiences weave a tapestry of knowledge
You are really right when you say that reincarnation is based on personal experience .I have already believed in reincarnation but ,since June(this year ) I began to think more deeply in it. I discovered that a friend who I really love was my son in my last past life and for this reason i have been searching all possible things that can explain to me the reasons of reecarnation .So,I've got the Carol's book " return form heaven" and it makes me consider many things that in the past I didn't .


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