Susie
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The time between lives depends on what the soul chooses.
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Here is what Steven Bowman has to say about the time between lives:The time between can vary depending on a lot of different things. It seems to me that in most cases there is a period of several years between death, and re-birth. I do know of cases in which the time is less; usually the person died in some sort of accident (although not all accident victims come back right away.) My older daughter was in the 'between' state for at least 20 years, maybe longer (my husband knows better in this case). On the other hand a very good friend of ours was 'between' for less than a year. (only a couple of months)
I think that you use this time to reflect on your past life, and the lessons you learned. Then, if you wish, observe the goings on of those still in the flesh. Or you can do it in reverse...observe and assist those in the flesh until they join you and then reflect together on life.
What we're finding from our cases and from careful study of Dr. Ian Stevenson's cases is that there are *no rules* about the interval. It's very personal. Some souls are impatient (or highly motivated, etc.) and come back immediately. Some take their time and wait many years (or have intervening lives we don't hear about).
In fact, there are a few cases where the interval is less than 9 months. It seems that the relationship between soul and fetus is quite fluid, with the soul moving in and out during fetal gestation, and the link might not be "permanent" until well into the pregnancy, even at birth.
In general, we're finding that most rigid rules about the afterlife are more an artificial attempt to codify the unknown, or a highly personal vision, than they are based in fact. From the cases, it seems to be much more organic, highly varied and complex. And, incidently, very much open to free will and personal choice.