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Volkman

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Hello, it's been a while since I last posted but I have been perusing the deeper into the forum and have enjoyed finding some real gems of stories.
What prompted this post is a recent experience I had. I live in a urban town (actually with over 100,000 people it qualifies as a small city) a few miles away from a major city in the United States. Downtown we have a fairly active nightlife, and I being 19 generally partake in such festivities. Last Friday I was at coffee shop at about 12:30 a.m. with some friends just hanging out enjoying ourselves. Also there, was a couple, both looking to be around 21-25 who looked like they had just come from a club or concert. I don't know what it was about them, but after looking at them for a moment, particularly the guy I had this immediate unprompted thought "that's what the nightlife in London during the early 1990's looked like." Even stranger I felt this sense of euphoria come over me and a feeling of "oh yeah I loved that." I think along with the environment we were in, it was something about the way the guy was dressed that prompted the feeling. I've only been to London once when I was 6, so I don't know what the nightlife scene is like. I've found also that music like some of ABBAs later hits and songs like "99 Luftballoons" and "There she goes" by the La's evoke kind of the same feeling, like they're songs that would've been played in a nightclub or performed in pub venues over there? I guess I'm not looking for validation but I want to know if any of you think this sounds like something along the lines of a spontaneous recall?
 
Hi, Volkman, welcome to the forum, if I haven't welcomed you before. I assume you're very young. I'm an American, but I did visit London briefly in '91, and I would have fallen into that age category. Those songs you mention are a bit earlier, though. ABBA was mostly popular in the late 70's, and the other two hail from the late 80's.
 
I wouldnt be surprised if you did spontaneously recall that memory.I believe all kinds of things can bring back memories that we think we have forgotten.I had a similar experience when I was sitting with a little girl I was caring for.She was playing with a toy car on a white bed sheet, and all of the sudden I felt nostalgic for the 1920's.It felt like a little shock in my mind and for half a second I was back in something..probably one of my own childhoods.
 
Jody, thank you for the response. Yes I was born in 96 so I'm on the younger side. You're correct, ABBA would've been about 10 years earlier, nena released 99 Luftballoons in 83, but the La's released there she goes in 90. So one could argue that if I was in my twenties around that time, I could've been familiar with all those songs. I'm currently searching for more songs that seem familiar like that.


AF- It is reassuring to know that you've experienced something in a similar manner. I'm not certain I believe in reincarnation, but I'm open minded enough to seek out answers, and this experience was a new one for me. It does tie into my like of many things that are characteristically British.
 
You know, ABBA did make a bit of a comeback with the popular movie "Muriel's Wedding" from 1994 ...
 
I've had those feelings. One time I was at a party and I had such a good feeling come over me. I felt so at peace with the people around me and like I fit in. I never really feel like I fit in anywhere usually. I had a much older man come up to me and he even told me he's not trying to hit on me, but he felt that he had known me and the others in the house party in almost a previous life and he asked me if I believed in reincarnation. At the exact same moment that I was thinking it!
 
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