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Life In Pre-Civil War New Orleans

Lights

Lights
I separated this from the Vesuvius thread since it happened in another life.
At the age of approximately 23, I set about taking a placee. A placee for those who haven’t heard the term before, were young ladies of colour who served as a mistress to wealthy white Creole gentlemen. As my family was of some prominence, I received an invitation to a ball given by the Societe Cordon Bleu, an association of wealthy and prominent families which presented their daughters for placage at balls which would be roughly approximate to debutante balls.
Those who did not have my advantages of birth and family fortune would attend a Quadroon Ball where young ladies of less prominent families were presented. Many of the families of breeding and wealth looked down at the Quadroon Balls—it was not unusual for men to persist in pursuit of young ladies who had made their rejection of the men in question quite clear. What made the balls even more outré in our view was that many of the men who had the nerve to treat the young ladies thus were Northerners.

The rules of the balls, be they Cordon Bleu or Quadroon, required that if a gentleman was to be rejected, he was not to persist in his attentions, but was to seek another young lady. Any disrespect towards the young ladies was swiftly punished by ejection. Most of us did not look down on placage as by my time, it had been an institution in New Orleans for over sixty years. Most of the young ladies who would be presented that year had been born into families in which placage had been practiced for two or three generations. It was considered completely respectable for a young man to take a placee until he married. Unofficially, many of the liaisons continued even after the gentleman had married. A very few never married and remained with their placees…sometimes maintaining a separate residence for appearances sake.

I can see myself looking in the mirror before setting out. I am wearing a black frock coat with velvet lapels, a silver brocade vest, black cravat. Along with a top hat, I have a walking stick of ebony with a rather ornate silver head. I am slender, just a bit of a cast to my complexion from Spanish blood—my mother’s side—curly blue-black hair and large, dark brown eyes. Contrary to the style popular amongst my class, I am clean-shaven. I have simply never cared for facial hair so I have never cultivated it.
After being schooled in France I have returned home to work in the office my father maintains in the City to sell produce from our plantation. I have a private apartment on St. Peter St. not far from Jackson Square—closer to Canal Street than to Esplanade, the streets which border the French Quarter on two sides. The other borders are the Mississippi River and somewhat parallel to it, Rampart St. I am most fond of this part of New Orleans as to me, the Vieux Carre as we call it, is the part of the City which is closest to France. Although I do read and speak Creole, it is a matter of pride that I speak real French as well.

After arriving at the ball and handing in my invitation, I enter a large room where young ladies are seated in chairs, all hoping to be chosen this night. It is obvious with what love and care they have been dressed by their mothers—every frock is of the latest style. They resemble a field of flowers—every shade and colour and fabric is represented. Blue, green, rose, lilac, purple, wine, deep golds, sage, brown, red, silver…the variety seems endless.

Then, I see her. She is seated in a chair, dressed in a gown of deep rose taffeta and gauze. The hem has been finished off in silver ribbon that has been folded so that the hem is a series of points. The ruffle which hangs down from the off-the-shoulder neckline has been embroidered in delicate silver thread. Around a tiny waist is a wide sash tied in back in a perfect bow, long streamers handing down in back. Around her neck is a delicate necklace set with dark rose stones, a necklace as delicate as the young lady herself. Her skin is a very light cafe au lait. Her face is a heart shape, her hair drawn back from a center part to accent a widow's peak. She has large, slightly-slanted nearly-black eyes high cheekbones, a straight nose and full, rosy lips. Her hair is a very deep mahogany colour, and is drawn up in back in a silver snood. I am enchanted at this first sight of her.
 
Thanks for sharing Lights :thumbsup:


That is an amazing level of detail you remembered there, but it all seems to end rather abruptly, have you remembered any more from this lifetime?
 
Those are very detailed memories! Wow! Do you remember anything else about this lifetime? I've always been drawn to an old-style New Orleans but I don't know what time period. Do you have other memories of New Orleans?
 
Lights,


Your writing reminds me very much of the work of Taylor Caldwell, one of my most favorite authors. You have exceptional writing skill and the ability to make a scene come alive with details. I wonder if you have ever considered expanding your stories to a novel, or perhaps a collection of short stories.


Thank you for sharing your very vivid memories. I seldom get more than a brief glimpse with my recalls. On the other hand, I usually do past life work for a specific purpose (like finding a source for an allergy) and I do get what I ask for.


I look forward to more of your stories.
 
Not a bad idea about a novel. I may discuss the concept with my better half!


I have been dreaming and flashbacking a lot to past lives, especially since coming to understand reincarnation. When I visited New Orleans several times in 2002-2003, that really opened the floodgates to this particular past life...I will post more but am going off to a 4th of July Party.
 
My heart pounding, I approach and ask her if she would like to dance. She nods, rises, and I escort her to where the other couples dance. It is a waltz and I find that she is an excellent dancer, very light on her feet.


She tells me that she has recently come home from school--from her accent which is more French than Cajun, she must have been schooled in France. I speak to her in French and to my happiness, she is fluent as I am in "true French." She is utterly charming and cultured--she will make a most suitable placee should I be so fortunate as to be able to speak with her Maman and if she approves. She tells me that her name is Marie, but that since little, she has been called Marette.


Three days later, I arrived at her home, one-half of a two famil side-by-side cottage. It is painted a lovely yellow with blue paint under the eaves to discourage insects along with full-length deep green storm shutters. A young slave woman opens the door and after accepting my calling card she takes me into a small but beautifully-furnished parlour and goes to get her mistress. In a few moments, Marette's mother walks in, bids me sit, and after a few softly-spoken words to the slave, she sits down on the sofa near me.


"Monsieur, I have spoken with Marette and she is quite taken with you. I assume that you have your letters with you?"


After the young slave girl brings in a tea pot and cups, and pastries on a silver tray, she places them on the table and leaves. It is obvious that Marette's mother's household is very well-run.


As we sip tea, she peruses the letters I have presented to her, no hint on her face as to the impression they are making, be it good or bad. I sip tea and nibble at a pastry, my heart pounding. This is one of the biggest events of my life thus far and I hope with all my heart that she will be satisfied with my personal and credit references. At last, she lays the letters on the table and smiles at me.


"Monsieur, you must understand that my daughter is my treasure. I have raised her to be a credit to the man who takes her as his placee, just as my mother raised me. Marette's father was a prominent physician here in the City. He died a couple of years ago, but he left me very well provided for. We had three children together--my oldest son who has a small business, Marette, and her elder sister who is already a placee herself." From her tone, it was obvious that the union had been an affectionate one. "You know of course, that a home for the two of you will need to be purchased. If you wish to live here in the Quarter, it would be very nice as Marette would not be far away. Of course, there is also the Faubourg-Marigny." She is referring to the district just across Esplanade--from her tone of voice it is obvious that it is not as appropriate an address as the Quarter.


"I will be purchasing a home in the Quarter," I assur her, "I am very attached to the Quarter myself. If you like I can call on you when the arrangements are made."


"I should like to furnish it myself so that the surroundings will be at least comforting and familiar for Marette."


"Of course. I understand. I shall seek a realtor upon leaving to make all the arrangements."
 
Wow those are extremely detailed memories! How did they come to you? Was it through dreams that you experienced these memories? Thank you for sharing them. :)
 
It has been over the past 8 years that I have come to know of past lives. This one has come through dreams and flashbacks the times I visited New Orleans during the year I lived in Louisiana. I still dream and flashback as does my spouse from time to time. :)
 
My favourite dream of that life in New Orleans was of coming home after a day at my father's office and a drink with friends to find Marette dressed in a gown of champagne and green silk with pagoda sleeves and a blouse of cream gauze of some sort under it. We had planned to take a walk that day and so, since we were going out, she was wearing a green silk tignon over her hair. It is a sort of turban, tied in different ways to denote social rank and must be worn by all women of colour. Of course, the ladies have taken the tignon and made it their own, many usings silks, brocades, and brightly coloured cloth for the less affluent. Many wealthier women wore jewels and feathers in their tignons, much as the beaded tignon Marette's mother had worn at the Cordon Bleu Ball. The whites might disapprove of the sumptuousness of many tignons, but technically the ladies were not breaking the law--the law only stated that they had to wear a tignon. I never heard Marette complain about having to wear the tignon when out, but then she seldom complained, period. Like many wealthier free women of colour, she dressed up her tignons and the one she wore this day was no exception--it had been decorated with cream-coloured plumes and made her look quite lovely.


I admit that I was put-out at the laws by which Marette had to live--after all, she was an octoroon--a person of colour who was only-one eighth black. Indeed, she was lighter in complexion than many of my friends. However, even that small percentage of black blood forever barred her from white society. Our two children were only-one sixteenth but they, too, were limited to the society of the gens de coleur or "people of colour". Our daughter, Marie-Christine had, like her mother, been destined for placage from birth and our son, Jean- Philippe, would enter a profession amongst people of colour. I supposed their fate rankled me even more since they were both as light-skinned as any white I had ever known.


At this point, we only had Marie-Christine, who would have been about a year--Jean-Phillipe was still two years in the future. Even though she was only one year old, like her mother, she wore a tignon, but Marette had managed to make it quite fashionable with a plume or two. Marie-Christine had been dressed in a dark blue dress with a white lace collar, so Marette had chosen a tignon of blue and white stripes trimmed with white plumes.


I was quite proud of my two ladies and looked forward to taking them out on a leisurely stroll around the Vieux Carre (French Quarter). From the beginning, I knew that I was head-over-heels in love with Marette and if I could not marry her (I was forbidden by law to marry her), I would not marry at all As it turned out, I never did marry. My parents gave me grief about it but once they'd realisedthat I meant it, they let me be.
 
Thats a beautiful story Lights! Have you met Marette in this life? Have you been able to meet your children from that life in this life? Do you know what became of Marie Christine and Jean Phillippe in that life? Were you able to watch them grow up?
 
Hi, Obie. Yes, I have found Marette this life and she is my spouse. So far I have not found either our children.


I do know what happened to them until I died that life. Marie- Christine died along with Marette in a cholera epidemic not too log before the Civil War broke out. After the war started, I sent Jean-Philippe to live with his maternal grandmother (Marette's mother). As nearly as I can recall, I was on a Confederate ship and drowned when it sank.
 
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