I think I had a flashback last night
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tanguerra
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Well Poppy,
I would respect the workings of the universe and not fight against them (you wont win). Perhaps now is not the time? Perhaps your friend has picked up a 'vibe' which has frightened him or disconcerted him and he needs to take a 'time out'. This is all perfectly OK and very understandable.
I would just go easy for the moment and see what happens next. Just keep it lighthearted if you do run into him again, and don't mention any of this stuff for the time being. It will only frighten him away more. Just talk about the weather or the football or something, so he gets to know that you are not a mad person and are not frightening or anything and mean him no harm.
You have all eternity, after all.
Meanwhile, if you just can't leave it alone I would try writing out the whole story in long hand. If you are not sure of a detail, close your eyes, take a few deep breaths and just write the first thing that comes. It has a way of being the thing you are looking for. Pretend you are just making up a story for fun and see what comes out of that.
I would respect the workings of the universe and not fight against them (you wont win). Perhaps now is not the time? Perhaps your friend has picked up a 'vibe' which has frightened him or disconcerted him and he needs to take a 'time out'. This is all perfectly OK and very understandable.
This is all fairly scary stuff, after all. As I said, most people don't have these memories in their conscious awareness, but they are right there in the unconscious (whatever that is). His seeing you may have stirred up some feelings of things being 'not right' even though he may not understand why.
I would just go easy for the moment and see what happens next. Just keep it lighthearted if you do run into him again, and don't mention any of this stuff for the time being. It will only frighten him away more. Just talk about the weather or the football or something, so he gets to know that you are not a mad person and are not frightening or anything and mean him no harm.
You have all eternity, after all.
Meanwhile, if you just can't leave it alone I would try writing out the whole story in long hand. If you are not sure of a detail, close your eyes, take a few deep breaths and just write the first thing that comes. It has a way of being the thing you are looking for. Pretend you are just making up a story for fun and see what comes out of that.
Thanks so much for replying Tanguerra
It's times like these that I wish I never had any past life connections and flash backs. It's not normal to feel like this with someone you've never even met before. When I think of never ever being in contact with him again.....it actually hurts!
I'm seriously thinking of being regressed and hopefully I can feel some sort of closure with all of this. Now all I need to do is find a reputable regressionist in my area.
It's times like these that I wish I never had any past life connections and flash backs. It's not normal to feel like this with someone you've never even met before. When I think of never ever being in contact with him again.....it actually hurts!
I'm seriously thinking of being regressed and hopefully I can feel some sort of closure with all of this. Now all I need to do is find a reputable regressionist in my area.
tanguerra
Moderator Emeritus
Well, perhaps it's not normal, but it happens and it is something that needs to be dealt with. I know it can be painful and upsetting, but wishing it would go away or trying to repress it won't fix the problem. No doubt you have some 'unfinished business' with this guy and I would counsel you to see this experience as a gift and an opportunity to work it out rather than a pain in the proverbial.
I think a professional regression is probably a good idea if you can afford it, especially if it is upsetting you so much. At least you can get to the bottom of what happened way back when, which is the first step to unraveling the mystery and resolving your feelings about it.
Good luck. Try to remain serene. Be assured all will be well.
I think a professional regression is probably a good idea if you can afford it, especially if it is upsetting you so much. At least you can get to the bottom of what happened way back when, which is the first step to unraveling the mystery and resolving your feelings about it.
Good luck. Try to remain serene. Be assured all will be well.
Hey Just a quick update, not that theres anything important to report! lol
I was right, he did break contact with me which makes me kind of sad if I really think about it. I haven't contacted anyone with regards to regression either, I'm having trouble dealing with the connection with him which is still hanging around from time to time. I just think I need to close the connection somehow and carry on without opening up anymore sadness.
Basically I just wanted you all to know that I haven't forgotten about this site and I will post anything else I may get in the future.
Just a quick update, not that theres anything important to report! lolI was right, he did break contact with me which makes me kind of sad if I really think about it. I haven't contacted anyone with regards to regression either, I'm having trouble dealing with the connection with him which is still hanging around from time to time. I just think I need to close the connection somehow and carry on without opening up anymore sadness.
Basically I just wanted you all to know that I haven't forgotten about this site and I will post anything else I may get in the future.
