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Leininger Book Foreword

deborah

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The following was written by Carol Bowman and is the foreword to the new book Soul Survivor.

The story of James Leininger is the best American case of a child’s past life memory I’ve ever seen. I’ve been looking for a case this good for twenty years. It’s extraordinary because little James remembered names and places from his past life that could be traced to real people and actual events—facts that could be verified. He was even re-united with some of the people who knew him as an ace World War II pilot in his former life.

I believe this is the story that will finally open the minds of skeptical Westerners to the reality of children’s past life memories. And it will demonstrate how children’s past life memories can have profound emotional and spiritual benefits for both the child and family.

In some ways, James’s story is not unusual. Many children all over the world have past life memories. It’s a natural phenomenon. I know this because I began collecting and researching these cases more than twenty years ago after my own two children had their own vivid past life memories. My son remembered dying on a Civil War battlefield; my daughter remembered dying as a child in a house fire. I was astonished when I observed that just by talking about their memories they were both cured of phobias relating to their past life deaths.

Surely, this had happened to other families, too. But when I searched through books to understand what happened to my own children, I couldn’t find any that addressed the healing effects of children’s past life memories, only books about adults being healed through past life regression therapy. I decided to fill in the gap and wrote Children’s Past Lives as a guidebook for other parents who might encounter these memories in their own children.

After the publication of my first book in 1997 and the launch of my website, www.ReincarnationForum.com , I received thousands of emails from parents whose very young children had spontaneous past life memories. With so many cases, I began to see recurring patterns in the phenomenon. I saw that some children begin to speak of these memories as soon as they can talk—some still in diapers! They surprise their parents with comments such as “when I was big before”, or “when I died before”. Or they exhibit unusual behaviors: phobias, nightmares, unlearned talents and perplexing abilities, or uncanny insight into adult affairs they couldn’t possibly know about in their two or three years of experience. Some memories manifest as strong emotions, such as profound sadness as they recount lonely deaths on battlefields, fond memories of a particular horse, or longing for their other families, their wives, their husbands, their own children.

The cases that came to me were rich in drama, full of amazement and compelling emotions for the families. But one thing was lacking: there weren’t any cases that could be factually verified, that offered objective proof that the memories are real. My children, and none of the other children whose memories I investigated, could remember their former names, or where they had lived, or any other hard facts that could be traced or validated. That’s why the case of James Leininger is so unusual.

But James’s case is not unique. There is a large body of verified cases of past life memories in young children in non-Western cultures. Dr. Ian Stevenson, former head of the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Virginia Medical School, researched children’s spontaneous past life recall for forty years, beginning in the early 1960s. By the time of his death in 2007, he had rigorously investigated and meticulously documented nearly 3,000 cases, mostly in Asia. In nearly 700 of these cases young children, usually under the age of five, have such vivid past life recall that they remember their former names, where they had lived, the names of relatives, and very specific yet mundane details of their former lives, details that Dr. Stevenson proves they couldn’t possibly know by normal means. Using the child’s statements, Dr. Stevenson establishes the child’s identify in his previous life and validates the memories with former family members and friends of the deceased. He matches each child’s statements, behaviors, personality quirks, and even physical attributes (he wrote an entire work on birthmarks and birth defects relating to past lives) to the facts of the actual person the child remembers being. The similarities go far beyond mere chance or coincidence.

Yet as amazing as Dr. Stevenson’s findings are, the great majority of his cases are from cultures in which reincarnation is a dominant belief: India, Burma, Thailand, Turkey, Lebanon, West Africa, and some indigenous people of the Pacific Northwest. This makes it easier for skeptics to dismiss his findings, no matter how rigorous the proof, because these cultures already believe in reincarnation. I knew it would take a highly detailed and verifiable case from a Judeo-Christian family to open Western minds to this reality. But neither Dr. Stevenson, his international colleagues, or I had found any American or European cases as richly detailed as the Asian cases. This was puzzling, and more than a little frustrating.
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Then, in 2001, I got an email from Andrea Leininger. At first glance, her email was like many others I had received from anxious parents. Her two and a half-year-old son, James, suffered from severe, recurring nightmares of his plane crashing. He was also obsessed with airplanes and seemed to have an uncanny knowledge of World War II planes in particular. As I read Andrea’s email, I noticed facts that fit a pattern I had seen in many other cases: nightmares of events a child couldn’t possibly have experienced in their two or three short years of life, and an interest or an obsession relating to the content of the nightmare.
We exchanged emails, and I was impressed with Andrea’s insights. I got the feeling that she and her husband, Bruce, were down-to-earth, educated people who were wrestling to understand what was happening to their precious, young son. They were also looking for a way to help ease his terrifying nightmares that were disrupting the whole family’s well-being. I was also intrigued by James’s extensive knowledge of airplanes, facts that even his parents didn’t know.


I told the Leiningers that James was probably remembering a past life death, and reiterated the techniques in my books: acknowledge what James was going through as a literal experience, and assure him that he is now safe, that the scary experience is over. Other parents had reported that these techniques had worked with their own children to help allay their fears and let go of the painful memories of a traumatic past life death. Andrea understood immediately, because she intuitively knew what was happening with James—that he was suffering from actual memories of his plane crashing. I reassured her that she was capable of helping her son.


I didn’t hear from Andrea after that, and assumed it meant that my advice had helped, and James was better. Then, about a year later, a producer for ABC’s 20/20 contacted me about doing a segment on children’s past lives. I scanned all my emails and pulled out a few promising cases, including the Leiningers’. I found myself wondering what had happened with James.


I called Andrea to get an up-date and tell her about the 20/20 proposal. She was happy to report that she had followed my method and that James’s nightmares had all but stopped. That was great news!


But there was more. Although the nightmares had subsided, and James’s fears about the plane crashing had dissipated, he continued to amaze them with new details about his life as a fighter pilot. This was unusual because in most of the cases I had seen, the explicit memories tend to fade once the child’s memory is acknowledged and emotions of the past life trauma are released.
 
James was remembering much more. He remembered the type of plane he flew, the name of his aircraft carrier, and the name of one of his pilot friends. I was excited that this case was still progressing and hoped even more that the Leiningers would share their story on TV. Andrea was open to the idea, but she had to consult with Bruce, of course. I told her to think it through carefully, and I would be happy to talk to her husband.
In my first conversation with Bruce his opening line to me was, “You have to understand, I’m a Christian”. I felt I had hit a wall. I jumped to the conclusion that I’d have to find another case for TV. But then Bruce surprised me when he added, “But I can’t explain what’s happening with my son.” We talked some more and I sensed an opening. Clearly, he was struggling to keep his Christian beliefs intact as he tried to understand what was happening to James, and he desperately needed to explain it in some other way than reincarnation. I understood how shocking this was for him, and offered my reassurance that this was all “normal”. With that, our acquaintance was renewed, and we began to talk about appearing on TV together.


The TV show was a great success, the story was presented clearly and fairly. We were all pleased. Over the next few years, we exchanged dozens of emails. Andrea sent me photos of James and his many drawings of planes being shot down. We spent hours on the phone talking excitedly about James’s latest revelations about his life as a pilot. They shared with me the amazing coincidences, one after another, that led them farther and farther down the rabbit hole.


For Andrea and me, each revelation was a confirmation of what we already knew—that James was remembering an actual past life. But Bruce continued to struggle. Each revelation just added to his conflict.


In a way, this book is about Bruce as much as it is about James. It shows how he was torn between his deep Christian belief “that we live only once, we die, and then go to heaven”, and what he was witnessing in his own son. No matter how hard he tried, he couldn’t explain away what he was seeing. Bruce’s conflict is a testament to how real his son’s memories were.


Bruce’s drive to disprove James’s past life memories adds weight and credibility to their story. We see how hard he works to find a “rational” explanation for what James was experiencing. We watch as he tracks down leads with the dogged perseverance of a detective, not satisfied with anything less than hard facts. The body of evidence he and Andrea amassed, through their diligent research, is one of the reasons their story is so special.


The Leiningers’ story is special in other ways, as well. We are witness to something miraculous in the way young James touched the hearts of so many. His family, the family of his previous life, and the veterans who fought beside him in his former life were all deeply affected by James and his memories. What came so naturally to this little boy shook the beliefs of those around him. His story reveals a new perspective on life and death for anyone who sees that this was not just a child’s imaginings, but something achingly real.


Carol Bowman


Author of Children’s Past Lives and Return From Heaven
 
Wonderfully written, Carol!


Thank you for posting the foreword, Deborah! I'm really looking forward to reading the Leiningers' book. I love the story of James; how the family experienced his memories and how the process of validation happened for them. Truly a remarkable case :D
 
Thank you for posting this - it was a great read :thumbsup: I'm looking forward to reading the book too!
 
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