melissa

[trenna]

I am hoping that someone could possibly help.
My daughter Melissa (now aged seven) has had past life memories since she could talk.
When she was little she would cry and say she wanted her mommy, i would tell her that i was here and she would respond "NO!, my other Mommy!" she has always been fascinated with movies made in the forties,fancy ball gowns that sort of thing. She is always aggresive at times but most of the time she is passive. My pediatrician had sent my daughter to counselling, she went for 1/2 years... they did alot of drawing therapy and that seemed to help. This was 2 years ago.. and up until now she has seemed to have been doing well... about 3 weeks ago she once again started to go into fits of crying.... and anger. She said that she misses her other mom and she describes her as having long black curly hair. she also mentioned that she remembered having a little puppy. She said the she just can't believe that she died...she said that when she remembers these things she gets really sad. she also said that she loves me very,very much but she wishes that she could be with her other mommy too! I do not know what to do, I am afraid that if i tell her DR. about this he will think that i am nuts... does anyone have any thoughts or ideas about this? Thank You

 

[Marsey]

HI Trenna,

I am the grandmother to Helena Rose. You may want to read it to feel less alone. This forum helped me alot at the time Helena seemed to be remembering her past life more acutely. She seems to have forgotten it now but it still seems to come up from time to time, for instance the tinkertoy incident.

She also used to very frequently pretend she was a "kitty cat". Her mom and I can only guess that perhaps the only other living thing for her to relate to after her mom and dad were murdered was a cat(we are guessing that she was left alone till she finially died also). They got her a kitty for her 3rd birthday.

Jane (her mom) says she and Helena fantasy play alot and recenty she always wants Jane to pretend that she's the grandma--which of course leaves room for the momma she lost so tragically.

Yes, I agree, don't bring her to a Dr. that does not believe in recarnation--it's hard enough without someone thinking you and your daughter are both nuts!

There seem to be alot of wise, compasionate people here in this forum. I really should read the book they speak of. The important thing is not to feel alone--you're not.

Marsey

 

[edhenders]

Can your daughter describe where she lived? Does she have any information that may help you find out who she was? I would not go to the doctor with this. Many more providers are becoming more open but most want to treat with medications. There must be a reason she feels such sadness. Maybe she feels she left too early and her mother suffered. Maybe in finding some answers for her she can begin to let it go.

 

[trenna]

HI, thanks for responding
she does not say wether or not she knows where she lived...and she does not say wether she knows the name of her Mom (past).
She seems to be doing better again... I should mention that since I was a very young child I would get now what I call "BUBBLES" It would of sort of feel like I was lying when I said them yet... I new they were not lies and usually within days they would happen..... this does not happen all the time nore did they as a child but they do still happen....... Oh and I also have ALOT of energy.... My family refuse to lone me their vehicles LOL I am always messing up the electrical...... I guess my point is that thank GOD I can understand a little about the feeling she has.. it can be very scary and at times a very lonely feeling (even know I do not know anything about my past life...except for I believe I was a DR.)
thanks again love Trenna